What am i doing wrong?

Question

I have noticed this pattern in my past 2 relationships. They stop wanting to have sex with me as much. I am told by people that i am very pretty, so i hate to think that they are not attracted to me... i am very open minded sexually, there is not too much i wont do, I try to be exciting, for example, slipping into something sexy, but it does not phase him, What is my problem

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with you. I think that for a lot of men, their goal is to get you, and have sex with you. When that goal is achieved, their desire is fulfilled, may I say. So I guess that they do not want to have sex with you as much or they want to do different things with you. I have been married for 6 years, and the first year we had most sex, but then as the time goes by, we started having sex less and less. That does not mean that we do not love each other or we are not attracted to each other because we do love each other and we are attracted to each other. But we are interested in different things. So dont worry. That may mean that he wants to do things that are more meaningful with you. You know. You should ask him.

Answer 2

The world may want to believe that every relationship has to go through some kind of slump or that things went too fast...however there are ways to keep men interested! believe it or not!
it's simple, but only because they are!
give them the remote!
don't complain when they walk through the door
have dinner on the table when they get home (or there if they don't live with you) occasionally
pick up the tab ( once in a blue moon)
rub their feet (show them they don't gross you out- even if they do)
watch a ball game (even if you read a book while doing it)
don't talk down their friends (that you hate!)

little things go a long way! and get you a long way! and keep things going a long way......oh yeah!!!! and don't nag! AND THE BIG ONE!!!! STAY OFF THE PHONE!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

I dont' believe you have a promblem that's just life, all relationships have there slumps....even after getting married after awhile most couples stop having sex so much, when your in the relationship and you see it headed that way, talk to the man and ask him what's going on, to get peace of mind and to get the best answer go back and talk to the last two men you had a relationship with and ask them why that happened, they'll give you the best answer there..

Answer 4

Could be your relationships move along too fast? Maybe the guys you're dating want more challenge. The next time you start dating a guy, set a slower pace. Enjoy holding hands for a while, having romantic dinners, seeing movies...

Believe it or not, most guys can be very romantic if given a chance.

Good luck--

Answer 5

You're chosing men who have less sex drive than you.

All men are hot to fool around in the beginning.

That is no indicator of how a relationship is going to go.

You knew he didn't cook, barely managed to get Any laundry done, and had garbage-can deficit before you got with him. So, now you cook, clean, do laundry and take the trash out.

He's done. Mission accomplished. Video game time.

Start dating grown ups, it really helps.

Answer 6

Maybe the men your picking
they might be the same type and once they get everything they want from you they are looking to move on
They will realize they are missing out on something good
or maybe you scared them and r just to hot for them to handle
wimps

Answer 7

when that "newness" and original lust die down, so does the sex sometimes.

my hubby and i went from doing it 5 times a week to 3 times a week.. sometimes still 5... but on average 3

Answer 8

Maybe you try too hard. If you come on too strong, that could be a real turn off.

Answer 9

Stop giving it up so fast.....aren't you getting it...they just want you because you're easy

Answer 10

Sounds like it's not you with the problem, it's him.