Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

I am looking for a site to have my wedding where I can feel like a princess for the day. Ideally it would be a place I could have the ceremony and the reception, have a horse drawn carriage, and have a dance floor! I'd love a castle, but am open to ideas. I found a great site - Grand Tradition, but it is 2 hours from LA, and I'm looking for something closer.

2007-07-16 11:01:10 · 8 answers · asked by Teresa 2 in Weddings

breaking up at first was our age gap(him 27,me 37 but i look very young).Now he came back but i was shocked to find out that he still has these ideas and plus he doesn't want to spent the nights in my house like before,i mean he's a little distant.I really like him but for the first time in my life i feel insecure and sad.There's also another guy that he's very gentle and sweet and he cares about me.Even if i have real passion for my bf i think i have to stop it now bf i get hurt but it's very difficult to do it.I don't know how to move on.

2007-07-16 10:59:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"Love means never having to say you're sorry." How do you feel about this?

2007-07-16 10:49:17 · 29 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend of nine years just all of a sudden passed away on tuesday, I havent dealt with it at all im afraid it I do i'll break down. What can I do to keep my mind off of it... I miss her so much she was like my third sister

2007-07-16 10:45:31 · 12 answers · asked by chelsmat2001 2 in Singles & Dating

I got a job about a month ago.. I hate it, i get paid underminimum wage..and i get long horrible hours... there is nothing i can do about it and i never wanted this job in the first place. My parents made me get it. Its stressing me out becuase i work all weekend and never get to see my friends or Boyfriend... My mom tells me to do thinds during the week which doesnt work cus everyone i know works weekdays and has weekends off...

I told my mom i was going to give my two weeks notice at the end of the month and she said thats just dandy your going to end up like a loser, just like your boyfriend.. working fulltime no degrees and being comlete poor moron....
My mom just doesnt get it, for one thing my job is stressing me out like crazy and is making me go mental... And then she says my boyfriend is a loser, he has his highschool diploma and just becuase his family isnt rich doesnt mean hes never gunna get a degree.. he has to pay rent and food all by himself.. hes saving up slowly

2007-07-16 10:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was with my girlfriend for 3 months. We broke up but we kept sleeping with each other. She just told me that she is pregnant. I have no worries that it is mine but she also confessed to me that she got pregnant on purpose and had been lying to me about being on birth control for the last month.
At first I thought that she was trying to trap me to stay with her but then she told me that she doesnt want me in her life and just wanted my sperm to have a child with. I want the child. I want to take the child from her completely and take full custody of it when its born.Let me explain though, she is beautiful, intelligent and has a lot going for her but clinically insane because of a lot of issues that happened to her as a child; I don't think that she would be fit.I'm so angry at her though and I want nothing to do with her as far as us goes but she is threatening to dissapear with my child if I don't cease to stop being an "asshole" to her. Im just so angry at her,what do I do?

2007-07-16 10:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At my school program, there is a half asian half spanish girl that is very pretty and seductive. She is out to get every man to sleep with her including 60s old professors. She likes pretty girls too. And she claims she can sleep with the whole class at the same time. When she moves her eyes (very big pretty eyes) and her butt, all men seem to be in trance. I observed what she did once, it is amazing, as if she can put guys in trance. Of course, she uses her charm to get good job placement and get answers to exam before hand. I have never seen creature like this before, is this witchcraft or ultimate art of seduction?

2007-07-16 10:39:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, so what's a better idea when going on a first date, should the boy pay or we split it into half

2007-07-16 10:32:56 · 59 answers · asked by TheInsider 2 in Singles & Dating

hey everyone i been married for 3 years and i recently left my husband 2 months ago to be my own woman and i am now free and living on my own.i dont care to say much about the marriage from hell but i came here to ask a question.ok here is the question.......since i moved out i have not had sex with another man not even so much as a kiss.i been on a few dates though even though im still married,but for me it dont matter if im still married while dating because i will NEVER EVER IN LIFE GET MARRIED AGAIN......NOT UNLESS YOU PUT A GUN TO MY HEAD and threaten to harm my fAMILY! now my question is ....i feel like im waiting for someone to be in love with like maybe that is y im dating to find a man i dunno...and i think that is because i was married but never experienced romantic times and all the normal stuff that i did not have in my marriage and i am craving that feeling......or should i just not worry bout love and just have sex buddies and just sleep around enjoy my "singlehood" ?

2007-07-16 10:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by sweetsabina88 1 in Singles & Dating

im looking for a real asnwer ............is it because society says you shouldn't or do you do it for the power you get out of the relationship.

2007-07-16 10:26:21 · 15 answers · asked by woowooowoooowoooooo 3 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed this pattern in my past 2 relationships. They stop wanting to have sex with me as much. I am told by people that i am very pretty, so i hate to think that they are not attracted to me... i am very open minded sexually, there is not too much i wont do, I try to be exciting, for example, slipping into something sexy, but it does not phase him, What is my problem

2007-07-16 10:25:23 · 13 answers · asked by nancy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I just posted a question here and it is about my family inviting me to go to Aruba for a week. I decided no because my mom would have to work overtime to have to pay the 1200 dollars required to go. So I went and told her to say no for me and now she keeps arguing with me because she wants me to go? And she also told me my brother may go... which adds up to 2400 dollars that she has to pay! She is adament on me going but I don't want to make her pay all that What do I do now?

Thanks 4 answering =)

2007-07-16 10:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by Sunshine 4 in Family

sorry for being mean but im just plain out curious to know what the most ugliest name is

2007-07-16 10:24:20 · 15 answers · asked by needa 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and recenty my parents got divorced. before they told me they said "you are the most important thing in the world to us and we want the best for you" well, i haven't been happy really. my girlfriends parents are divorced but they still live in the same house because they want to make life easier and better for her. i don't understand how they can say that they love me but still put me through all this crap. I've considered suicide a few times. my mom and dad seem really sad all the time too so i just don't understand how this is the right thing to do, for them too. can someone give me advice on how to cope with this?

2007-07-16 10:23:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Will be going to court 2marrow and little nervous, I feel that I could just vent more. This is my 1st divorce and feels that my wife is going crazy. I still wish we could be together for my daughter’s sake. I do not want the divorce but it is what it is. We have 1 child together and she has accused me of abducting her from daycare. She has said things about me that are not true. How can this be? When my child was abducted there was no order. While in my wife care she had a third degree burn, how it happened I don’t know. I have stopped giving her money due to my little income. She was the bread winner in my household. She makes 65K I made 25K. She is trying to kick me out of the house which we acquired during marriage; however I signed a quick claim. (Did not know what I really signed back then, though it was because my credit was to bad, so we decided not to put me on the deed. WHAT A MISTAKE. If we divorcees can I argue that I help keep the pay for the mortgage? I obtained counsel last week but her lawyer was on vacation so her lawyer does not know that I have counsel. Will anything happen? We will go into court and ask for a continues. How long will the continues be? I’m nervous. Also I want to see my child, which the mediator recommends that I take a parenting class and only get 10 hours a week supervised. My lawyer will be attacking the mediator recommendations. With the last 10 years never been in trouble with the law why this?

2007-07-16 10:23:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am divorcing my husband and have left the home and i found out from my son that he is telling everyone i had an affair when i didn't. Anyone who knows me knows i didn't but anyone who knows of me do not know and i hate that he is slandering my reputation all around town. I live in a small town and word gets around and he knows that. I don't worry about it as i know i am innocent but it still is a nasty thing to do. What should i do and why is he doing this...it is so diabolical. It just shows that i am very correct in divorcing him though..huh? no doubts...

2007-07-16 10:23:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mind you I got "fixed" (OUCH!) and can not get her pregnant again. But lately she does let me climax inside of her because she says it is too messy and "runs" for two days. Is it that bad She never complained before.

2007-07-16 10:22:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have never gone fishing before but it sounds like fun! I really need to know though because my reputation is on the line!

2007-07-16 10:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by KeeWee 2 in Family

I work in a professional field (civil engineering) and always thought major amounts of tattoos and peircings were trashy. I have three tattoos that are only seen when being "intimate". Would you consider that attractive or trashy? I like my art work but afraid it might attract the wrong impression.

2007-07-16 10:19:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

than all of your married family and friends??
how many "happily" married couples do you know???

2007-07-16 10:19:10 · 8 answers · asked by slopoke6968 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 10:10:16 · 28 answers · asked by JeTaime 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that works at a bowling alley I go to a lot. He also is a regular at my mothers store where I help out at. He never makes me pay for any of my games and is always telling my mother how sweet and cute I am. We've never had a serious conversation just the usual "Hey, how are you?" I have a bit of a crush on him but am really shy.

I know whenever he comes into the shop he always buys the same cigs. I was thinking about buying him a carton of them and giving them to him. Would you be weirded out? Free cigs are good, no? Is this a good idea or not? Is it stalkerish?

2007-07-16 10:07:31 · 16 answers · asked by Danielle 4 in Singles & Dating

why is that men and women react differently to porn?

men seem to view it as nochalant, no big deal.

women seem to have a problem with men watching porn
why?
is it low self esteem, and getting jealous over the women in the porn? do we secretly want to be those women?
it is just interesting that men and women see it differently.

2007-07-16 10:03:28 · 14 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would you be open to a serious relationship with a man who has been divorced and has children? I am in this situation, and a lot of people disagree with this. Just seeing how you all feel about it? I think to disregard a man because of his past, we could be missing out on lots of potential. What do you all believe?

2007-07-16 10:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this sounds stupid but at my brother's wedding, the bride's niece was totally out of hand. It seemed that she had no discipline in her raising at ALL! She was the flower girl and I understand that children are children but during the ceremony she was just stomping all over the alter and yelling and just talking like NO ONE else was there and no one did ANYTHING about it! Then the mother of the bride played a song on the piano and the little girl went over there and started banging on the piano and no one did anything!!! I was sooo shocked! Through everything she was doing, not one person took her aside or told her to be a good girl or anything!!

So now after that happened, I DEF want to make sure that doesn't happen at my wedding, so my question is how do I let parents know, or should i say no children allowed at wedding unless they are babies, or does this sound REALLY rare to happen and most likely people would have done something? Just give me your feedback!

2007-07-16 09:59:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-16 09:58:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance kissed another girl at a party. He doesnt remember it happening, and was beyond drunk. I told him I would stay with him if he quit drinking, which he was more then willing to do. (so i thought) After about a month of keeping his promise, I found out he started drinking behind my back. Needless to say, I lost all trust for him. He knows this, and is doing nothing to gain it back. He still lies about little things, so I havent been able to even begin trusting him again. But I love him VERY much, and he loves me very much too, plus we have a family together. The good times definitely override the bad, and we are getting married in a month. But it all kind of hit me that I was stupid to agree to marry him before our problems were fixed. But now that the wedding is so close, it has made me realize that I could be taking a huge risk. Why wont he just stop this stuff? I love him so much, and it hurts me so bad. I have never once lied to him, or betrayed him. What should I do?

2007-07-16 09:57:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

mine is my nana (grandmother) wondering if she i looking down on me for heaven.

2007-07-16 09:55:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just for fun!

The worst one for me is that I went to one and all they did is pray and talk about Jesus and how the man is made in the image of Jesus so he rules the house and on and on.
Little uncomfortable for myself since it was a different religion then my own and I have never seen a shower become a bible meeting.

2007-07-16 09:55:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-16 09:55:37 · 24 answers · asked by essexboi 1 in Marriage & Divorce