so yea i have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now. Things couldnt possiibly be better. We have known eachother for 4 years prior to being a couple and have the same friends. We always go out together and have a blast. We go to dinner, we go for moonlit walks around towns, we go to parks to watch the sunset. We hold hands, she holds me and puts her head on my shoulder, we kiss, all the normal couple stuffs.
Now here is where i need some advice. She is leaving soon til the 31st of august. She will be in another country in fact so communication will be through emails. I really think im falling in love with her and i want to tell her this. I am just afraid it will break things we have. When we first started dating she had said she wanted to take things slow, but she was the one who initiated the first kiss, wanted more and frenched me too.. So i am wondering if this would be ok. We have known each other for a long time and always had feelings for each other. Advice?
2007-07-16 05:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The end of August will be here soon in a world were you may be thinking of a serious relationship with this person.
Keep things light and friendly while she is away and you have to communicate by e-mail.
IF you still feel the same when she returns that will be time enough to tell her. And then you can share, or work through how that impacts your relationship together.
2007-07-16 05:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got 6 weeks. Wait 2 or 3 more before saying anything. You may be a little clearer about what to do then. If she's initiating stuff, the "go slow" business may have been self-protection for a quick break-up or a "no sex" message. Unless you've changed your mind, tell her before she goes (At the airport always looks good in movies, but real life, I don't know.)
If she's going to be gone over 2-3 months, figure out how you can call and/or visit her. Yes, it's expensive, but cheap flights can be had. What about that courier thing? You take only an onflight bag because your checked luggage is used by some shipping service. I don't think you get to stay long or get much warning, but the young like quick and spontaneous.
2007-07-16 12:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me i would see that as a wake up call to let her know how you're truly feeling about her you know you have to let her the truth, that's the best thing you can do it's better when you tell the truth and take it from there bro i mean if it's meant to be it will happen and plus that's a chance for you to see how she truly feels bout you...
2007-07-16 12:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Peter-Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy, just enjoy things as they are, esp since she is going away, wait to see how things are when she returns, let her express her feelings and both your actions will say a lot.
2007-07-16 12:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by fran j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel now, even if it hurts, this way you know where you stand with her. If she does not feel the same it is better to know now, than lets say "the hard way".
2007-07-16 12:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Freddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her bc some hearts are broken from the words left unspoken. i should just tell her how u really feel she probably feels the same way too.
2007-07-16 12:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like it going to do must 3 ween it viner
2007-07-16 12:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋