im a grl and my bro always beats up on me im 15 and hes 17 he has threatened to kill me and has threatened to "send my parents to the hospital" if they dont do what he wants. What ever he wants and my parents say no he will threaten to hurt me?! idk i always get caught in the middle...hes the type of guy where if my dad bought me something, than he will have to have something 6 times better than mine or he will beat me. im just stuck in this sitituation where there is no escape this has been happening for the past 2 years and my whole personality has changed because of it, im emotional, depressed, and suicidal. i try to escape by going in my room and locking my doors, but he just gets a key and opens it or breaks itdown, trys to fight with me, hes intentially doing this. he has already broken my moms arm when he was hitting me and she tried to stop it. i always think about calling the police and finish with him but my parents would neverr evrr let, if i did they probably would hate me!
2007-07-16 02:13:27 · 25 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am sorry to hear that this is happening to you!
It is a very horrible thing and in all honesty it sounds like your bro has major anger issues!
I think that you must call the police and/or social worker and get him and the family in to counciling!
I doubt that your parents will be angry with you, since your mom has already tried to protect you.
You need to get help for him very fast, before he really lands up killing someone or really badly hurting someone!
Good luck and please get out of this!
Dont hurt yourself too because he is hurting you, you are giving him what he wants then, which is too destroy you!
Be strong and get help today!
2007-07-16 02:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by *Lee*D* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother sounds extremely disturbed. He and your whole family need to get yourselves some serious help professionally. These are the conditions that you read about in the newspaper. The Police should be involved as well. If he were doing it to others outside your home, it would be considered an assault that is considered a felony. My heart aches for. I can't imagine being a victim of such abuse especially from your brother. Most brothers want to protect their siblings, not hurt them. Ask someone you are close to to help you get started, maybe a school counselor or priest. But sweetie, don't subject yourself to any more pain. Your brother needs to be dealt with before he does kill some one.You are so worth being treated decently and with kindness. I can't imagine what happened to you your brother to cause him to be this way but my heart goes out to your whole family. Please get the help you need. I am a Social Worker and these things do not go away, in fact they get worse if there isn't an intervention to put a stop to it. I will pray for you and your family. God Bless all of you. Ask God to lead you in the right direction. He Will.
2007-07-23 05:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by bitsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother sounds like he could be dangerous. You can't just sit and wait for the worst to happen - he has already broken you Mom's arm!!
If your parents hate you for protecting yourself, then so be it. I think they would actually turn out to be relieved. It is obvious that they don't know how to control your brother or the situation.
If he starts this tonight, call 911 - don't ask or give anyone any time to tell you not to.
You can leave and go to a safe place to call if you don't feel safe calling from home.
It would be even better if you could sleep over with a friend tonight to stay out of his way.
If you don't call the Police today, see a Counselor first thing tomorrow, tell him/her exactly what is going on and let them take it from there.
Don't be afraid any longer and don't feel guilty.
Your Brother is out of control. His behavior is totally unacceptable and it is up to you to rescue him and yourself.
2007-07-23 12:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by jbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow this to go on any longer. You deserve to be protected from him and if your parents wont protect you then the authorities need to. He sounds like a real danger and needs help before someone is hurt or killed. Sweetie you dont have to live this way! Tell someone!!! Tell someone who will help you!!! If you did call the police and your parents were mad, they would get over it. Your mom is probably scared of him too which is why she hasnt done anything. Protect yourself! Please! Your parents will probably thank you in the long run. Someone could lose their life!
2007-07-23 16:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something may be wrong with your brother and your parents for letting this happen. You need to think about your own safety since no one is thinking about you. It is important that this abuse stops. You may need to leave out of that environment. It is not okay for anyone to beat you. Never! I know it may be scarry but you only have one life and God would not do that to you (no offense if you are not religious). You deserve better. Call the cops...tell a teacher....a counselor and get out of there. You life is too precious and you have already endured too much. Good luck and God Bless you! I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-07-21 16:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your parents will hate you for getting help,I quess thats why your brother is the way he is with such crazy parents...please talk to a counsellor from school or cant you stay temporarily at some friends home.....isnt there anybody outthere who can have you?I think you should go to policestation too and file a complaint against him,i know he is a minor so they will not put him in jail but he will get profesional help,HE NEEDS IT.Please realize it not your fault but you need to get away from all this **** asap.It wont solve itself,be the most sensible one and get help for all of you
2007-07-24 00:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not big on writing so bare with me. I was also abused as a child by my five year older brother. It was more than just abuse, and when I got to be your age he realized after I started fighting back it wasn't going to be easy. I had to fight him. I don't want you to fight if its not in you. Go tell, when he say he'll hurt your parents let them handle that. Your body is your temple, if you wouldn't let a boyfriend beat on you like that you shouldn't let a family member beat you either. Also, if you have a friend in your neighborhood go to her house until your parents get home. That will help you some, try to join karate, soccer, track sport that will help strengthen your legs. A woman best defense against her attacker is to kick them where it hurts. I don't want you to have low self-esteem. Girl please don't hurt your self over him I know what your going through and I'm here. You don't know me and I don't want anything from you but to make sure your OK. I just want you to be safe I have four daughter and two sons any child that is hurting is like a child of mind. I don't your parents and if you have a dad their but try to talk it out with your dad,by your self first not with your brother there. My name is Kisha please let me know how your doing. and write me any time I won't write you Any more unless you write OK. Be well .
2007-07-16 03:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need to call 911! The next time he does this stand up to him and goddamnit defend urself for crying out loud he has no right to do that. Your parents may get mad at you but they would never hate you and psh they will get over it i mean do you want to wait untill he does perminet or fatal damage? Seriously call the cops on his a** for crying out loud send him to jail maybe he will wake up and realize he cant beat up his little sister and get away with it. He should be glad he has a kid sister cus i have always wanted one he is lucky and doesnt know it's such ashame.
2007-07-22 18:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sh00ting_St@r! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That sounds rough! I'm really sorry about that! Honestly if it was happening to me I'd find a way to hit him! My brother is younger then me but bigger then me and he could really hurt me. He's a sweet guy though and isn't like that. You need to find a way to get out of your situation! I know that's tough and you don't really know how. Maybe not necessarily the police but maybe someone you could talk to at your school a counselor or something. Good luck!
2007-07-16 02:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is a punk azz fool!!! He only hurts you because u let him. Wht are your parents doing? upppps never mind, you answered that one when you said he broke her arm. The next time that fool hits on you, pick up something and knock the **** out of him!!!! You have the right to protect yourself i don't give a damn who it is. If you gotta call the police, helz then call them cauz girl he gonna really, really hurt u and your parents. I can not believe that they are letting this happen to you!!! OMG!!! Your parents probably can't control him and so in this case get somebody who can, like another family member that is a guy! Bet he won't fight a guy like that cauz he is a busta motha-----, ooooooooweeeeee!! Girl you got my damn bloodpressure up. Get someone to beast his azz. I'll bet he'll stop then. PLEASE DO NOT LET HIM KEEP DOING THIS TO YOU NOR YOUR PARENTS. HE NEEDS HELP!!!
2007-07-20 09:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by spreetray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋