well i feel like since my boyfriend cusins resently came to vist him and they were talking about how they lost there virginity at 13 and he is our age so my boyfriend thinks he should too but i really want to wait for marriage .. but is there a way i can please him but with no intercorse and no blowjobs like just kissing and touching nothing more what eles can i do to please him even more ??
2007-07-18 02:10:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're 13? Hon - you shouldn't be thinking about sex or pleasing your boyfriend at all! I applaud you for wanting to wait until marriage before you have sex...might I suggest you wait until you are maturer before you consider other sexual forms. You're too young physically and mentally...wait until you're with someone who is truly worthy of that attention, please!!
2007-07-18 02:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by joesgrl90 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He's just feeling pressured by his cousin and feels like he's missing out on something. He doesn't really realize what a special thing it is. Losing your virginity should be something you want to do with someone because you're in love and want to be with that person either forever, or for a very long time and respect them. I think he's just jealous of his cuz. You should talk to him about it and stick to your gut about waiting til marriage, he should respect you for that. As far as... keeping him happy? If he loves you, kissing and making out should be enough for him. sorry to say, though, the bj might be something to think about lol... or just hj
2007-07-18 02:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by tish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on your temper and what you're after - in case you basically want some thing very rapid alleviation, then sure! yet once you want to 'make love' with a miles better half, sharing an intimate journey, then a ******** probable isn't the main suitable concern wherein to realize this with...
2016-10-08 23:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you are asking questions about what you can do to please him ,then you are too young for sex of any kind to begin with. Tell your boy friend to please himself if he is that hard up to feel something sexually stimulating. Intercourse isn't the only form of sex.....oral sex included.....sex is sex regardless how you sugarcoat it. Just take the time you need for your mind and body to fully mature. B/c I can almost bet that you will not have "great" sex until you grow up and mature a lot more. I know a lot of girls who have faked it feeling good just for their boyfriends b/c they are too young to fully experience the joys and passions of making love to someone that you REALLY love. Sex and making love is totally different. Sex you can live to regret over time.....making love you will never regret b/c it will be at the right time and for the right reason and with the right person. Just slow down and enjoy your youth. You will have plenty of chances to please him in the future...that is if he's still around ...which statistics say he will not be around in a couple of yrs....
2007-07-18 02:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by steph 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strip
2007-07-18 02:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by moon 111 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
...I suppose a little slippery hand job would be out of the question presumably?....but then honey?...you're only a very young woman otherwise. Things will start occurring sexually for you soon enough babe. Use your own desires as your own guide to satisfaction....not somebody else's really!
....are we cool on this stuff babe?
2007-07-18 02:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
difficult situation...
you know,boys are not satisfied easily...
they always want more...
you give him a handjob-great!
but next week he has fed up with it and wants sth else..
ok,try a sexy show...
it's wonderfull,bla,bla,bla...
next month he wants more...
and so the story goes...
boys always will be boys and want sexsexsexsexsexsex!
now,let him watch while you are pleasing yourself...
tricky...coz then you might want more...
just let the things go as it flows and if he pushes you,leave him..
2007-07-18 02:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by xadakia 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
so you guys are around 13?! geez ok umm you could go to his house get into his room and do everything except keep your pants on lol just...dont strip basically i mean no WAY is his d i c k getting in you if you're wearing pants...
2007-07-18 02:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can do him the favor of breaking the relationship off and advising him to find someone else
2007-07-18 02:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Pe-nan-ce 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? don't have s*x when you are noy ready. However, touching and caressing can fulfill both of you without intercourse.
2007-07-18 02:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jeez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋