Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

My best friend who is 18, just told me she loves a 30 year old man who has at least one kid, about 3 years old, that I know of and a wife. He apparently has told her he loves her too, and I am not suppose to try and stop it or do anything about it but I am so freaked out and disturbed and feel like I dont even know her anymore. What do I do?!? I have no idea what to tell her or how to react. I am just really really concerned! I for the life of me do not want anything to happen between them, and have never experienced anything like this before. How can someone have the mindset to do something like this? She says they just have a connection and that I don't understand but I am the only one she can talk to about it. I dont want to know about it! This is my best friend for going on 7 years and this is so out of character. I never knew this was possible. What the hell is wrong with her?!?!? Please give me some advice, I am so bothered and concerned for her.

2007-07-16 06:56:59 · 17 answers · asked by imnotgay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So i like this guy... ALOT... but i dont know if he likes me like that.. its scary but i just dont know.. hmm. but hey what should i do.. and the catch is that i have only known him for a month or so.. and we only talk on the computer.. cause we havent been able to catch eachother on the phone yet.. ahh why does life have to be so comfusing. hmm.. a lil help PLEASE

2007-07-16 06:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Carrolyn <3 2 in Singles & Dating

im confused, can someone plz help me? my friend told me that there is a diff between those two...but what?!?

2007-07-16 06:55:59 · 7 answers · asked by myohmiley 1 in Singles & Dating

A female who respects herself and her body is SO SO much more attractive and CLASSY than a girl who acts like a sl*t.

We ALREADY KNOW most guys act like dogs. Most but NOT ALL. I'm no dog, I respect girls/women. But NOW there's more and more girls that will do anything with a guy, and they couldn't care less about a relationship anymore. It's just sex with whoever and whenever. No ties. Nothing special. Girls can't blame guys for it, if they're doing the same things now.

Opinions???
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2007-07-16 06:55:15 · 8 answers · asked by i sharpen 6 in Singles & Dating

i am asking for the state of connecticut i don't know if it varies from state to stae but i'd really like to know. it will help me to make my decision a little better on whether or not to give this baby up.

2007-07-16 06:54:12 · 4 answers · asked by likethis383 1 in Family

How long dose your Orange phone ring ?
Do you get lots of missed calls ?
Do you ring the missed callers back ?
Which phone company is creaming it in ?

2007-07-16 06:53:17 · 12 answers · asked by The Groover 2 in Family

well yes, i need a man. a good man to take care of me, to love me and treat me good. I was doing all these to me x-bfs but i found out that noone cared. They all cared about sex and their friends.Where r these good men?

2007-07-16 06:50:33 · 15 answers · asked by Ev_angel_ia 2 in Singles & Dating

My on and off bf of ten years and I have broken up for good. I moved over 1,000 miles away hoping it would help me get over it but it hasn't. I feel completely awful and am so unhappy and depressed. I think about him all the time and it occupies all of my time. He cheated on me and lied to me numerous times, so why is it so hard to get over someone that treats you bad anyways? I feel like a lost a piece of myself and that I will never feel whole or normal again. I try to do things to occupy my time and thoughts but nothing works. He still calls me everyday and I talk to him but that just makes me upset, but I wonder why is he still calling me everyday. I don't know if I should talk to him or ignore him or what. I feel like I am going crazy and don't know how to get my normal fun self back. Any adivce, suggestions, ideas, or opinions would be appreciated.

2007-07-16 06:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to take revenge against someone who really made my life a hell. I am sure that I will not get justice from the court as there is no proof against him. So I plan to take revenge against him. Plz get me your suggestions

2007-07-16 06:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by Sajeev S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 06:49:28 · 23 answers · asked by chemical valentine 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i know the classic "dont buy the cow when you get the milk for free" bit but this is my situation, ive been with someone for 9 years, we own a home, we have 2 children.. we have a great relationship, after all these years we have been through the fire and back and we are great, except that i want marriage. i dont mean a wedding, id be happy (we dont have a ton of money) to go to the justice of the peace just to be his wife but he shuts me down after the mention of it.. saying that he wants to but theres always an excuse.. some would say at this point why bother but i say why not bother! I know maybe i am talking about doing things alittle backward but at this point any way we do it would be backward..hahhah. i mean please give me some insight that maybe im not seeing into what this man is thinking, hes very independent, we both work and have our own bank accts, ive said i like it that way so what is on his mind, any clues.. girls and guys advice welcome. its not like i want his $

2007-07-16 06:49:27 · 12 answers · asked by ANGELA29 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Almost all of my in-law family thinks that my brother-n-law's new wife is a "gold digger". We really think that she married him for the families money. Which there isn't any. This is only one of the many issues we have. She is very controlling and we think that my brother-n-law has pretty muched sacrificed his family, friends and life for her. She says that it's not that way. We don't want to loose him but someone who says one thing and does another what do you do? For someone who wants so desparately a family she's doing a great job of pushing us all away. IF you look up SOCIOPATH it fits her to a tee. All of us has done our best to be as civil as we can. Some of us has openly admitted our dislike for her. She can't understand why. No amount of answers will justify it for her. What can we do were it's not going to cause further stress in our family? IT has put a real strain on family get togethers. There is none anymore because of her.

2007-07-16 06:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by ////////// 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy named Daniel but I don't know if he likes me so I haven't asked him out!!

2007-07-16 06:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Katie K 2 in Singles & Dating

I called my boyfriend saying that I didn't like the way he was treating me & if he wasn't willing to treat me better then it's over. The next morning my boyfriend texted me asking to hang out & go to the movies. i said ok. He just got his license about 2 weeks ago & wanted to drive me there. My parents said no. His response was "Im really mad about this. They don't trust me." I said "Well theres nothing I can do about this my parents just want to wait until youve had your license longer. I could just meet you there" then he said "whatever i dont like your parents anymore maybe some other time" i was like "if you feel that way then fine. my parents have been nothing but nice to you"

How long will it take before he talks to me again....or do you think me and him are over?

2007-07-16 06:46:23 · 19 answers · asked by Kaylee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 06:45:44 · 15 answers · asked by <3 Turtle Owner<3 3 in Weddings

for guys only
lets see what ur dream girl would be like!!
serious answers only plz!!

2007-07-16 06:45:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And looked at your registry online and found the gifts you've received?

I'm guilty of this! I can't help it! I'm too excited!

2007-07-16 06:45:34 · 24 answers · asked by Rock Goddess 3 in Weddings

2007-07-16 06:44:46 · 5 answers · asked by bryan s 1 in Singles & Dating

Would $50 be too cheap? I personally don't even know the person and I am just going as my boyfriend's guest.

2007-07-16 06:43:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

or is it that you have been there done that. I know that there is way more to a happy marriage than sex but after 15 years is it normal to expect forplay from either party to be reduced to a single sentence along the lines of "do me the kids are with grandma". I'm young enough to still remember the exitement that I felt just thinking about being alone with my beautiful bride. Now it's more of a duty or just something to break up the day from time to time. I've even caught myself thinking of it as pretty decent exercise for getting to heart rate up. I think that I am very romatic (not 24/7) but at times and even then while the closeness is wonderfull, the physical part of it is just methodical to the point of being, dare I say, boring. Is this as good as it gets? Are there any long timers out there with ideas to rekindle the seductive juices in a marriage? or are we just to snuggle and cuddle ourselves into old age bliss?

2007-07-16 06:43:04 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex really had no reason on breaking up but he still looks at me in a not a friend way a more girlfriend way i want him back but i dont no how I finally called him and he anwsered but he was busy so i said well you can call me later but he hasnt yet and it was last night but... he told me to call him whenever so i did....now what should i do if he calls back should i ask him if he wants to hang out or....i nEED some good advice?

2007-07-16 06:40:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do have friends at work. We get together and go out for drinks on occasions.(This is just recently after my husband passed.)When I am at home I just like to strike up a conversation with an adult.

2007-07-16 06:40:25 · 16 answers · asked by enlightened 2 in Friends

I just wanna know if I'm pretty or not.Sorry! You have probably seen this question like a zillion times but I really wanna know.

Okay.I'm 5'5 with dark brown hair and sideswept bangs exactly like my avatar but going the opposite way.I'm tan,brown eyes. I have nice legs I guess. Dark eyelashes.And I think thats all.Oh yeah I'm part Italian if that helps.

Thanks alot! <3

2007-07-16 06:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 years old but she is 19 and she got married and leaves and doesnt want to say bye to me because she doesnt want to cry in front of my moms family...
what would you feel like what would you do????????????

2007-07-16 06:37:24 · 5 answers · asked by haneen a 2 in Friends

2007-07-16 06:33:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just a question?
i like guys from india for some reason.what do they look for

2007-07-16 06:32:52 · 11 answers · asked by HAIDAIYYABISBIKARO 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.... I was supposed to be getting married in like 3 months... been with this guy for 2 years... found him cheating with my best friends... we split up and now I found out Im pregnant.... what should I do .... Im real confused cuz I can have him back but don't think it would be good....

2007-07-16 06:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by BaBy GiRl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

guy or a girl??

trying to figure things out for my friend who is in a hard time with her bf.

i like guys who are emotional, funny, kool, can have a gangster moment, likes music, ummmm just sweet. and a rebel

she likes rebels, umm can't describe her boyfriend well never met him but he's okay.

2007-07-16 06:30:45 · 5 answers · asked by music kid 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the main thing you look for in a girl? What attracts you about a girl...what makes a girl unique and makes you want to be with her?

2007-07-16 06:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend, who I met a few years back. We get along pretty well and such. He never seemed like a pervert like some guys I see. However one incident made me question that:

One day he came over, it was just me and him, parents had gone out. We were chilling in my room, listening to music from his Ipod, however the night before I was up VERY late, so I slowly fell asleep.

Before I had fallen asleep, he had left to go talk to someone on his phone. Initially, I was sleeping with my face towards the chair he was sitting in. A little while later I turned my body around, with my back to his chair.

As I was napping, I felt a slight tug on my jeans. Figuring it was the wind or something, I kept napping. Then I felt a snap on my back, as if my underwear just got snapped. Still, nothing I thought.

Then, I could have sworn, I felt something cold, like a finger, go down my underwear and then the top of my underwear was being pulled, exposing my crack.

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2007-07-16 06:30:00 · 15 answers · asked by lxherandez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships