Ok,
Me and my friend were at this party, and we met these two girls that liked us. We talked for a while, and this one really liked me. I had to leave, so I gave her a hug and stuff, and I left. I later found out that my friend liked the other girl, but was caught holding hands with my girl! Would u be mad?
2007-07-18 17:26:39 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sry I used the term "my girl". Didnt mean it that way.
2007-07-18 17:33:53 · update #1
No, you had just met her, what makes her 'your girl'??
**ok now that you admit she wasn't 'your girl' then Yes I would be a little peeved at my friend, because friends shouldn't do that to each other.
2007-07-18 17:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't have a right to be mad at your friend. These are just girls you met at a party. It's not like one of them was your girlfriend. Maybe the girl you were talking to grabbed your friend's hand first. If you just met her...then she's not "your" girl.
2007-07-18 17:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger only leads to much bigger problems. If someone has a problem communication is the best solution. Paranoia is a disease if you ask me. Don't worry about something that doesn't exist and don't assume either. If feeling get hurt hope they are big enough to let you know and then talk about the misconstrued situation (unless the intentions are other). Communication solves so many problems. Try and practice, practice, practice. I know, i've been married more than once.
2007-07-18 17:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, is the girl worthy of you getting mad at your friend? You just met the girl. How long have you been friends with your pal? Think before you lose a friend because of a girl that does not mean anything to you.
2007-07-18 17:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! It's sophomoric! Besides, you don't own either of these girls. People are going to like who they're going to like whether you like it or not. Also, if this girl was leading you to believe she was into you and then picked up with your friend, do you want a girl like that? Don't sweat it. Another girl will come along and you'll have a whole new set of problems. That's why they call them crushes!
Be Well,
Lala
2007-07-18 17:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by laura m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because that is not your girl,.yall arent dating. If you think that he likes the other girl then there isnt anything to worry about anyways..but dont risk a friendship over a girl it isnt worth it, If you feel like he did something wrong talk to him but dont be mad until you find out what really happened
2007-07-18 18:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah I'd be freaking mad. I know how you feel. But atleast in your case it probably wasn't on purpose. Maybe 'your girl' not want to be nasty but maybe she is slutty? because i have a friend like that, she might like a guy and im with the other guy and then 'her guy' would leave and then flirt hecticly and practically steal 'my guy'...
So women and girls and wicked, beware. Maybe it wasn't your friends flault.
2007-07-18 20:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by DarK-AnGeLs-OpiNioN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You left and unless you made plans with the girl for a date later she was up for grabs.
2007-07-18 17:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by DEE L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, well i've been in the same situation and all i did was brush it off and moved on. I kno it might be hard but you'll finally see in the future it was worth it. Because as they always say what goes around comes around.
2007-07-18 17:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be, its called karma, it will come back to them. Besides if she was so interested in you she wouldnt of been holding your friends hand. If he told you then at least he was man enough to tell you your girl is just not your girl, she likes to stray
2007-07-18 17:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by city girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋