i found out that my boyfriend did not have his phone yesterday and that his so-called wife got ahold of it and was pretending to be him. i was trying to tell him that my ex husband was coming back from california and "he" said good then i don't need him because i can get serviced by the other guy, to which i responded there was absolutely no way because i loved him with all my heart and couldn't stand the thought of being with anyone else. then "he" said he was supposedly happy with his wife, and i asked if that was so then why did he make love to me the day before and talk about how we might be together sooner rather than later. ok so right there i just told the woman that i was still sleeping with him and that we had plans on being together. does anybody think it'll get her to finally get a clue and go away or just play her stupid head games even more than before? and please don't bother telling me to leave him cuz i'm not going to.
2007-07-18 03:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by robin s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actually i'm a divorced woman waiting for him to be divorced and she is a manipulative b**ch who went to his mom's house to find his phone, and the only reason she is even around was because she didn't want to be homeless
2007-07-18 04:28:56 · update #1
AHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! You're a married woman, sleeping with a married man, and you're feeling deceived because someone pretended to be someone else when TEXTING you?? Perhaps if you'd had some morals in the first place, you wouldn't be in this situation.
2007-07-18 04:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! You have yourself in such a tangled mess. Did it ever occur to you that this man, HER husband is leading you on? That maybe he has no intention of ever leaving her? And that you could be his casual fling of the moment?
I hope that is not the case, for you, as you have invested time, energy and emotion.
But it is always dangerous to get involved with another woman's man, no matter how much you love them, because in the end, these men belong to someone else and you are only the "second" person in their lives and always will be.
It is very, very, very rare that men leave in these circumstances.
2007-07-18 11:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by dark_amaranth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are dumb for :
1. being with a married man
2. believing that it wasn't him (sounds like guy talk to me)
3. being childish with your messages about "making love" (aka fuc*ing)
4. saying that you are not going to leave him
5. expecting that if you and him ever got together, that you would be the only one, if he is doing this to his wife, and you are merely his ":girlfriend"
6. continuing to believe that he loves you when he only wants sex, cuz obviously if his wife got his phone (so he says) they are still living together, and he might have been right there the whole time while she was texting you and laughing at you, dumba$$!
look at what you wrote, "we might be together sooner", what a dumbas$
2007-07-18 10:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused, this is a mess, and if you are going to stay with him, then why get on here and ask this inane question? Just do what you want to do.
2007-07-18 12:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh what a tangled web we weave when we first learn to deceive...
I predict bad things for your future.
2007-07-18 10:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He will never leave his wife for you.
2007-07-18 10:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW YOU ARE A SICK B**CH
2007-07-18 10:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋