i feel as though i want a guy who is loving, caring, supportive and willing to listen and understand me as i have OCD. Am i asking for too much in a guy?
2007-07-18 01:32:41 · 12 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have lots of love to give back or more so but no one to give to. sad really...and when the word OCD pops up, they run a mile. I need a guy who can understand my OCD coz its a part of me and im on medication for it but can it REALLY come between me and a potential partner? could it destroy me and my love life forever?
2007-07-18 01:43:44 · update #1
No I don't believe you are asking for too much.. You are a normal human being with OCD. You need a man that is supportive of you and your OCD. And you need to be loved and cared for just like any other person without OCD.
Guys are pigs, and tend to stray away from women with problems. But there is a guy out there, and you will find him, just be patient.. He is out there and he will love you, care for you, and understand you and your OCD, and he will be there for you til the end!
2007-07-18 01:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by jenjen2_46514 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally wouldnt mind dating a woman with OCD. all relationships will have some sort of challange to overcome. you'll find a guy who will match to you, and will love you as much as you love him.
i know what its like to have "so much love to give" to someone but dont just settle for any guy, find the one who you can get along with welll and try and see him as a long term relationship (see you and him together for the next 30 or so years together), that way you'll sort of know if he's the one for you.
i know most guys wouldnt mind if their partner has OCD. the ones who "ran a mile" obviously aint for you, so be happy that they did run and aint with you, because its obvious their pricks! and you dont want a prick
good luck
2007-07-18 01:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Marv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, its not too much to ask for! Just be up front and dont try to hide things, you shouldnt have to settle because you have OCD and take some loser who is just desperate. If they cant be all of that to you then they're not worth your time!
2007-07-18 01:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Candie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying.. but in a realtionship it's 50/50 or you will be heading for disaster.
2007-07-18 01:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dj' s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Just have patience and he will come along.
But also realize that a guy will not want to babysit you and tend to your every need... You also need to be independent and take care of yourself.
2007-07-18 01:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, we can just get two more points on tis one... You will never find that kind of guy. It should come from both sides
2007-07-18 01:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by goldman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you all those things? If not then, you are asking too much!
Also do you know anyone like this?
2007-07-18 01:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Giggles, try not to be too obsessive and that depends what you are obsessed with, don't try to obsesse your friends, most can't be obsessed. Jimmy.
2007-07-18 02:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be too needy.. He should have a life besides being with you too..
2007-07-18 01:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
no your not at all. keep your head up you will find him soon
2007-07-18 01:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋