okay so the other night my friend came back to the house to get my cousins key, and she had to find it, and my mom said she heard alcohal in her purse, and she claims to have heard the bottles hit each other, how can i convince my mom it wasnt, and it really wasnt i have no idea what to tell her but that it wasnt! shes pissing me off and she keeps accusing me of things what can i do, i havent done any of them, im about to break down in tears because i have no one to turn to my dad is out of the country my brother moved out, i have my license but she wont let me leave, advice please im sick of her, worst of all she cheats on my dad and i cant tell him because i dont want to break my dads heart, i want to say i hate her, but im always told not to say that! please help
2007-07-18 16:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by leslie g 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can hate your mother all you want, believe me some mothers deserve that.
Your mom sounds unreasonable. I don't know what you can do except hold on until your dad gets back. Or you could tell her that you took up drinking to cope with her cheating on your father, and maybe you should just tell him rather than becoming a drunk.
Might shut her up for a while.
2007-07-18 16:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you shouldn't have to deal with adult issues, such as the cheating. Do you have your brothers phone number? Are you involved in a church that may have someone there you can talk to? Or maybe a counselor at school. I think your dad has a right to know...it will end up breaking his heart eventually. Usually when people are guilty of things, they tend to try to make others feel they are to blame or they are doing things they shouldn't be doing. Good luck, I feel for you.
2007-07-18 23:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that had been happenign to me as well. But once my parents understood that I was about to graduate from a college, so they jut let me go.
Well, don't blame your mom. You just think that you may hate her or something. But you don't. You call her "mom", not even "mother". If you hated your mom, you wouldn't even try to convince about "alcohol".
You may think that she has some relations, but never the less, she cares about you. Well, some people have more strict character that others. I would beat my brother for drinking. My dad once "applied force" to me for bringing street language into our living room; and I'm SO thankful to him for that.
What to do? find a job, enroll to one more class, spend 4 hour a day in a library [most of them have wireless]. Think of a zillion reasons to get out of the house. but don't get out of the HOME. [ur dad will be upset]. And don't drink. THAT brings all other disasers.
2007-07-19 00:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by djfox_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,
How old are you? If you're on the legal age of 18 can you support yourself? Why not suck it up for now, save some monies, when you're on legal age and have enough savings to cover your b_tt for 6 mos. You can do your heart desire. If you know she's cheating, get some proof and send it to your dad anonymously.
2007-07-18 23:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah they need help,
2007-07-19 03:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋