I just realized my hubbie is vomitously ugly...i think i've been under a love potion that just wore off, it's that bad. i can't stand the thought that as soon as he gets home from work i am going to have to go in the same bed with him...if i tell him it will hurt his feelings but if i don't i'll throw up and die. i still like his personality like as a friend but i really love this guy at my church he's in college and 17 years younger than me, but he's waved at me and i look young for my age. help!!!
2007-07-18 16:26:32 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wtf?
paging mrs. robinson....
2007-07-18 16:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kaja 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
When you are infactuated with someone else your husband could be the most loving, handsome man who showered you in diamonds and it wouldn't be good enough for you. As long as this BOY has caught your attention you are going to find fault with your husband because you think it will justify your actions but you are so wrong. The young fellow is more than likely just making a freindly gesture and you are reading more into it. Your husband is the one who loves you and will always be there for you. Did you ever stop to think that since you are quite a bit older that no matter what you look like now there will come a time when you are going to age. It's a given. I don't think that this boy is interested in you but even if he was there will come a time when he will not want an "Old Lady". I suggest that you need to get over this BOY and if need be change churches. I wave at the farmer going down the road but I don't love him and I know he doesn't love me. Don't be foolish enough to read more into it than there is.
2007-07-18 16:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sidney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like deeper issues going on here. Your interested in a much younger guy and think you deserve better than what you got. Sounds like a bit of a midlife crisis. many people get to a certain age and feel they have missed out on life. A younger man means excitment and adventure. Time to descide what you really want, divorce is long and can be messy. Be sure before you take that step. However you only have one life and you cant stay with someone solely because you dont want to hurt them. Remeber the younger guy will probally just be a fling , think about where your life will go after that.
good luck.
2007-07-18 16:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Daryn A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a craddle robber. So now, just because this youngster waved at you, you think what----? That he's got the hots for you. What would a boy 17 years younger than you want with an old bag when he could have some very young and energetic girl. Don't even think that this boy will take you home to meet his parents. They'll laugh you out of their house. Maybe you think you look young for your age, but honey, trust me, he sees your wrinkles and your age. You're married for crying out loud. Act your age and not your IQ.
2007-07-18 16:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have lost the love for your husband that you once had. One sees inner beauty when in love, not outer flaws.
I'm not sure why you are still married to this man. You need to divorce him and give him the opportunity to move on in life and find a women who will enjoy the "whole package".
As for the 17 year younger guy at church. Sorry, I think he's just being polite to you.
2007-07-18 16:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tired_Of_Sarcasm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, the grass is not always greener on the other side. When did you start noticing your hubby is ugly? The day someone wave at you? The kid in your church is still a kid. Maybe he's being curteous to his elder. Maybe he needs a sugar momma to pay for his dates. Would you prefer someone using you or your ugly husband that treats you like a queen? I can tell you right now if you think you found someone hot and complete package, they can either be GAY or married or f_cking jerk.
2007-07-18 16:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are no prize either. So you are a church going to be cheater,huh. maybe you need your eyes checked. I hear nothing else bad about him except his looks and maybe he needs a make over. The guy in church could be an abuser. You will never know how well you have it until its gone and you getting turned on by a college guy 17 yrs younger is sick.
2007-07-18 16:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by s f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that your being fair.. You knew what you was getting yourself into before you married your husband now all of a sudden your attracted to a younger man and you want to talk bad about your husband. That younger man only wants one thing from you and that is basically it. Your husband has true love for you and if you break his heart for another man, the tables will turn and this younger man is going to do the same thing to you. You will not look young forever.
2007-07-18 16:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know plenty of people that aren't that beautiful on the outside but on the inside they are the most beautiful people in the world.
I have a face and body that is scarred up and my wonderful wife sees past it and into my heart. We've been together for 16 years and we love each other more and more every day.
Just because someone is hot, sexy, or cute, doesn't mean they are not hideous and twisted on the inside.
2007-07-18 16:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made that choice missy...I think you just like that attention from another man>You all of a sudden think you're husband is ugly? I don't have the best looking husband in the world, but I know that he treats me with respect, love, and compassion, and that's what matters most...
I would rather be with someone who is dog "ugly" and treats me the way I need and deserve to be treated than to be with the best looking guy and have him treat me like s---. What is wrong with you women?
2007-07-18 16:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ericka 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not and never have been married. But I will say that I am totally against adultery. So don't do it!! But I will say that you should ask your self why did you get married? And where you really honest with your self when you agreed to better or for worse. Also, think about no only you but your family, Do you have children? If you do, then think about how your actions or possible actions may affect their lives.
2007-07-18 16:34:07 · answer #11 · answered by Yomika 82 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋