I have a guy bestfriend who is married with a kind wife. Cant find reason to cheat her but my best friend does most of the time. Lately I can sense that he is affected in everything that I do specially on going out.. im separated with 4 kids by the way. When we are together i cant hear him say anything bad even if we go home 4 or 5am but when im with our friends he says things that really hurt. He cant say direct that hes jealous but he seems very angry and would even look for an outlet to his anger... creating a fight with other people. I told him before that i think im falling for him but he said that will be best friend forever thats it. then i stop seeing him 4 a while but would find a way to communicate with me even a simple hello to inviting me to accompany him. I would say i still like him but im feeling that he is falling for me but cant just tell me. Do you think he does like me or not.
2007-07-16 01:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by miga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is married, get a grip on yourself and stick with what he said and stay bff, life sucks bad enough without screwing up some unsuspecting woman's (or man whatever the case at the time) day/life.
2007-07-16 01:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by scsspace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lippie thats a really chavonist thing to say. everyone deserves a break and a laugh even if this lady has 6 kids 4 kids or only 1, She is entitled to go out and stay out all night if she likes, We all deserve to live a little. You men do!!! And leave your wives and gf's at home so you can go off bozzing and partying all night.
I personally wouldn't get involved with your friend, Its too close to home and also if it all goes wrong you have lost a friend. Try and stay away from him for a bit, So you guys can get back to normal. don't tell him what your doing so much, and if he's married you do not want to be the one that helps his marriage break up. If he can cheat on his wife he can do it to you. best stay friends, its less painful
2007-07-16 02:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Jealousy and Anger are signs of holding back true feelings. We learned a new trick while being trained as mediators for middle school. The Iceberg Theory- Anger is what is on top but once you get to the bottom of it instead you are feeling: Sad, unhappy, stressed, disappointed, and who knows what else. Try
talking about it with someone.
2007-07-16 01:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like inflecting pain on yourself? Why would you want to go out/ be with someone that cheats on his wife? Why are you coming home at 4 or 5 in the morning when you have 4 kids at home to take care of? You need to ask yourself why you find the need to go out instead of staying home and taking care of your own. What's wrong with your man, why isn't he there? I really don't care if he likes you, I'm worried that you don't like yourself enough to be a good woman, and mother.
2007-07-16 01:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy and anger are usually behind feeling inadequate and no confidence in yourself.
2007-07-16 01:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he truely loves and cares for you as a friend
2007-07-16 01:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by 1st lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound more confused than he does.
2007-07-16 01:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋