I was with my girlfriend for 3 months. We broke up but we kept sleeping with each other. She just told me that she is pregnant. I have no worries that it is mine but she also confessed to me that she got pregnant on purpose and had been lying to me about being on birth control for the last month.
At first I thought that she was trying to trap me to stay with her but then she told me that she doesnt want me in her life and just wanted my sperm to have a child with. I want the child. I want to take the child from her completely and take full custody of it when its born.Let me explain though, she is beautiful, intelligent and has a lot going for her but clinically insane because of a lot of issues that happened to her as a child; I don't think that she would be fit.I'm so angry at her though and I want nothing to do with her as far as us goes but she is threatening to dissapear with my child if I don't cease to stop being an "asshole" to her. Im just so angry at her,what do I do?
2007-07-16 10:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is the worst betrayal of trust! Too bad you didn't use a condom. I tell my son all the time...women will lie about it-always use a condom!
Now that there's a child, I would consult an attorney
2007-07-16 10:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear of a condom? it takes two you knew this woman had mental problems yet you did not protect yourself.men are stupid to leave the birth control entirely on the woman because this **** happens all the time.my husband had a 3 week encounter with an ex schoolmate 10 years ago,she told him i cant get pregnant! she already had 2 kids how stupid can you be,and he knew she was a welfare rat.so he trusted her and you guessed it he has a 9 year old daughter with a tramp he cant stand and is ashamed he ever screwed let alone had a kid with.don't you guys ever use your brains!stop being an asshole maybe she will give the baby up for adoption it would probably be for the best! good luck.
2007-07-16 17:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by dixie58 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oooow, may sound strange to you but it might be a ploy..a game. I don't think she's pregnant. I've seen my friends do this to guys. As a matter a fact I have one friend that believed this, I'm on the pill thing... and now has 6 children from 6 different women. Don't be so naive, if you don't want a child yet, you take control of the issue. Good Luck in your conclusion.
2007-07-16 18:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you should have used a condom no matter what the case may be and second you may say she isn't fit to raise a kid,you don't know what she is capable of doing when this baby comes.and a word of advice trapping men by getting pregnant don't work anymore if you are old enough to know than you would not use the word trap.
2007-07-16 18:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by nickkie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do... Tell her you love her and that you will change and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her but you just aren't ready for a child right now and that you need to plan your future better blah, blah, blah. once she has the abortion dump her or use a condom stupid.
2007-07-16 17:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by trickyricky375 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would go to the police now to see if you can make a formal complaint before she gives birth and leaves.
2007-07-16 17:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋