Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

Can someone explain to me why people continue to be unfaithful? I see questions on here all the time from folks wanting to know how to deal with betrayal.

How many relationships have to be destroyed before people finally come to their senses and realize it is wrong? I know there is an endless list of reasons for straying, but are people just not capable of surpressing their desires?

Perhaps humans are not meant to be monogamous.

2007-07-16 03:56:47 · 7 answers · asked by posttk421 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend found out about my terrible wife and dumped me. I am concerned about my girlfriend telling my wife about us. Is there some kind of law that protects me? Can I get a restraining order to keep my girlfriend away from my wife. I don't really let my wife use the computer or phone, she really doesn't know how anyway.

2007-07-16 03:56:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Virginity from 20 upwards...big deal in a relationship (ie. Does it influence your decision, does it make the person seem less mature, does it put extra strain on the courtship cos you cant get laid, will you go somewhere else to get what you want etc..)??

2007-07-16 03:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, my first question on yahoo!

I adore my little sister (by one year) but lately she has been getting on my nerves.
Reasons...
1. We were talking this morning and she said she could pretty much get any guy around her age to go out with her...no matter who it is
2. She is planning to ask out my ex today as a "joke"...yesterday she did the same with my older sisters boyfriend......Why does she do this, to boost her ego?
3. Ever since she got this massive tan (KFC original crispy), ha, she like adores herself in the mirror and constantly shows it off...like "check out my tan"
4. I told her, as a JOKE that my stomach was so tight and the guys would love it...her response was calling me aneorexic-misspelled constantly.
5. Three months ago a guy was hitting on me and asked me for my number, with my sister around...the next day I had no school, sis. did and when she came home she had his no. and has been talking to him ever since

she is def. giving me inferiority comp. Thnks

2007-07-16 03:55:16 · 24 answers · asked by Kayla S 2 in Family

2007-07-16 03:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im in love with matt m and he knos who he is and i kno who he is.... but who r u in love with?

2007-07-16 03:54:18 · 30 answers · asked by im in love wit that boy!!*) 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, people say that I am ugly but my mom and friends say I'm...ok. Well what would you consider pretty?

2007-07-16 03:53:52 · 4 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4 in Singles & Dating

i moved to pa from fl 2 years ago and have yet to figure out where to meet guys! in fl there were a lot more places it seems to meet guys...the beach, bars that were some decent guys went...help i need to find someone!

2007-07-16 03:52:16 · 1 answers · asked by katylady77 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are on the verge of splitting up because of my insecurities that I have been hiding from him. He has an extremely close relationship with his mum and sister (they are italian) and they come first in everything and know everything about our relationship. They are lovely people but I want to be the number one woman in his life. Am I expecting too much and fighting a losing battle? I have been keeping my frustrations in and they come out inadvertantly when I have a drink and we argue over stupid things and this makes no sense to him because I am too ashamed to tell him the truth but Im going to lose him if I don't. How do I approach this? Please help.

2007-07-16 03:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by samba 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im nice to them...I dont think I've done anything wrong. But they keep saying to my boyfriend that im not right for him and that they dont like me.

2007-07-16 03:50:29 · 38 answers · asked by Helena a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband is currently working overseas-he just left about a month ago and will be back in oct. we have been married abt 5 yrs, and I thought we had a good, honest relationship. i found this email addressed to a woman I have never heard of in his Sent Box:

Hello babe,
...so we'll meet up once i'm back...in oct tht is...thanks for the mails...kep them coming...take care and keep the engine warmed up when i come to see you...if u know whty i mean..

signed **his name**

is he cheating on me? shall i be worried?
please dont judge me on the fact that i had hacked into his email a/c. i was the one who set up this account for him a couple of yrs ago....but he hadnt called for the past week and replied my email, and i was worried for him...so, i had entered his account wanting to check if he had read my mails. thanks in advance for ur answers.

2007-07-16 03:50:08 · 33 answers · asked by swellen_gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 03:48:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-16 03:48:07 · 40 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Guys
My boyfriend wants to wear his jeans to some wedding receptions we have coming up do you think this will be ok with a shirt?

2007-07-16 03:44:34 · 48 answers · asked by Tulip 2 in Weddings

My husband has been working a lot of long hours lately and I want him to know I appreciate him. Especially because he is doing it so that I can be home more with our baby. What is a good gift to give him? We are going on our first date in a few months this weekend. Thanks!

2007-07-16 03:43:06 · 15 answers · asked by ME 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 03:42:19 · 20 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Friends

I'm trying to get opinions on how to determine a fair rent , or an amount for him to contribute to the household . We both work .
Suggestions? Experiences ? Thanks !

2007-07-16 03:41:24 · 15 answers · asked by Lyn 2 in Weddings

My good friend Karen's husband cheated on her while they were trying for a baby and he got the other woman pregnant instead.This is not the first time this has happened to her it also happened with an ex.bf.Anyway she has been depressed and angry since then.She keeps asking me what she did wrong?I do not want to tell her that she does not have great taste in men even though its true 90%percent of the men she dated were jerks,cheaters,abusive or all of the above in some way.When she had a nice man she used him as a door matt.She recently heard her ex.bf whom she dated when she was 18-19 ish for 1 yr and half is getting married.Worse her ex.bf is marrying the girl he cheated on her with and got pregnant.The ex.bf now has two children with this other women and a third on the way.My friend Karen now wants to sleep with this guy again and is throwing herself at him(thus far he has turned her down).I worry because she wants to be the other woman for once and feels this person deserves it

2007-07-16 03:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 03:38:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time trusting people! Men in general because of my past! Its not even from other relationships its people i were close to hurt me really bad! I just need to learn to trust him because its playing a part in our relationship! What should i do!! I love him with all my heart!

2007-07-16 03:37:59 · 1 answers · asked by NEveR ThE LesS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-16 03:37:26 · 9 answers · asked by klmilla 3 in Family

There is this guy I have been talking to 1-2 times a week for a few months now. He works at my apartment complex so I can only ever talk to him when he gets off work (I have to meet him). I am starting to like him but I don't want to lose a good friendship if I tell him I like him and he doesn't share those feelings. When we talk, our conversations are pretty casual and we discuss many different topics. He always looks straight at my eyes when we talk and I can tell that when I ask him questions, he is answering honestly; however, he never has as much to ask me so I tend to hold more of the convo, but he laughs at all my jokes. I asked him to a movie a while ago and he said yes (he had to check his schedule) but couldn't because of his kids. I gave him a hug the other day as he was leaving, a surprise one, and he had this big smile on his face as he walked away, now he smiles more, but he still seems fairly detached. Am I overlooking obvious signals or is he just being nice?

2007-07-16 03:37:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 29 year old single mother who is kind (my friends tell me), hard working and independent but I tend to attract men who for lack of a better way to say are not very nice (they lie about their realtionship status, or try to put me down). I have horrible luck in love and have been alone for a very long time. I am wondering what can i do to better my chances for love and find a nice guy who wants a relationship?

2007-07-16 03:35:44 · 8 answers · asked by ondia 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for almost a year., have moved to my hubby's state and getting to meet his circle of friends. We know this couple, where the guy has been a childhood friend of my hubby's, and his G/F became a good friend long before i came into the picture. This weekend we made a trip out of town on their request to visit the couple's first house together. His girl was totally trying to avoid bonding with me, not that I'm looking to be her best friend, but she totally left me out of conversations when we were eating out, and even at their place. I tried having girls chat with her to give the boyz their space, but she seemed to pretend she didn't hear me too many times, but she talked directly to my hubby or her guy. I was very lonely and on the verge of tears, and told my hubby i longed to be back home. I really don't know why she is doing this, in fact she started acting weird a few times we have met before , but i thought she was just tired. But i can't figure out what's up????

2007-07-16 03:34:28 · 30 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When we had court to determine visitation, he never showed up; therefore I was told that it was up to me to decide when and if he should be able to see his son. He does pay child support ($200/month) but thats about it. once a year he tries to see his son. but recently he asked if he could have him for the weekend. I said ok but this was before i knew he lived out of state 8 hours away. Can i tell him no unless he stays at his mothers (in state) for the weekend and sees him there?

2007-07-16 03:33:20 · 12 answers · asked by Sheena B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Cameron (this hot boy I know) is this boy I really, really, really like. He got a buzz cut, has green or either blue eyes, tall/short and most importantly... he's hot. I am shy to call a boy I like so I want to text insead! What should I say. Girls give me somthing.

2007-07-16 03:31:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he claims that he is being abused by his step mom. it was a horrible story. quite a few pple gave him advice. someone even informed the fbi. all i wanna know is if has been helped

2007-07-16 03:31:15 · 9 answers · asked by shah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi guys i am trying to find my dad only know his name iv tried genes reunited and found his aunt but she hasnt seen him 4 years and cant help, he left when i was about 4mths old so dont remember him at all and only have his name no more details! any1 no where 2 look?

2007-07-16 03:31:08 · 8 answers · asked by leesheen20 1 in Family

My wife and I met in college dating for five years through undergrad and graduate school. We have been married for a little over a year now. My wife and I have a great relationship, we have a great sex life, we also use all the great toys, I do have one question though.

Like most men, I really love licking my wife's five letter pword, however she only lets me do it on rare occasions. However, when I do she really enjoys it, like most women do, when it is does correctly

This is my question, I respect my wife and her feelings very much, so what should I do?

2007-07-16 03:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy who sold me my phone has stalled my transaction so that he can still keep in contect, which is annoying financially but kinda sweet. He called me the other day and asked if he could take me out and I sort of laughed it off...what should I do?

2007-07-16 03:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating