Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

Also, will this just allow me to have the wedding on the beach or will it allow me to have it on the beach and keep the area closed off to the public as well for the duration of the wedding?

2007-07-16 02:17:32 · 7 answers · asked by gpwebbler 1 in Weddings

I know this topic has been here billion times. But I just wanted to know your comments about my situation.
Me having an affair with my best friends wife since 10 months
as they moved near to my house. She has on 4 yr old girl.
To be honest I use to fantasy her everyday before we came close.And it was she who made the very first step.I believe the only first attraction is between an affair is sex and then which turns out to be so called love provided you like the person also.

Now she wants to concieve very badly & very much frustated at this situation. And she doesnt wants to have sex with me unless she gets pregnant and may be during the entire pregnancy. She says the child in her stomach wont be pure while having sex with 2 men( me & her husband)

And Iam very frustated at this moment as I cannot have sex with her. And I feel the love level has also gone down.She doesnt gets those urges to meet me or see me what she used to have a month ago.So I feel maybe she doesnt luv me anymore

2007-07-16 02:14:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm newly back in the dating scene and I have a question. If you went out on a date with someone and had a really good time, but were not at all physically attracted to the person, would you go out with them again?

2007-07-16 02:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Singles & Dating

im a grl and my bro always beats up on me im 15 and hes 17 he has threatened to kill me and has threatened to "send my parents to the hospital" if they dont do what he wants. What ever he wants and my parents say no he will threaten to hurt me?! idk i always get caught in the middle...hes the type of guy where if my dad bought me something, than he will have to have something 6 times better than mine or he will beat me. im just stuck in this sitituation where there is no escape this has been happening for the past 2 years and my whole personality has changed because of it, im emotional, depressed, and suicidal. i try to escape by going in my room and locking my doors, but he just gets a key and opens it or breaks itdown, trys to fight with me, hes intentially doing this. he has already broken my moms arm when he was hitting me and she tried to stop it. i always think about calling the police and finish with him but my parents would neverr evrr let, if i did they probably would hate me!

2007-07-16 02:13:27 · 25 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Family

i was told that i am always the friend. i date guys, but i always end up being the "FRIEND"

2007-07-16 02:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by melanie w 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I married my husband (who for some reason has very high IQ) he seems to have forgotten his role as a provider, husband, friend and confident. He seems to play stupid or not be responsible for our finances and tries to pass it off on me or the creditors he owes money. For example, he has not paid a bill since Feb 07 and has been trying through contacts to get it 'squashed' now its July 07 and the bailiffs are coming to collect on it. It angers me that he is not responsible and that he acts like an idiot when it comes to his responibilities. Why do I always have to take charge when it is his duty and HIS BILL?

2007-07-16 02:11:00 · 20 answers · asked by Sweet & Spicy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need one that will give me lots of good tips!
What has been most helpful to you?

Thanks! =)

2007-07-16 02:07:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just need power for music so maybe a amp and some speakers.

2007-07-16 02:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by raryke 1 in Weddings

... he left the phone in his friend car or it was dead and he lost the charger but there are other ways for him to call me. the first time it was okay but he has done this two other times. i would call off other phones or get friends to call and he still dnt answer so it's not like he's dodging me but i want to know what should i do? oh and this wkend he did it and txt me this morning on his way to work saying he would call me on his break. whats going on?

2007-07-16 02:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to have a boyfriend. We split up in April. I know he's still fond of me; he'd probably agree to get back together (if that was what I wanted.) The problem is that I figured out that I wasn't romantically interested in him - he was a great guy and a great friend, but not what I wanted in a boyfriend.

I'm so lonely lately. All I see all around are happy couples.
I want a boyfriend. I want to feel wanted and needed and special and appreciated and like a person again, not a rejected piece of garbage.

And I feel guilty for this, because the one and only guy in the whole universe who actually wanted me, I was too picky and I rejected.

Do I have a chance at finding someone else?
And where should I look?

I'm not that pretty. I'm not that great, period, but I'm so sick of being alone. I wake up alone and wish I hadn't awakened at all.

2007-07-16 01:59:50 · 2 answers · asked by sunspotflares 1 in Singles & Dating

Within the next 6-8 months I want to buy my gf an engagment ringt. Is there a "certain" amount that I would go and spend?

2007-07-16 01:55:16 · 18 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1 in Weddings

thnx for ur reply. i am bit confused , tell me
1 whats the total time period, to leave seperate to get divorce.
2 is the case to filed in family court before the total seperation time or after the required years of seperation.
3 does the indian family court gives divorce on the basis of years of seperation, even if the women is not ready to seperate and the men is ready.
sorry for all the trouble i m giving to u, but need this info very badly for my friend.

2007-07-16 01:55:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if so, what? thanks.

2007-07-16 01:52:33 · 48 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family

Sure most girls and women see little problems in behavior of their husbands or boyfriends. Of course they don't want to loose their partner but they don't like the bad behavior.
What can they do?
What could help in education men? Refusing the s'x? Other kinky things?

2007-07-16 01:51:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jean H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a person, with very low self esteem as is. And my mother nagging me about me wearing makeup is making this worse. I feel prettier in make up, i do not wear it gothic or anything like that, i wear it very tastefully actually. No one other than my mother and father say anything about it, in fact every one else thinks it's really pretty,. My mom always tells me i look ugly with it and so does my dad. The way i see it, is i don't think i look that pretty without makeup, and when i do put it on, they don't think i look pretty. So no matter what i do now, i don't feel; pretty. How can i make them stop nagging me? it's EVERY single day. And they don't even realize what i t's doing to me, i'm already dealing with self confidenmce regarding my weight, i don't nee dto be self concious about my face too. Help!?!

2007-07-16 01:50:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

but i need a girlfrind am 23 yrs old,my hair is black,am christian,6ft and in love listerning music,watching movie and studying,

2007-07-16 01:50:19 · 14 answers · asked by Dr.Manuel 1 in Singles & Dating

Spoke to my ex this week end and it was quite a nice conversation. We talked for a while and he had to do something so he said he would ring me back from his work phone cos he had no minutes or txts left on his phone, this was saturday and he didnt. So last nite I txt him saying that I read somehwhere that if some one says they will ring you and they dont you should CO OPERETE with them and not call them, and that it was quite funny that for some one who sayd he never rings any one that he has no mins on his phone, so obviously he must be calling SOMEBODY and my bad for ringing him! i JUST GOT ANNOYED COS HE DOES THIS ALL THE TIME and he says he doesnt have a gal or is not seeing any one. I think I have a right to be annoyed cos he does it all the time!

2007-07-16 01:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the relation which make shali adhi ghar wali?

2007-07-16 01:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by somveer k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you girls like in any mans physical apperence.
bascilly what do u find hot

2007-07-16 01:45:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy bestfriend who is married with a kind wife. Cant find reason to cheat her but my best friend does most of the time. Lately I can sense that he is affected in everything that I do specially on going out.. im separated with 4 kids by the way. When we are together i cant hear him say anything bad even if we go home 4 or 5am but when im with our friends he says things that really hurt. He cant say direct that hes jealous but he seems very angry and would even look for an outlet to his anger... creating a fight with other people. I told him before that i think im falling for him but he said that will be best friend forever thats it. then i stop seeing him 4 a while but would find a way to communicate with me even a simple hello to inviting me to accompany him. I would say i still like him but im feeling that he is falling for me but cant just tell me. Do you think he does like me or not.

2007-07-16 01:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by miga 1 in Singles & Dating

do you do it in front of other people? in front of your children?

2007-07-16 01:36:25 · 15 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you let it turn into a full blown affair? Does your wife know? How did it resolve?

2007-07-16 01:34:28 · 5 answers · asked by May K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 01:33:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how many years have you been married and do you think it will only end when one of you dies?

2007-07-16 01:28:09 · 17 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex still lives with me and i told him he has 30 days to find a place. He is taking all of this very hard. But atleast im giving him time so he has somewhere to go and time to save money. thats fair warning right??? or am i wrong?

2007-07-16 01:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Specifically, I want to know, why there are many clashes in the couple's lives during the first few years. Dont they feel the necessity to try and understand the spouse during the first few months only.

2007-07-16 01:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by beauty of soul 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you ask the opinion of others?

2007-07-16 01:24:14 · 6 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-16 01:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Mayor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 01:12:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes maybe the guys I'm dating are not a good match, but sometimes I also wonder if I might be saying the wrong things early in the relationship.

I didn't get a lot of guidance or modeling for good communication when I was younger, so often I just don't know if something is okay to say. I tend to share my feelings pretty openly, so if I'm unsure about someone or something I'll usually say it. I never say things rudely or insensitively, but I guess I am thinking that maybe some things (worries and inner questions) are better left unsaid?

I'm wondering how I can learn more about what I should or should not say early in a relationship? This is SO hard for me to do, as I'm just a very open person when it come to these things. (But I don't want to be so open that I scare others off!)

I really want to find the right person and am willing to look at my own behavior to see if I'm making mistakes.

2007-07-16 01:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating