i hv pakistani bf,i meet him just on internet 2 years ago.till now he's still jobless,he alwayz blame me n complain me cuz of his condition.n u know he often having enjoy with other girls on internet.n my parents also not agree if i get marriage with him, cuz he's far away from my country.he got some money from me,cuz i wanna support his for move out from pakistan.but still failed.cuz of that, all the blame is in on me?so...i can't do anything without my parents.we have not enough money , cuz my parents will not support me if i am with him.if he's jobless it's my faults?then finally he asked me for our meeting in real, but i am not agree, cuz he's still jobless.then he get mad.but we are also boring with this condition,what shoul i do now?
2007-07-18 03:55:09 · 12 answers · asked by mango 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learning the English, find man & take he monies too.
2007-07-18 03:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Um, sweetie, I don't know how old you are (you sound very young to me) but if you are old enough to work to support yourself you should! If you are not, well of course your parents won't support this human sponge you are trying to call your bf! Honey, he is no good! Not for you or anyone. He only wants your money so he can screw around or get drugs or whatever. You have seen for yourself how he would treat you. He has no spine. Everything is someone elses' fault because he has no balls, he is not a man but a mooch.
Drop him like he's hot and give yourself a good look over. YOU deserve better!
2007-07-18 11:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by dark_amaranth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him..he lives millions of miles away..who knows if hes already married..stop sending him money..hes not worth it and find yourself a man here..if hes blaming you for something with out making sense then that means hes feeling guilty of something and just wants you to feel bad for it...don't think about him and move on with your life..hes a stealer and a user...don't waste your time honey...theres plenty more fish in the sea and who work and live in US...<33
2007-07-18 11:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Sucks to be you. I don't know what to tell you because you're in a culture that is totally different from mine. When we're old enough to start dating, it's out decision...not our parents. If you can't do anything without your parents, then I guess you should give them this question you wrote here and see what they intend to do differently in respect to your happiness, for a change.
2007-07-18 11:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not to blame if he is jobless.That is his responsibility.You have done what you could for him,now you just keep quite and let him do something about his job.Take a decision very carefully so that you do not regret it later.
2007-07-18 11:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a free loader. He needs to get a job, pay his bills and stop taking money from you...Is he handicapped or something. Is not able to work? If he is full functioning,then he has no excuse. GET RID OF HIM....
2007-07-18 11:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns. If you want a guy with a job then stick to that. There's no point in getting with this loser and having to support both you and him since your parents will cut you off. Just let him know that you won't be with him unless he is in a better place financially.
2007-07-18 11:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by screwed 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a new bf he's just gonna keep blaming u for all of his problems. you didn't cause him not to have a job he is just lazy
you seem to have a good head on your shoulders so loose him and find a real man
2007-07-18 10:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by PROUD AMERICAN WOMAN 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think he is just using u for ur financial support.... theres no fault of urs... just leave him....
2007-07-18 11:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by piya g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is using you. drop him and move on...
2007-07-18 11:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋