Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

I have been w/ my husband for 11 years and we've been married 9 years. Togethor we have 2 kids and I have a 12 yr old girl from my 1st marriage. I married way to young on that one and it only lasted 1 year. He has cheated on me in the past and now is picking fights w/ me over everything. He is trying to control me now more than ever and becoming verbally abusive. We as a team decided when our two year old was born for me to stay home and take care of the kids and help him run his business but now he is saying things like "He'll never have anything as long as I am here" and that I spending to much money even though he wont even put my name on the checking account and if i need money for anything i have to get it from him. The only thing i am allowed to spend money on is groceries and on rare occasions clothes for the kids. It's like he cant stand to be around me and the kids at all. He takes off all the time and leaves me w/ the kids. I cant even remember a day w/ out at least on kid.

2007-07-16 08:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by lilpixie133 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i think i like a guy that is like my best friend, but he is the kind of guy most pple dont want to mess with, as in he had his first kid when he was a junior in high school. I dont know if its hormones or what but i just have a need to talk to him as much as possible and he always responds so its not like im just talking to a brick wall. I know like every thing about him, and vise versa. Im just not sure wat to do. Some one please help.

2007-07-16 08:31:11 · 2 answers · asked by Keel 2 in Singles & Dating

I dreamt about my girlfriends cat. He was with us at the store and he went to a rich persons car and he went there to their house and he ate pot roast off a gold plate. What does that mean????

2007-07-16 08:30:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 08:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by jessie0420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay my husband just told me that he wants to join the army. the reason he wants to join is for the sign on bonus to help with the debt we are in. now he understands that this is not a quick way out of debt buts a solution to the problem for now. I dont want him to go but i will support him with what ever decision he makes.
I have 4 family members in the military now and 2 are in Iraq. 1 is about to be deployed and the other is not allowed back into the middle east because of certain issues concerning his health. all of these family members say let him go but i dont want to see to get killed and im left with 2 children to raise on my own.
he is thinking about going reserve so that he can be with us most of the time but all reservist that I have known have been deployed or they are about to go for there 2nd or 3rd tour.

2007-07-16 08:27:32 · 9 answers · asked by Becky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 going on 27 in a few weeks,my boyfriend is 22.I also have 3 little girls.We have been together 4 about a year now,should i stay in this relationship even if he young.Do ya now if they can treat a older woman good. should i let him stick around.

2007-07-16 08:26:16 · 52 answers · asked by criselda q 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for over 1 year and 7 months. and My mother just can't accept him. She says he doesn't deserve me and that I can do so much better. She doesn't like him because he is not that attractive and isn't as romantic as she would like him to be, It's not that he doesn't do cute details it's just that I am scarred to tell my parents because i fear they will criticize and make fun of my relationship. It's not like hes a bad person he cares for me and we are there for each other and support each others goals. I know i messed up because after a while of dating him i told my parents we had broken up and that was a lie because i continued to see him. Finally I wanted to make things better but my mother just gets angry when I go out.. I don't know how to convice her we truly love each other. He has proven it to me but she doesn't think it's enough... What can I do??

2007-07-16 08:25:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we finish work on wednesday for 6 six weeks and there's a guy who I've been in love with for 2 years,
I've never had the guts to tell him how I feel because I don't think I'm good enough for him and I'm quite shy and rubbish when it comes to flirting and socializing with him, I really love him and we get on really well,
please help me
thank you very much! x

2007-07-16 08:25:38 · 28 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Singles & Dating

i like my boyfriend for his good looks, but i hate his personality. i like this other boy's personality and talk to him all the time. i want to go out with him, but i think hes ugly and so do my friends. My family makes fun of him. Which guy should i go out with? plz help me! Thanks for the answers

2007-07-16 08:24:43 · 3 answers · asked by George B 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 years. During this time my marriage has been tumultuous at best. At the beginning of our marriage I was very possessive - and I didn't want to share my husband - with anyone. I'll admit - it was really a possession issue and insecurity on my part. There were also other issues going on...but I'll omit some of the details.

My husband doesn't work steady - it's been at least 3 years since he had steady employment. I have been working full time, sometimes two jobs in order to make ends meet.

About 4 years into our marriage he decided he hated where we lived, nothing was going right, we had to move. Prior to this we had been on the verge of being kicked out of every apartment we lived in because he couldn't control his temper. Never had an eviction - he also found a loophole but still looks really bad.

We moved to Las Vegas. Sold everything and uprooted our lives; I gave up a great job to move. Vegas was a nightmare!

2007-07-16 08:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by klmmlk27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I be offended or take it personal that my boyfriend thinks about other woman sexually? Isn't that a reflection of me?

2007-07-16 08:22:47 · 47 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 08:21:21 · 6 answers · asked by cashmere 1 in Family

someone you love?

2007-07-16 08:19:59 · 16 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Our wedding is in 2 weeks, today my fiancee's mother called, she said a few things that shocked us. But one of them was that she wanted to say a speach, well his mom and dad have been divorced for over 20 years, he is remarried but she isn't. She is still very bitter about everything and makes it clear that she doesn't like him or his new wife (we don't really like her either but his dad loves her so we keep our feelins to ourselves). Well she said that she was going to welcome me into HER family, not his dad's, and then she stated that she didn't want his new wife introduced into the reception like the rest of the wedding party and with my parents. She doesn't even want her invited, we had to sit his dad and his step mom at the table with my parents, cause she said if we sat them with her she would have a few words. After hearing this we are now worried that she might say something in her speach, he has told her if she does then he'll kick her a** out and she will miss the rest.

2007-07-16 08:19:37 · 36 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Weddings

12-15 subjects basically picnicing at a near by grave site "holy place" which is posted in the area with rules stating "no picnics, proper behavior at all times" and also states "please maintain a quiet reverence and respect for the other people visiting the resting sites of loved ones". My mother and sister after cleaning and placing flowers at my family's grave site walk over to the area were the family picinc was occurring and gave them their garbage from their children playing like the cementery is a play ground throwing garbage digging up the ground and etc. Instead of hay kids stay over here or stop playing on other peoples graves, the answer was you f*-&!?^ B*^%! then 3 of the females jump my sister and mother throwing them to the ground kicking hitting them with a baseball bat, grabbing and pulling their hair, please what is this world coming too, on holy grounds? Yes police where called and two female subjects where arrested, but what's next my mother scared to go back. thanks

2007-07-16 08:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by chuck c 1 in Family

she grounded me for two weeks because i beat up my developmentally challenged sister because she gave me a crappy birthday present. i also said i hopes she gets vagina cancer.

2007-07-16 08:15:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-16 08:12:19 · 59 answers · asked by lovealwaysamanda1 1 in Weddings

Should the 19 year old boy wait 2 more years until he is 21, and THEN get married?

Also, isn't 21 a better age (than 19), and it is the norm, right?

2007-07-16 08:08:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my friend likes this IT guy at her work. i thought it was too old but then i met him and though otherwise. he looks younger, is cool, and seems young.

2007-07-16 08:03:18 · 48 answers · asked by tally r 1 in Singles & Dating

it can be sexual or not but like somethng you wish she would do but would NEVER tell her. Thanks! :) please serious answers. 3somes and all that is already understood. im talking about originally stuff here.thanks! lol

2007-07-16 08:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dumped my ex about a year or more ago, and since then he's been trying in many ways to get back with me. Lately I called him up to have a (ahem) casual affair with him (if you know what I mean). I was bored, so what the hey. Now that I'm "with" him again, I'm starting to feel really possessive even though we're not in a relationship anymore, and all I can think about is him and if he has any feelings for me. I have no idea and it would be lame to ask him, seeing as I was the one who dumped him. I am so confused...

2007-07-16 08:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by Karen 3 in Singles & Dating

i caught my husband checking out videos on youtube about boobs. he always told me he hated people who did that......and he was doing it himself....i felt very cheated and cried for a lot of days...its about trust...if he likes doing things like this, why does he lie???? i dont feel like i want to have sex with him anymore....he argues constantly and opposes every little thing i do...this is my second marriage...i dont know what to do....

2007-07-16 07:59:25 · 19 answers · asked by mama_2_b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there would be an us and there would never be one a guy david sent it to me????helppppppppp

2007-07-16 07:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"I like you but I don't want to go out with you"?

2007-07-16 07:58:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 24, married and professionally successful lady. I had a courtship of 4 years before i tied the knot with the man i loved. As all relationships have their bad phases, we had them too and did stand the test of time. But since 2005, an incident did hurt me badly. Though i continued with this marriage, out of social compulsion i started believing that i wont b able to love this person so dearly than before. In the mean time i developed feelings for a guy who had loved me dearly since 2002 but i never responded. But since 2005 i fell for him when i saw his undying love for me even after so many years of not responding. Now i am in greta dilemma. Not even a single day passes without his thought but i cant leave my husband either. I feel like committing suicide since neither do i want to betray my husband nor betray the guy who till date loves me dearly.PLEASE HELP. Whats should i do

2007-07-16 07:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by Resonance 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i have a friend and she wants to go skater. I totally support her but when i want to do somethin new she totally brings me down a bout it, I dont know what to say to her? What do i do???

2007-07-16 07:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by britt 1 in Friends

2007-07-16 07:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by Aj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant stay faithful, and this guy whom i'm with is amazing but yet ive not stayed faithful and he believes i have. =/ what should i do ...

2007-07-16 07:45:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been talking to ..sort of dating a guy for the last 3 months.. he has been married and is recently divorced. His ex-wife still lives with him. He says it is so she can finish school, but they got divorced becuase she cheated. He claims there is nothing between the two of them anymore but it all seems odd to me. What would you do??

2007-07-16 07:38:28 · 50 answers · asked by amy 2 in Singles & Dating

No, really, no one (at least someone good-looking) wants to date me. I feel lame. Meow =[

2007-07-16 07:37:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating