Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

In the case of having a husband that was cool with the idea of you having a female as a partner then gives you an altimatium to choose between them... you love having both in your llife but now it comes down to a choice and you think you might perfer to be in a relationship with the female because u might be more lesbian than bi-sexual still you are not quite sure...keeping in mind that you have been married an involve with your husband for almost 15yrs but you always knew that you liked females too..

2007-07-16 06:00:19 · 25 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 06:00:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-16 05:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Singles & Dating

would be okay with their mother inlaw staying with you at a brand new house being married to your husband or wife for only for a year . but shes staying for one year e cause you have not been working cause you just had a baby and you husband wont help finding a babysitter

2007-07-16 05:58:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Spouse went out of town for grown daughter's delivery, 9 months later and no return...?
Has been back a couple of times to visit, but still has not come by the house, I filed for divorce but she refuses to sign, has to do with medical insurance, needs the coverage but does not want to be married....what to do?

2007-07-16 05:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by jaydee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If the husband isnt happy.....
eventually will he leave?
Just wondering

2007-07-16 05:57:45 · 27 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

seems like some on here talk bad about your mates, why are you with them if they are so bad?? when you talk bad about your mates it makes you look like a fool, you are married to them, so it doesnt say much about you either. seems some here are never satisfied, did you know how your mates were before you married them?? so now you married them and you still complain about them, you must like the situation you are in or you have no self-esteem and you put up with anything, im sure ill get some nasty responses, that will tell me the truth hurts.

2007-07-16 05:56:44 · 7 answers · asked by amy j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and i usually see my grandma once a week. now i havent seen her for two weeks and i really miss her. she never calls me and when i call her, there is no answer. i got a hold of her last week. she said she was busy. she is always busy. i hate it. why does she have to be busy? i called her twice today and she wont answer. she is very popular and always hanging out with her older friends. its not fair. how can i make her call me? everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. help!

2007-07-16 05:56:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Dad's birthday is a week or two and I was wondering what I should get him. I don't have any money to spend or very little. Any ideas..? Crafty ideas or poems?

2007-07-16 05:56:14 · 4 answers · asked by ...? 2 in Family

What would you do if you had Your sister with three little kids, Your father and another teenager sister?

and never help with cleaning the inside or outside of your house.
all because they say that it's not their home.

they pay their rent on time, but never help around the house and they are so messy and durty.

and have to stand the smell of the durty diapers and baby bottles all over the house?

and have make durty looks to your visitor in your own house!!

2007-07-16 05:56:07 · 7 answers · asked by Mommy 5 in Family

I am not an a very outgoing person. I am always reluctant to go out with friends somewhere, mainly because of stomach problems. Although I do get out a lot despite my stomach, I feel that I am, by heart, not a traveling person. When I hear my other friends saying they go from 11 to 11 just driving around I get nervous and think that maybe I’m not normal because I don’t like to be spontaneous. I feel that I always need more and more friends and that not having lots of friends is bad thing, but I usually don’t even bother with them. Once I make the friends I usually don’t like to hang out and I don’t know what wrong. Please help me.

2007-07-16 05:56:05 · 2 answers · asked by sovietwarhawk 1 in Friends

I know they like boobs and behinds but I mean do any look at legs?

2007-07-16 05:55:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 05:55:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-16 05:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The husband wishes to reunite but is not allowed to contact his wife. The wife is staying with her mother & elder brother unwillingly & is being compelled by her family to file for a divorce. What legal provisions are applicable for the husband to refuse the divorce???

2007-07-16 05:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by presidentofasia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Could someone list the typical Catholic mass readings for a wedding?

2007-07-16 05:50:00 · 11 answers · asked by MoMo 1 in Weddings

My son is much better off with me, his mother doesn't work, has 3 other kids all by different men, lives off of food stamps. She does have a live in boyfriend, which my finacee and I also live together. In her care my 5 year old son has missed 11 days of school his first year in kindergarden, which he did pass. I am always the one to take him to the DR. as she will not ever take him. She has let her boyfriend spank my son to the point that welts were left on his legs from a belt for a few days. I did call Social Services, and they just don't give a crap, they check out there home and later dropped the case. Also she lets my son watch really bad movies, like pg-13, and he is only 5. I guess my question is, should I just get over it, and have to learn to deal with the way it is, I mean I see my son 50% of the time, but at this point I feel he needs more stability, instead of back and fourth, we live 25 miles apart. Or should I fight for full custody??

2007-07-16 05:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend is obsessed about this guy, and it's so obvious she wants to be with him, but he hasn't done anything, so do you think SHE should ask HIM? Or just wait, and be miserable forever? Okay, not really, but you know.

2007-07-16 05:45:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 5'7", I weigh 110, I'm 13, I have sapphire Blue eyes, Long wavy brown hair, I"m white w/ a little Irish and Spanish. I had a 4.0 in school, I like to skate sometimes, but I'm also kinda girly. I hate feet. The first thing I notice about a guy is their eyes. I'm a libra. I'm a hopeless romantic.

2007-07-16 05:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by Sierra Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

hi...i'm a 24 yr old woman. i recently married my bf of 7 yrs...i had moved in with him when i turned 18 and got pregnant within a month. i was studying at that time and didn't want anything to tie me down. so i aborted the baby without telling my bf. now i'm quite well-settled in life and i married the love of my life. i couldn't hold it to myself anymore and told him that i had aborted our child long back. he was very angry.....i just blew his mind. he's upset i did that and said that i didn't even think once of asking him before doing it. i know wat i did was wrong and am ready to make it up to him....he's just too angry with me to even listen. wat do i do?
one more thing...i've been off the pill for 2 months now and have still not conceived. how long does the pill take to get out of the system? i'd really like to start a family now and make it up to him...how do i make him come around?

2007-07-16 05:44:11 · 19 answers · asked by julia 1 in Family

Hi,
He proposed me many times until i agreed to marry him. I invested all my emotions into it and then one day suddenly he comes back and tells me that its over as his parents are not ready to accept his love. He said he is sorry for his mistake and asked me to move on. I'm angry,hurt,mad and sad. Now he is engaged to another girl chosen by his parents. I feel like revealing the truth to his would be. What you people say?

2007-07-16 05:43:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why did it take as long as it did and do you wish you waited or did it earlier?

my husband and i got married after 3 years and it is heaven.

2007-07-16 05:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by skyskadoodles 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to buy an engagement ring for my girlfriend but cant afford to buy in one lump sum. Can anyone tell me where i can get credit on a website for such a product?

2007-07-16 05:34:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-16 05:31:42 · 14 answers · asked by philanator5 1 in Singles & Dating

so yea i have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now. Things couldnt possiibly be better. We have known eachother for 4 years prior to being a couple and have the same friends. We always go out together and have a blast. We go to dinner, we go for moonlit walks around towns, we go to parks to watch the sunset. We hold hands, she holds me and puts her head on my shoulder, we kiss, all the normal couple stuffs.

Now here is where i need some advice. She is leaving soon til the 31st of august. She will be in another country in fact so communication will be through emails. I really think im falling in love with her and i want to tell her this. I am just afraid it will break things we have. When we first started dating she had said she wanted to take things slow, but she was the one who initiated the first kiss, wanted more and frenched me too.. So i am wondering if this would be ok. We have known each other for a long time and always had feelings for each other. Advice?

2007-07-16 05:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy ask me to be his life partner. Everything is fine but that's 1 thing that holds me back, that's the Religion issue. Will you convert your religion to his? Cause he wants me to be completely part of his family and not an outcast. Will you?

2007-07-16 05:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by pei_vun 1 in Singles & Dating

I watching this 'maboke' a Congolese movie and the main character was happily married. when she started having problems with her hubby, he was coming home late, not eating his dinner, he even pretended he was going away on a business trip then his boss turned up to his house to look for him. she used to confide in her best friend Melody and the whole time Melody was the other woman. its quite sick but its also inspired from real life experiences. Do you guys think that certain friends can use what you confide in them against you for their own gains.
oh by the way i am completely happy in my relationship and there is complete trust. this question is just because i am curious.

2007-07-16 05:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jesuslovesmeyesiknow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's boyfriend is over, and a few seconds ago, my sister barged into my bedroom with him.. and.. my room's a mess [there's stuff all over the floor... EVERYWHERE], i have no furniture other than my bed, and on my bed, lie my undies which were supposed to be put away in my closet and a PILE of clothes too...
On the floor was a tub of Nair Leg wax...
And I was sitting on my bed like a little internet freak with the covers from my bed all over my head [what can i say.. its comfortable~!! ]
And when he entered, he was shocked and I just stare at him in shock too.. then try to laugh it off.... then the blanket that was on my head falls off to reveal reeeeally messy hair.
And then, he was really close to seeing my undies, so i threw a stuffed animal at him and pointed out random posters lying around in my room...
Is there any other way I could've handled the situation...?:???
What would you do???
IM SO EMBARASSED T____T

2007-07-16 05:29:36 · 5 answers · asked by . 2 in Family

2007-07-16 05:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend critized my fiance and myself for leaving my son with his grandparents so we could have a night out. She says that anyone who has children needs to spend all their time as family time. Won't it damage your relationship not to have"couple" time?

2007-07-16 05:27:13 · 19 answers · asked by sparkle 2 in Marriage & Divorce