i've been with my bf for about 5 months but right now were in a long distance relationship.......well all we can do is talk on the phone or internet but we mostly talk on the phone. we used to talk everynight till like 7 in the morning but for some reason now its changing.....we hardly ever talk anymore. we still talk everyday but not as often as we used to and when we do talk i hardly ever say anything.....for some reason i dont tell him things anymore. i'm all quiet and have nothing to say. i love him so much and i wanna tell him everything but for some reason i'm not opening up anymore. i'm not even a quiet person...at home i'm loud and have tons to say. i'm just afraid that he's gonna get tired of me or get bored. he says he loves me so much but he hates it when i dont say anything to him while were on the phone. how do i change this and get back to how we were before????
2007-07-18 17:33:26 · 18 answers · asked by dr2813 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk..even if the subject is stupid its ok...you can both laugh at each other..
2007-07-18 17:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by D-Unit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably growing apart...I don't wanna spoil your mood...but maybe you should move on. I got out of a 3 yr relationship and the last months of the relationship were kind of declining. You're not always gonna spend forever with the first person you meet. Take it as an experience, maybe the next guy shouldn't be long distance or maybe this guy isn't the one to try long distance with. Its not the end of the world, you have to be open to meeting someone new. Good luck!
2007-07-19 00:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by ~Tiffany~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well remember u should both give each other some space because i no since he is far away u probably think about him more nd thats ok that shows how much u love him also when u talk to a person everday 4 hours even i f its ur bff or bf or gf u will get tired of talking 2 eachother so be calm relax nd give eachother some space also is he the same way with u reply back nd i ll help u out.
2007-07-19 00:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by sjorozco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The beauty of a relationship (and its dark side) is you can never go back in time - only forward. If you are finding you have less to say - perhaps you are less interested in this relationship than even you care to admit at this time. Sounds like you are wanting a real live relationship and the phone relationship doesn't work so well anymore. Sorry to be so blunt, but I think that your comments warrant telling it as it stands.
2007-07-19 00:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You're pulling away because the connection is becoming lost. You're living your life and he's living his. It's normal. Go out and live your life and stop waiting for the phone call. If you have a connection then it will be revived when you have the opportunity to see each other. Otherwise, get over it and try to realize that you have a life to live where you're at.
2007-07-19 00:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by dubi4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has the new worn off? maybe you dont love him like you think you do.long distance relationships will show how much you really do love the person. if your insecure it will not ever work.trust is a big part and if you dont have this then i say get out now.good luck
2007-07-19 00:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by liz s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be, without realizing it yet, losing interest in your boyfriend. Long distance relationships can do that, and hopefully you can get through it. If you really do love him, why don't you open up? If you want to be with your boyfriend you shouldn't be afraid to take risks to keep you two together.
2007-07-19 00:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to see him. You may be getting tired of talking to him over the phone and wanna talk in person about your probelms
2007-07-19 00:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by VeganChickk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it,break up and get someone local,you are struggling to try and carry this on but you are losing the fight,
Pack it in make new friends mix with more with your pal`swhich I bet you have not seen for a while,
start living again.
2007-07-19 00:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by lamplighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if u still love him.. then talk to him, tell him everything u want to.. send each other pictures to remember each other... ask him if its possible to come visit u once in a while.... if he says he loves u then hes not gettin tired of u.. nd u dont want him to.. so keep talking and say what u want to... he even hates it when u don't talk.... so talk!
2007-07-19 00:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to grow up!
This isn't a 2-way relationship.
Who's paying for the phone bills?
2007-07-19 00:39:10 · answer #11 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋