alright... first thanks so much for clicking.
so... ive been with this girl for like 5 days.
not long at all.
but we go back a whileee.
anyway......
i feel like we arent talking as much. and its making me nerveous because i dont wanna loose this girl.
i really like her.. and i dont know who else to ask. my friend told me... i should go hang out with her again and when the moments right... kiss her. [which i havent yett, yeahh] and see if theres sparks.
but ALSO what im really getting worried about too is... i dont want to it to turn out that she isnt getting boyfriend "vibes" if i may.
past relationships ended up that way. "better friends" they say. and i know in some cases yeah its right... but i just dont know what im doing wrong.
please someone helpp
how am i not being boyfriend like?? what am i doing differently?
thanks a tonnnn whoevers answeringg.
2007-07-18 16:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey for la bruhja whatever...
didnt you see we go back a while?
we just started going out officially.
we've been dating for over a month.
why dont you read more closely.
thanks eveeryone else so farrr
2007-07-18 16:23:38 · update #1
Well seems like you really like her. My suggestion to you is don't rush into things. Take it slow, and be very careful. About the kissing if you feel it's right then do so but you can tell when the other person is ready and confortable. If she os confortable with you then kiss but I suggest kissing on the cheek or her hand not kiss right away on the lip. Relationship are tough and can get awkward in ways. So just keep hanging out with her and always keep an eye on how your partner is reacting. If she's confortable and really feels the same as you do. Like I said don't rush into things fast, yo uwill know when the time is right. You are doing fine as a friend/boyfriend. Also communication is important, and see how both of you are doing. it is good to express each others feeling. Well hope it helps and good luck and take it slow and enjoy.
2007-07-18 16:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by sjguy2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a tough one, but i'm gonna give it a shot anyway!
*First and foremost, be 100% with this girl. If you 2 go way back, then you should be close enough that you can talk to her about pretty much anything. Maybe you should just come out and say something "polite" of course to her and ask her if there are any problems that you should be aware of or anything that's going on with her that you might need to know. See how that goes and then go from there. But always be honest w/ her and just tell her how you feel. It might scare her at first, but if you are really what she wants as boyfriend material, she'll come back!
2007-07-18 23:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Its only been five days so give it more time and it might evolve into something more. Definitely be playful and let her know you are interested in something more than friends. Be playful touch her a lot (not inappropriately) but like her hair, hands, shoulders you get the picture. Yes, like your friend said make plans to hang out with her again and do wait for the right moment to kiss her, nothing cliche but sweet and romantic.
PS. it took my husband 2 months to finally kiss me, in case you don't want to rush things and we still ended up getting married.
2007-07-18 23:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mommyof2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not be you. it might
just be how things are..cause
you said you guys go way back
soo maybe you guys are really
just better off as being really good
friends than being in a relationship.
sometimes that`s just how it is...
but then again..you`ve only been
in the relationship for 5 days...soo
i say..hang out with her again and
when the time is right..kiss her. and
see how she reacts. you can tell a
lot by a person`s gestures so see
what she does/thinks about the kiss.
and then go on from there.
2007-07-18 23:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by shopisotonix11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go and talk to her ask her how she really feels about you and tell her how you really feel about her. If she says that you should just be friends ask her exactly what your doing wrong because she isnt the first to say that and you would like her honest opinion so that you can make your next relationship work.
2007-07-18 23:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by ???.??LIFE'S THE PITS??.?.?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she'd like to date or just be friends so you can maintain that before anything uncomfortable develops.
not that direct.. ask her friends. what she's commented before moving on..
or see if she'll got to get a coffee with you without the other kids around. if she is excited. great! if not say oh just as friends, you know..
or if you'd rather do the all or nothing
just get her alone and give her a big smooch.
ah ,to be young.
good luck!
2007-07-18 23:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by macdoodle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Take her on a date, to show her how you care. If you have known each other for awhile, you should have lots to talk about. When the feeling is right, ask her if you can kiss her. It worked for my husband and I...we got married.
2007-07-18 23:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is to keep the lines of communication open. Talk about almost anything. Talking about something is better than talking about nothing. Talk, talk, talk. The weather, movies, music, current events, her clothes, local hangout spots, etc.
2007-07-18 23:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michael F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is talk to this girl, be open and honest. You can alway blame it on your friend... And laugh it off if she isn't into you like that
2007-07-18 23:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be in middle school! You don't build a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship in only five days!
2007-07-18 23:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋