i am dating this guy that my friend likes.he likes me and not my friend.she told me its ok if i date him so i am.so today i told her i was dating him amd she called me a backstabbing b***ch.she said that i had to choose her or him.what should i do.who should i chose.
2007-07-18 03:53:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off your friend should be happy that you are with a guy that you like, even if she likes him as well. Second, she doesnt have the power to tell u yes u can date him or no u cant. Second of fyou did not choose one or the other and if they never had a previous relationship she has nothing to be upset or angry over adn you need to express these feelings with her. Do not leave a good relationship because of petty jealousy.
2007-07-18 03:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a hard decision. Why don't they like each other? There has to be a reason. You should have a talk with the both of them and tell them how you feel about this situation. But remember guys come and go, friendship is something special. Just tell them how you feel. Hope everything works out for you.
2007-07-18 11:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. A real friend would be happy for you. Plus, you always choose friends over relationships. Bro's before Hoe's. That applies to girls as well. Your friends will always be there for you, a guy wont, next pretty thing that crosses his sight, he'll be over you. The friend you have now isn't a good one either. Get rid of her.
2007-07-18 10:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by fduarte21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, your friend is not being a very good friend. She is the b**** not you. She said it was OK till he chose you over her. He has the right to choose who he wants to date. Maybe he did not choose her because of her attitude? In the end, ultimatums will only hurt YOU not either of them.
2007-07-18 11:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by dark_amaranth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. your friend told you it was ok, and then once you start dating the guy she freaks out and is going to make you choose. She's not being much of a friend then. I would stay with the boyfriend, and I would tell your friend that you aren't going to choose. That you are going to stay with your boyfriend, and if she decides to be your friend that you will be hers to, but if not then that it would be her choice and not yours.
2007-07-18 11:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her if she is your friend she will understand.. and talk with your bf.. And do u really love him so much so u are ready 2 lose a friend? But choosing between best friend and just a guy of course best friend!! anyways Good luck :)
2007-07-18 10:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should choose your best friend because a boy friends might come and go but your friendship will always last a life time.
2007-07-18 11:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Barbie Montana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooww , Sorry Sweetheart but she does not sound like a friend to me. Second, I would have never done what you did, regardless. Good Luck in your quest for answers.
2007-07-18 10:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Ross he got it spot on and not to Marcy the girl got issues... Writing in Caps and all.... Been burned by a guy recently Marcy....?? Ha Ha
2007-07-18 11:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER CHOOSE A GUY OVER A FRIEND..THERE ARE PLENTY OF GUYS IN THE WORLD, BESIDES HOW LONG DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN WITH HIM? NOT LONG IM SURE. BUT THAT FRIEND WILL BE THERE FOREVER IF YOU TREAT THAT FRIENDSHIP WITH CARE AND RESPECT
2007-07-18 10:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋