I know this guy is the one. How do you know it's too early to jump in to a wedding ?

Question

date, time, god, jeasue, how to get him really for wedding.

Answer 1

what does "jeasue" mean?

Answer 2

I dated my husband for 5 months before we were engaged and we were married after only dating 8 months. I knew right away he was the one. We've now been married 2 years and are on baby #2. I would say it depends on you and him. Do you have some things in common but not everything so you can have part of your life as your own? Do you have the same values and goals for the most part? Can you both contribute things to each other to make the other one a better person? These are all things to think of also if you need to get him ready for a wedding then he's not ready for marriage. You both should already be ready for that before getting married. Some people say date for at least a year or be engaged for a year. I've known other couples who dated for years at least 4 + and their marriages ended after 3 months. Then we have a friend who dated for 3 months before getting married and have been married for 9 years. Definitely go to marriage counseling and talk to him about it or to family and friend who know you both not to strangers who don't know you or him.

Answer 3

When I met my boyfriend I knew that I was it, I didnt want to be with anybody else. But at the same time I didnt want to get married at that point, or have children at that point. Even if you are in love with someone and know you want to marry them, doesnt mean you have to rush things. The couple time you have before you get married is often the most special of your relationship with memories that you will treasure later in your married years. You might think that its just a piece of paper, its just a ceremony, how could it change us so dramatically except cement our love? Well it will cement your love but it will change your lives.
Some of the romance may die as you may start to get lazy, those spontaneous holidays may die down, and so the bedroom may lose some of its spice. But in the same token you will feel more secure than you have ever felt in your life. You will love him more than you ever expected imaginable. And the holidays will multipy in magic (sorry to go over the top)

Make sure you are both ready. If you think he's the one and that he wants to marry you too, then he isnt going anywhere. Dont jump the gun, surefire cause of cold feet.

Good luck.

Answer 4

I would go to pre-marital counseling, which helps you see things that you don't see when you're just dating. Because dating is the easy part! I dated my man 3 years before I met him. Spent nearly every day of our dating period together, yet when we got married, there were things in him I had never seen before. Either way, it's going to be difficult, but the longer you wait and get to really know each other, the better off you'll be.

Answer 5

First of all, does he know YOU'RE the one? If there are any doubts, don't even do it. If you're in a hurry to get married, then you probably shouldn't. The more you love someone, the more patience you'll have with them, and visa-versa. Either way, marriage isn't something you should jump into at any age.

Answer 6

It's too early if you haven't had an argument yet.

Answer 7

If you've been dating less than a year, don't marry him yet. You don't know him well enough.

Answer 8

Does HE know that he's supposed to ask you to marry him?

Answer 9

If it is right, why rush?

Let him come around in his own time.

Answer 10

i have been with mine for 3 months and we are getting married in march i want to get married now i know that he is the one and i am ready so is he. but we are waiting until march to make our family's happy.