Family & Relationships - 16 July 2007

it is in Red River and I am little scared because they have bears.

2007-07-16 05:09:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, I am dating a fantastic man (finally!) who really truly loves me and has proven to me that he does. but i think he may have a problem with porn. When i found pictures on his computer he got rid of them for me.Then, I found more while i was searching for something totally un-related. We fought again, bad this time, and he said it wouldnt happen again. He said he used it every once and while when we werent together (we see each other about 3 times a week, and have a great sex life). Now, i found another website, and he said, honestly, he uses it every single day that we are not together. Sometimes for over an hour a time. He says it is habit from years of doing it when he was single and he cant shake it. I asked him why, isnt he satisfied? and all he does is bow his head in shame and say "i dont know". Is this a genuine problem? should l leave or not? I'm starting to feel like nothing but a means to an end & disgusted by him. He is willing to stop but when do i draw the line? Thanks

2007-07-16 05:09:18 · 23 answers · asked by Tangerine Dream 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this girl that also attends my school. She hates and calls me using private. I tell her to stop, I've talked to the principle, and she still won't stop! Then at school she acts like it never happens and pretends to be my friend and all. Also she sometimes calls me and also pretends it never happens. Sha calls like at 11:00 p.m.-2:00a.m. and my little 5 month old brother wakes up and starts crying because of her callings! does anybody have any suggestions on what should I do?

2007-07-16 05:08:17 · 16 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Friends

this happen to me and lots of other guys i know, they get married to a hot girl. they start a family have a baby and the hot wife starts dress like a granny, stops taking care of herself, and begins to let herself go.

they dont dress sexy like they use to, now im not talking about in front of the kids. when they go out for dinner when they get a baby sitter stuff like that

ladies whats the deal

2007-07-16 05:07:21 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and I don't think we really talk enough when we're together. He's one of those guys who doesn't really talk about how they feel or anything. I try to talk to him about things that are going on and sometimes I tell him how much he means to me. He never really does that, unless he's just telling me he loves me. He told me that he lets his actions do the things he can't say. But, sometimes a girl needs to hear it, ya know. And I've said that to him, and when I tell him that he'll talk a little bit about it, but not much. I just fear that we're going to drift apart because of this. I couldn't handle not being with him, but I don't know what to do to help him realize that he can say anything he needs to, to me. It isn't like I'm going to laugh at him if he tells me how he feels. I thought it would be better to put this in the marriage section, since a lot of you know what it took to keep your relationship going.

2007-07-16 05:05:20 · 6 answers · asked by IndiHippi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-16 05:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

weve been told he only has a few more hours to live, hes aged 42 with 5 kids.

2007-07-16 05:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-16 05:01:20 · 27 answers · asked by Nasima R 1 in Singles & Dating

I am recently married to my husband whom i adore and am very attracted to, I believe he feels the same way. We dated for about 5 years before we married and have always had a good to normal sex life, i trust him and have never suspected him of cheating. i recently found out i was pregnant and my husband is thrilled. Our lovemaking has slowed down a bit understandibly. My question is lately he has been waking me up in the middle of the night to have sex, but he is alseep at the time! He doesnt even remember in the morning. He is never violent, mostly playful but very aggresive,it hurts my feelings that he isnt as into it in the waking hours. This has never happned before and seems to have started around when i got pregnant. Should i be nervous, he has been very stressed lately and works a million hours to save money for the baby, and has been fixing our house on the weekends, he has been drinking a lot more lately which i have been letting go because he is with friends.What do i do??

2007-07-16 05:00:07 · 37 answers · asked by Julie C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When you first meet a guy what goes through your mind? Do you categorise him into a group, for example a nice guy, or a bad boy? Do you immediatley rate his attractiveness and intelligence? what goes through your minds?

2007-07-16 04:58:45 · 24 answers · asked by Mr Brightside 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 04:58:08 · 29 answers · asked by mario k 1 in Singles & Dating

Think about this one:

If you could be beautiful (women) or handsome (men) beyond your wildest dreams, what other personal attribute would you be willing to sacrifice in order to be able to have this aesthetic quality? The sacrifices made would not be an extreme loss to you but the physical appearance gained in its place would be life changing.

Example:

A) Sacrifice 10 points off your I.Q. score
B) Give up some level of financial security.
C) Lose some small part of your personality.
D) Other….

2007-07-16 04:58:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

hi...i'm a 24 yr old woman.....married for half a yr. my hubby is 27 and our marriage has all the ingredients it takes to make one. but we had an argument over something yesterday and it snowballed into a bad fight. my hubby is not the one to lose his cool easily but this time he's had it. i sulked all day and my ego didn't allow me to say a simple sorry. to be honest...i was the one to start the argument...i just meant it as a joke but it's gone too far. he ended up saying,"stop being childish.". i know i've been immature about it but he's been a little cold towards me since then...maybe too angry inside too. what do i do to cool it off? i need an unconventional idea...something which would really blow his mind off. plz temme a way to go about it? i can't handle this anymore and would hate to cry and make it dramatic. plz suggest some ways which won't keep him angry any longer.....plzzzzz.......

2007-07-16 04:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have never had a "best friend", or even a group of close friends. The friends I have now are totally unreliable (you can read one of my previous questions about them). I also have only had one girlfriend, which was a short 2-month thing about 3 years ago. Sometimes I just get depressed and lonely. How do people find someone to be close to and be able to tell your life stories to?

2007-07-16 04:55:09 · 11 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Friends

well this is what many ppl tell me. well i do engg...2nd yr student. i dont have friends who would want to go out and enjoy life. i always wanted to do that. but i never got friends who are that type. now my family members they are all the go-out types..they tell me all this stuff and its embarassing man....it sucks. i dont want to go out w/ them. its just that ive never gone out much so i dont know the places to hang out. what do i do now? i am not very keen to go exploring out there myself all alone. i mean, you gotta have company right..i dont wanna be a home bird. im in a dilemma..

2007-07-16 04:54:49 · 4 answers · asked by drno 2 in Singles & Dating

would you be comfortable receiving gifts from a guy who works at a burger shop @ $6.75 an hour but still puts overtime just to buy u dat gift.... or from a guy who works at some office @ $11.25 an hour and really dosnt need the extra hours but still buys you gifts with da same intention as the guy who works at the burger shop?

2007-07-16 04:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by Michael E. 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i had broke up for quite a few months but we remain as friends. Recently it was his birthday and he insisted that i had a dinner with him so i got him a present. He called me in the very last minute before our meeting time that his classmates are throwin him a surprise party so he wants to see me another time. I was angry as i had already made my plans for the day n i wished he told me earlier. He did not know how to face me so he passed his phone to a gal whom i don't know. she said it wasn't his fault coz the guys wanted to celebrate with him. i got pissed i asked him later on who's the girl he said she's just a fren and that i'm being petty. he said since we're not a couple, promises don't have to be kept. i said i don't wish to see him again and he said fine. he nv contacted me from then on.

2007-07-16 04:51:13 · 21 answers · asked by goldtrapeze 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my mom is dating this great guy. He is very nice and has five kids. Well, my mom has known him for like her whole life, but, they started actually dating in like March or April. They are totally in love. But...The problem is that he isnt totally divorced yet from a previous marrage. I mean, they are totally separated, but not legally divorced yet. (paper problems)
Anyway, I met his daughter and she is only 9 months older then me. We are such good friends and call each other Sis and our parents Mom and Dad.
So, we were talking to Mom and Dad and we asked if they would ever get married. They said Yes, just as soon as those stupid papers are signed in court.
So, is it wrong for me and my sister to go ahead and plan our mom's wedding? We want it to be in Hawii as a barefoot beach wedding....
Can we go ahead and Plan?

2007-07-16 04:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Weddings

Okay...give me some tips on what men LIKE or should I say LOVE...for women to do to them..tell me what makes you HOT HOT....things like where to put my hands...or fingers..

2007-07-16 04:42:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend for 2 and a half years has a drinking problem which he got from his father,when i met him he wasn't a drinker but now he limes and drinks alot.my real problem isnt that though,he often becomes very emotional and violent when he drinks.i love him and i dont know what to do.the day afetr he always comes and apologizes and begs for my forgiveness,sometimes even cry!other than this he is very sweet and loving and each time that he drinks and do **** he promises me he would stop but then some special occasion comes up and it occurs again.help me cuz even though i love him i need to start puttin myself first.HELP!

2007-07-16 04:41:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 04:41:00 · 23 answers · asked by mfcarroll1102 1 in Weddings

When He and I met, I told him that my b-day was in December. it's in Januray for real.So far I've gotten around showing my b-date, Now, He's asking me to marry him, what Can I do?? this is my first marriage, is the dates written on the marriage licence?

2007-07-16 04:40:34 · 23 answers · asked by suki105 1 in Weddings

I tend to date guys that are super funny ... but that's just me. I also seem to repeat the role of the "forgiver" - unfortunately.

2007-07-16 04:39:03 · 16 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, can a couple's relationship last, if one person very much enjoys partaking in alcoholic beverages and the other one never drinks at all but has no problem with their significant other choosing to drink?

2007-07-16 04:38:17 · 10 answers · asked by CarolinaGirl 4 in Singles & Dating

When a grandmother states that she prefers one grandchild over another in the same immediate family (a brother against brother). If it were between cousins, just keep them separate, but when the bias is in the same house. Your comments please.

2007-07-16 04:38:01 · 3 answers · asked by momatad 4 in Family

When a grandmother states that she prefers one grandchild over another in the same immediate family (a brother against brother). If it were between cousins, just keep them separate, but when the bias is in the same house. Your comments please.

2007-07-16 04:37:29 · 1 answers · asked by momatad 4 in Family

ok. me and my boyfriend meet online along time ago on aug\5\06 .scince then i think ive fallen for him but i dont think he feels the same way about me .he is 20 years old he lives in chicago il. and i live in austin tx im 15 . we talk to each other every nite but i feel like our relationship is going down the dumps. when ever i talk about another guy he always accuses me of cheating on him . when we first started going out i felt a strong connection between us ,now i dont feel the same way. we dont have a long phone conversation unless its about *** , when i call him every nite he says to call him back later and when i do he says to call him back later again . And when i ask him who`s he talking to thats so important he says its his cousin and i really do not belive that every nite he talks to his cousin. and so i think he`s cheating on me. someone please help before our relationship goes down the drain ???

2007-07-16 04:36:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-16 04:34:56 · 17 answers · asked by duckdodgers72 1 in Singles & Dating

My now husband cheated and now has an outside child. He hasn't seen the child and says he doesn't want to ever. I at least want to see the child (being that she's MY son's sister). I wouldn't have even known of the child if the other woman didn't contact me "after" the child turned 3yrs old!! She's being stubborn because he is, but I'm sure she wouldn't turn down my son if I just showed up. Should "I" go out of my way to be in the child's life when her mother knew of me the ENTIRE TIME she was sleeping with my husband?....And my husband ONLY wants to pay child support? What's up with that? I'm trying to bring some sanity to this horrible situation, but is it even worth trying?!? Why should I be "The Good Guy"?

2007-07-16 04:34:39 · 19 answers · asked by concerned 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay...
I met this guy named Brandon at one of my best friends birthday partys in January. We talked every night for four months. I became every emotionally attached to him. We were basically going out. I loved hearing him say that he loved me. I would wait up all night just to hear him say that. But one night, we were talking and he started crying over somthing going wrong in his life, so he got off of the phone. I tried calling him back numerous times the next week, but there was no answer. I was afraid that he had hurt himself or something...
I didnt hear from him until a month later. He called me and appolojised for being suck a jerk. And he promised to keep in touch and to talk to me every night again just like before. But, I havent heard from him since then...
I never got closer....But, why do I find myself dreaming about him almosty every night this week??

2007-07-16 04:33:18 · 10 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Singles & Dating