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I think so, everyone likes to look, but some use their brains and don't touch

2007-07-16 10:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Looking isn't the same as wanting.
Say a hot red sports car zips by you. You look at it because it's flashy or pretty or the color is amazing; you may even admire how shiny or fast it is. But that doesn't been you want it, or that you would take it if someone offered you the keys. It doesn't go with your lifestyle, your values, your personality.

So simply "checking out" other women means very little - if does so with no consideration for your presence/feelings, if he makes desirous comments about other women, if he does anything more than look, then you have something to worry about.

2007-07-16 10:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 3 0

Yes everyone looks at beauty even the faithful women it's not the look but the thought after that matters I look at others when in love but never put it in the lust section of the brain because I'm happy with 1 person I don't need lust when in love looking is just the appreciation of another human & ther should be nothing further

2007-07-16 10:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sure, why not? They're in a relationship, not dead. Not every guy will but many will...and there's nothing wrong with that. Goodness knows many women check out other men when they're in a relationship, and there's nothing wrong with that either.

Humans are visual creatures...it would be odd for us not to appreciate something we saw and felt was attractive. That doesn't mean we want to have it. ☺

2007-07-16 10:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1 0

Yes -- and any man who says he doesn't is lying. Men are visual creatures; we are aroused by what we see (which is why most porn is geared toward men). Women are more verbal in their pathway of arousal -- they get turned on by words, preferably spoken but written works, too (hence most erotica being geared toward women).

If it bothers you when your guy checks out other women, consider this; are you going to stop liking it when another guy gives you a nice compliment? If not, you have no right to expect him to act against his nature by not liking good-looking women. The best that you and your man can do is to have an agreement like my wife and I have -- "You can check out the menu all you like, but you can't order until you get home." Being spoken for doesn't stop you from liking what you like, but you get to choose how (or if) you act on those impulses.

2007-07-16 10:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 2 0

I would have to say YES. Eyes always wander no matter what. Of course if the faithful guy is wandering his eyes all day long when your with him while your talking that's a different story. But men tend to sneak a peak with their eyes.

It's sorta like Art when something magnificient comes along it is an eye catcher.

2007-07-16 10:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by nycxwes 2 · 3 0

Of course. Ok lets put it this way. It's only human nature to check others out. there's nothing wrong with it as long as they're not touching. I have a bf and we both still check out others. here's my grandmother's famous saying... "just because your on a steady diet, doesn't mean you can't look over the menu, you can look but you can't order!" happy looking.

2007-07-16 10:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Of course they do but the ones with the most respect will do it in a way that their eyes never seem to leave you. Heck Iam a woman and I check out guys and my boyfriend could not tell you he has ever seen me do it.

2007-07-16 10:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by pink panther 1 · 1 0

yes they do! its natural. i have learnt not to be offended when i see my man check out other women. that's where it ends, checking out, it dont mean he's going in for the kill. men do it unconsciously. its not done to disrespect you or with the intention of having a bite. its just nature. i check out good looking men too!

2007-07-16 10:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by june 1 · 1 0

I know I do... I mean, I'm not a man or anything but I am extremely faithful to my bf but love checking people out.

2007-07-16 10:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Of course they do it's in their nature and there is nothing wrong with that as long as they don't act on it. You should love a man who can appreciate a nice looking woman I mean he's with you right?

2007-07-16 10:14:05 · answer #11 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 1 0

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