When you first meet a guy what goes through your mind? Do you categorise him into a group, for example a nice guy, or a bad boy? Do you immediatley rate his attractiveness and intelligence? what goes through your minds?
2007-07-16 04:58:45 · 24 answers · asked by Mr Brightside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, you store little tid bits about them in the back of your mind and save them for later. Which is why lying is bad. Yes, most women do categorize, but not like how you would think, its more of a "jerk, good guy, boring, funny" type of thing. At least thats the way it is for me.
2007-07-16 05:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Gabbie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not all important any more. Some girls go for the looks and then get hurt over the stuff! See if yall hit it off with interlectual things. See if he can make u laugh and just have an interest in you. Its better to know if there is something there or not! He just might not be ur type. Guys need to step there game up more, don't sell any women a dream show them what u are all about. Don't keep nothing in the closet. Be up front and honest. You will find that luck person easier!
2007-07-16 12:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by chericeoceania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first meet a guy I rate his attractiveness first. Then, if he what I like on the outside, I'll listen to what comes out of his mouth. If he looks good but sounds ignorant, I will not give him the time of day. Though, there are the occasions when the inside is more attractive than the outside and then I'll give the time.
2007-07-16 12:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by W.O.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first meet a guy ya i recognize if they're attractive but the first thing i notice is eyes. I dont rate anyone's attractiveness and intelligence. I wait until i get to know their personality. What people look like doesn't matter to me.
2007-07-16 12:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I automatically 'rate' him. But I use different things to rate. Like looks are part of that but definately not all. If the guy is fun or funny that is always great. How much attention to me he pays is always a factor. What he is talking about -- games, movies, me, him, the bar, etc etc.
Basically I always am most attracted to the guy having a good time w/ his buddies - who took time to talk to me and ignore his friends for a min- He obviously has to be attractive, but if hes having fun and being himself and not too 'made' up then I would love it!
2007-07-16 12:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i first meet a guy, i immediately rate his looks. Then once we start talking ill listen to the way he speaks and what kinds of words he uses and sometimes guys sound like idiots but usually only because they're nervous so i usually let that slide, unless their like complete morons. I also look to see if they're one of those guys that is only doing this to look cool. I mostly think about, how I'm going to look in front of him though.
2007-07-16 12:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by sadiedog123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two categories:
No Way, and Cute Enough....granted the really good looking guys don't have to try too hard. This gets determined immediately.
But anyways, as long as you're on the 'cute enough' ladder, personality makes a huge difference. And its often quite hard to gauge intelligence or even if they are nice at first. My experience is those that seem sweet become jackasses, and those that are more standoffish are actually nice guys.
If you ain't 'cute enough' there is nothing you can do. lol!
2007-07-16 12:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
looks are what attracts you to a person but it doesn't mean it's going to keep them around what goes through my mind is i wonder if he's a nice guy and i hope he isn't like all the other jerks i've met
2007-07-16 12:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by college gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I immediately rate his attractiveness to me...in other words am I attracted to him? (do not confuse this with society's idea of attractive). Then I talk to him to see if we are compatible and if we have anything in common. If we do then I might consider dating him. If we don't, then he's not worth the effort.
2007-07-16 12:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really "analyze" him.. But yeah I do think about his personality and stuff.. MUY importante. And I don't hang around a "bad crowd" either. Basically either I'm attracted or not. Once I'm attracted, then I wonder what he's all about and etc.
2007-07-16 12:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋