Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

I know this is a crazy question lol.
But what are other ways I can trap a guy without trying to get pregnant?

2007-07-18 17:42:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 4 months into a separation. My soon to be ex wife told me today that she doesn't want to talk about compromise regarding custody or finances, that she'd rather leave it up to the lawyers...I make a very meager salary, while she has the financial backing of her wealthy parents...She sent me an incredibly aggressive separation agreement which basically takes half of my net income in child support and I feel like she's out to punish me because I called her bluff after 10 years of being threatened with divorce and told her that I was going to follow through with it because I was tired of the threats. In the meantime this is all making me physically sick...anxiety, insomnia, etc...I'm a complete wreck ...how do people deal with this kind of stress and keep things in perspective?

2007-07-18 17:41:26 · 9 answers · asked by Clog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother drives my husband and I crazy. She has anxiety problems and since I was a child has "depended" on me to do everything. She calls our house 4 or 5 times a day (sometimes more) stops by and beeps her horn in our driveway and keeps beeping until you come down. She is constantly saying that my husband must be abusing me because I never go anywhere. She always wants me to take her shopping, to get her license, dye her hair, fix something at her house, etc etc..and so I say that I am not going somewhere so she will leave me alone

I just dont know what to do but she makes me feel guilty for not doing things by saying that she has nobody to help her. Since she got a divorce it has gotten even worse and she has 4 other children but for some reason I am the one that is supposed to do everything. My sister graduated from college this past spring and my mother got mad for not driving her 2 1/2 hours to go.

does anyone have suggestions???

2007-07-18 17:37:49 · 7 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family

i've been with my bf for about 5 months but right now were in a long distance relationship.......well all we can do is talk on the phone or internet but we mostly talk on the phone. we used to talk everynight till like 7 in the morning but for some reason now its changing.....we hardly ever talk anymore. we still talk everyday but not as often as we used to and when we do talk i hardly ever say anything.....for some reason i dont tell him things anymore. i'm all quiet and have nothing to say. i love him so much and i wanna tell him everything but for some reason i'm not opening up anymore. i'm not even a quiet person...at home i'm loud and have tons to say. i'm just afraid that he's gonna get tired of me or get bored. he says he loves me so much but he hates it when i dont say anything to him while were on the phone. how do i change this and get back to how we were before????

2007-07-18 17:33:26 · 18 answers · asked by dr2813 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 17:31:30 · 27 answers · asked by twilight 2 in Singles & Dating

if you had to choose between an increase in salary by well over 300% or staying married, which would you chose?

2007-07-18 17:31:15 · 18 answers · asked by noname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a gift for my hubby and need a creative way to give it to him. Any ideas? He is a sports fan and it is a jeep with two spots to hold bottled or canned beverages. I know he will think it is funny - just not sure how to give it to him.

2007-07-18 17:31:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok,

Me and my friend were at this party, and we met these two girls that liked us. We talked for a while, and this one really liked me. I had to leave, so I gave her a hug and stuff, and I left. I later found out that my friend liked the other girl, but was caught holding hands with my girl! Would u be mad?

2007-07-18 17:26:39 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear Ladies on the night crew,
What cologne do you like to smell on your bf, husband, or that cute guy in the office. I mean what gets your motor running when you catch a wiff of it?
Looking for brand and graphically describe what you feel.

P.S. "light hearted question"

2007-07-18 17:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by boscatman 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 17:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. We just got married on MAy 26, 2007. However, It feels like all we do is ***** ***** *****. Were happy together for a few hours sometimes a few days. But then its right down the drain over something so freekin stupid. Then were back to bitchiing at eachother again. Its just freekin crazy. We should still be in the "Newly Wed stage" But yeah right!!!!! We maybe have sex what once or twice a MONTH. Come on now. And we just got back home from our Honeymoon yesterday. Well on our honeymoon we got into it b/c he wouldn't let me go for a walk down a strange street alone. Well back up a bit i walked out b/c I was trying to get sexual with him and i felt he wanted nothign to do with it or me. So i said I am horney i am goign for a walk. Meanning to clear my head and just relaxe. But nope he had to chase me down. and you know what the next thing was. a screamming match on comming home to get a devorice.

2007-07-18 17:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by knj_7142003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i turn 46 next year and i will have 20 years where i work, and i can retire with a good pension that is protected and my twins finish high school next year!

it will cost me about 500,000 to send them threw 4 years of college, i have about 600,000 that i have invested over the years that i have penciled in so i can live the easy life once i retire. my house is paid cars are paid for and i have no debt.

so the q's should i pay for there school or retire and live the good life for the last 25 30 years of my life?

2007-07-18 17:11:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife, who I have been in love with, been through hell with, and who is bipolar schitzophrenic. Has now decided that I cannot meet her needs as a Super caretaker. Now what I mean is that I am very sympathetic to her needs and her capabilities and would not hold her back from any pursuit that her heart desires. I supported almost every decision that we made. Now she is very distant and has once again for the 4th time left me. I can no longer understand why I have to be the one who is left behind to suffer the consequences while she is just content to have left me there. All the while making bad decisions along the way just to have another reason to try and involve me somehow. I love my wife, but all of this is making me very transparent as to who I am and what I was trying to accomplish in my life. I am not a selfish person, but it really seems that lately that I have worn myself thin on the concept of what it takes to be with this woman. Am I just being foolish to continue? y is this

2007-07-18 17:11:34 · 13 answers · asked by G Money 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married next October and I've been doing some major research on wedding transportation. I've noticed that anywhere you mention you need transportation for a wedding, the price explodes and it is completely NOT affordable for 3 hours of service!! Can anyone suggest a unique way to get my bridal party transported without spending an arm and a leg? I've looked at stretch limos, SUVs, Hummers, and Trolleys. Any other suggestions? Help!

2007-07-18 17:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by truelovernr1122 3 in Weddings

2007-07-18 17:05:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend and I dated for almost two years then she found out she was pregnant with twins. Before they were born she's had some problems. They were born and not long after she started abusing prescription medicine again. As a result, I left and took the babies with me since she wasn't in a good way to take care of them and she already had a child from a previous marriage. Her mom helps take care of the other child and my parents help me with the twins. It's been two months since she's seen them (her choice, not mine) and I think I may finally have to take this to court. I'm terrified that the judge will just automatically side with the twins mom and they'll go back to her. I really love them and want to keep them safe. The mom says she's going through rehab now. Is there a precedent that dad's will get equal say now or are we just expected to lay down and give in, pay child support, and hope to see them every weekend or can I hope to keep custody of my children?

2007-07-18 17:02:48 · 7 answers · asked by tnstdel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-18 17:02:19 · 38 answers · asked by SANAT 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you surprise your bf in a cute, sweet way that would really touch his heart?

2007-07-18 17:02:07 · 8 answers · asked by self-adhesive insanity 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-18 16:57:48 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Friends

Ok.. so im only going into 8th grade. Theres this boy in my grade that is SOOO awesome. And he's The biggest crush i'v ever had. I just.. well I think he likes one of my other more popular friends and stuff.. but me and him have sooo much in commen and we both kinda have the same feelings about stuff. But im a tiny bit heavy like a little bit and he always makes fun of fat people but i really want him to like me!!! im DESPERATEE!! What are some things I can do over the summer to make him want me next year?? oh also we're both athletic but he is alot better than me. what should i do? and pleasssee dont say be yourslef. i need HELP!!

2007-07-18 16:56:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance' and I have 3 attendants each,6 total.....but that leaves out my sister, who will be 17 when we marry, and his sister who will is 15.We don't want to make them bridesmaids because there are no gentlemen(their age or not)to escort them.Also, we don't want the bridal party to be uneven.

P.S. I believe his sis. is young enough to be a jr. b.m., but i dont think my sister is....and i would like them to be together.
So, BESIDES J.R. BRIDESMAIDS, WHAT ELSE IS IT FOR THEM TO DO?

2007-07-18 16:54:54 · 15 answers · asked by *kOmpLeXx* 2 in Weddings

My little brother (17) is very close to me and I would like to include him somehow in the wedding. My original thought is for him to like the memorial candle for our grandfather who he was named after and was close to. I'm not sure that is enough or if there is something more important or memorable for him to do. I'm open for any suggestions...other then doing readings (I've got that covered)

2007-07-18 16:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by LeenaJo'sMommy 3 in Weddings

The two siblings - eight-year-old Ajay and four-year-old Vishal - have been implicated under several sections of the IPC on charges of dowry harassment and cruelty against their sister-in-law and have been issued non-bailable warrants by the district court. Under Section 156 (3) of the CrPC, the district court had asked the police to register a case and arrest Ramesh Kuriel, a resident of Darshadev village in Kanpur dehat district, his wife Shanti and their sons, Abhinay (24), Ajay (8) and Vishal (4). The court issued the directive on a complaint filed by Abhinay's wife Deepa, who had alleged that her in-laws, husband and the two minor brothers-in-law tried to set her ablaze on December 2, 2006, because her family refused to pay a dowry of Rs 50,000 besides a bike. The children have been accused of helping the family in pouring kerosene on Deepa. While police cite compliance of court order and continue raiding possible hideouts in search of the children. Please comment on this news.

2007-07-18 16:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz it is a digestive bitter. i tried it on my live in partner last night. lets just say she called in sick today at work cuz she cant walk. she has symptoms similar to ricket. anyway so how are all the women in the house doing tonight ?

2007-07-18 16:45:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so, I have this cousin that noone has seen for about 4 yrs. and i know her first and last name (Nicole Harvill) and her 9 digit zip code (53208-2727) and she lives in milwaukee, wi. As of june 2nd she is now 20. there has been a familt emergency and we need to get ahold of her immediatly...

Please help me find her or if not please just help me find a list of addresses in that area. that aren't business's. I need people. Because i am trying to get ahold of her immediatly...


Please help me.

It is really an emergency!

2007-07-18 16:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Family

My friends stepson who is almost 9 lies about everything. It is not just his imagination either. He may not have seen someone for weeks and he suddenly will mention a conversation they had about a subject that my daughter and I were just discussing ( even an incident that took place on a soap opera). He's an A B student but always in trouble in school. I don't know if he might be adhd or bi-polar. He is very sensitive and cries easily and wants to know how come no one believes him. When told that he just told a lie he swears he didn't. Has anyone else had this problem? I would really like to know how to help this child. I've kept him for most of the summer since I live in the country and he can freely run and play here. His dad and stepmom have been married for nearly a year but he has lived with them for over 2 years and has always behaved this way according to his dad.

2007-07-18 16:42:12 · 8 answers · asked by Suki 1 in Family

They were together for 5 years and rented for 4 she decided to buy a condo because the rent went up and it would cost the same each month. She used her $$ and credit and she is solely on the deed. He asked why in the beginning and she told him that since they are not married and it was her $ it is hers and he is to pay her rent....the mortgage was less than their apartment rent BTW saving him money. Now he is claiming they had an oral agreement even tho she made it clear in the beginning that he owns it with her even tho he gave her no $ to buy it, just rent money every month. He also helped her paint and stuff. The condo has actually depreciated with the soft real estate market and is worth less than when she bought it. She is afraid ...does he have any right to it?

2007-07-18 16:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This was done without the consent of the father who is paying child support. The child was 13 years old at the time

2007-07-18 16:36:54 · 25 answers · asked by ms chip dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having 5 bridesmaids, his 3 sisters, and my 2 sisters. As he needs to choose 5 groomsmen he is having trouble. I asked him to have my brother, and he refused. I dont see why because i am having his 3 sisters. He doesnt even know 5 people who are close to him. I am pretty upset about it because its just 1 person out of five, he could at least have some respect as i am having his sisters?

2007-07-18 16:36:20 · 14 answers · asked by Missy84 1 in Weddings

Getting married...and wanted to have a song for everyone to dance with their mothers with, including my mother and I. What's a good song? We kind of want something in the rock genre. Help?

2007-07-18 16:34:08 · 6 answers · asked by rj s 1 in Weddings