whats ur opinion?

Question

I have a boyfriend and we have known eachother for more then five years we are back together now. My boyfriend has a fantacy of me being with his friend or another man and him watching or joining but its not me and i told him that im not interested so he keeps mentioning it because he likes talking about it and thinking about it i guess. I think he is testing me because the reason why we broke up in the past its because i was with another guy so i think he is testing me to see if ill do that again well i never cheated i just left him for another and to see what i wanted because my boyfriend now was my first love . Your opinion on this would be great do u think as i do that he is testing me to make sure he can trust me again im almost 100% sure that trusts me pl;us he can trust me but whenever he mentions this i feel like he does not trust which i undrstand. If u can make sense of this and give me feedback opinions advice it would be good to know what other people though

Answer 1

Just tell him that the subject just makes you really uncomfortable. And yes he may be testing the waters to see where you might lead him to, but then again many men have this same particular fantasy, but the strangest thing is him saying that he wants to join in while watching you with another man.... Hmmmm..

I think you may have bigger issues here then wheather he is testing your waters so to speak...

Answer 2

Hi..
I think you're perfectly right in thinking that he just wants to see what you would say..
You're smart not to fall for his trick..
Just tell him..that he's all you need..And you hope he feels the same way about you!

Take care and have a wonderful summer..

Answer 3

I' m really sorry sweety but i think your boyfriend may be bysexual

Answer 4

Follow your head not your heart

If you don't want to do it, don't do it

Make it plain to him how you feel