... he left the phone in his friend car or it was dead and he lost the charger but there are other ways for him to call me. the first time it was okay but he has done this two other times. i would call off other phones or get friends to call and he still dnt answer so it's not like he's dodging me but i want to know what should i do? oh and this wkend he did it and txt me this morning on his way to work saying he would call me on his break. whats going on?
2007-07-16 02:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are life lessons that we have to learn.. Maybe this one is yours. Have you ever been with someone else boyfriend? You know the Bible tells us that we will reap what we sow. SO if we sow bad seeds they will come up bad. But if we sow good seeds they will come up. So now this is a choice you have to make. If you are on the up and up and you are being faithful. Then don't let some some sorry no good man bring you down. This will only make it harder to let go in the long run when you really have had enough
2007-07-16 04:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 13:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if your boyfriend wanted to get a hold of you he would find a way. He may not be dodging you but rather not wanting contact from anybody he is not already with.
I would confront him in a nice way when you are together again and firmly explain your concerns and that he should not make plans to see you or contact you unless he does all he can to come through. If it continues it may be time to decide if your relationship may be in trouble, especially if this is a new development as he was more attentive in the past.
Determine a relationship's worth by comparing how much time you spend happy and content to how much time you spend unhappy and anxious.
2007-07-16 02:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by grtchi09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to be a puppet on a string, calling you all the time. Why do you feel so insecure that you have to talk to him all the time? You need to get a life and go about your business and not worry about him, when you do that believe me he will be calling you to find out why you havn't called him. Let him be the pursurer, let him chase you. But don't go back to the old ways once he starts calling again. If he doesn't call then you know he is not what you want as a boyfriend. Find someone that will appreciate you and want to be with you.
2007-07-16 02:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to worry you. But in my experience. It's either a guys way of telling you he wants some space, or he for some unknown reason doesnt want to be with you. Meaning he has no reason to brk up w/ you ie(No other girl, doesnt have a demanding job, can't find something wrong with you.-In other words you're a great girl, and he's a confused guy)
When my ex did that to me he ended up texting me "bye" what a break up. I felt it coming...
Best luck to you honey, and if it is over u sound like a dang good chikc and you will find better!!
2007-07-16 02:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm. This is a tough one. I remember when my boyfriend and I first started dating he pulled this "stunt" and I went crazy on him. He never did it again. However in your case two days is unacceptable and he could be just needing time alone. Sometime guys get "funny" and pull away. It could be two options ...either he wants to break up and doesn't want to do the dirty work so he is pulling stunts like this hoping you'll get fed up and do it or he's really going through something and doesn't want to talk about it. You know him better then us. When he calls you on your break try telling him how you feel.
2007-07-16 05:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Dior Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad you said your "boyfriend" and not your husband, that means it's not to late to dump the guy, you definately don't need that! If he doesn't care about your feelings then don't waste your time with him. He's playing games, sounds to me like he wants you around when HE wants you around. What about when you want him around? Loyalty works both ways. He doesn't have the right to treat you like that. There are so many wonderful, funny, sweet, respectful, and honest guys out there that no woman should ever end up with a jerk!!!! The best way to find out if any guy is a good guy, watch how he treats his mom, if he treats her with respect and love and kindness and gentleness, if he always remembers his mom's birthday and mother's day, if his mom can call for help with something and he goes to help her, If he stops by to see her from time to time, just to say "hi mom, I love you", if he calls to take her to dinner every once in awhile, then you have a great guy. and someone who will never treat you the way your boyfriend is treating you now. I know, I ended up with a teriffic guy. I love him dearly and I see his love in everything he does, not just with me, but with his mom, his sisters, etc.
2007-07-16 02:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometiems guys just want a little time for themselves, and don't want to be bothered by their g/f. It's nothing personal but they just want to have some fun without having to please you the whole time. He'll come around though. Sometimes us girls just want a girl's nightout, and the guys like to have those too.
2007-07-16 02:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by gracie_thunder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i know that when guys say they forgot they rly did... they dont think further than their nose... :P if they forgot their phone they wont rly think that "oh yes i can call her from my friend's phone!" lol nah they just dont even think about it... so i suggest if u trust him dont give it much attention unless u rly suspect him lying to you...
2007-07-16 02:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill out maybe?
He doesn't need to call you all the time.
2007-07-16 02:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Lou Singer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋