What happen 2marrow?

Question

Will be going to court 2marrow and little nervous, I feel that I could just vent more. This is my 1st divorce and feels that my wife is going crazy. I still wish we could be together for my daughter’s sake. I do not want the divorce but it is what it is. We have 1 child together and she has accused me of abducting her from daycare. She has said things about me that are not true. How can this be? When my child was abducted there was no order. While in my wife care she had a third degree burn, how it happened I don’t know. I have stopped giving her money due to my little income. She was the bread winner in my household. She makes 65K I made 25K. She is trying to kick me out of the house which we acquired during marriage; however I signed a quick claim. (Did not know what I really signed back then, though it was because my credit was to bad, so we decided not to put me on the deed. WHAT A MISTAKE. If we divorcees can I argue that I help keep the pay for the mortgage? I obtained counsel last week but her lawyer was on vacation so her lawyer does not know that I have counsel. Will anything happen? We will go into court and ask for a continues. How long will the continues be? I’m nervous. Also I want to see my child, which the mediator recommends that I take a parenting class and only get 10 hours a week supervised. My lawyer will be attacking the mediator recommendations. With the last 10 years never been in trouble with the law why this?

Well it all sounds good. My wife is trying to slander me in court. She knows that I am a good parent and would never hurt her. She is using Isabella because she knows that she’s the world to me. I miss her dearly. I’ve not seen her since May 30 2007 when she accused me of abducting her from daycare. I feel so bad that I have missed part of her growing up. I just cant wait until I c her. My wife is wrong to keep her away from me. I hope she pays for this missed time.

Answer 1

You got to take a moment and bring calm to your mind, and calm will implant itself in your situation.

I believe in any child custody battle, and divorce each parent believes they are right. Some resort to devious means to make the other parent look negligent, and noncaring. Judges have seen these cases many times, and they know how to discern the truth. I believe they have heard every lie, trick in the book. The judge will look at the facts, it's about what's best for the child. I don't really think how much money you make is a big factor, it's about how much love and nurturing you give that child.

With the mediator recommending you a parenting class, it look as though he/she thinks you need help in parenting. Supervised parenting usually means they want to monitor you and your child's relationship. If you attend the supervised parenting, and come out in good standing..the hours of supervised visitation will drop until it no longer exists.

It just seems as though things have gotten messy between you two. You must now put your focus on your child, not on being with the mother. Kids are pretty smart, and can feel if there's tension. I hope things work out for you. Pray, and put it in God' s hands. I believe things will utimately work out for the good in the end.

Answer 2

Divorce does that to people. Your lawyer can answer these questions.