Does your boyfriend or girlfriend have annoying friends? How do you handle that?

Answer 1

My boyfriend has a few friends that annoy me a little, but most of his friends are really fun and I don't mind them at all. However, my ex-boyfriend had a lot of friends that I really disliked. The best thing to do is just to avoid them when you can, because if you get annoyed with them, you cause tension for your boyfriend/girlfriend. If it's just one or two annoying friends, that's the best strategy. However, if ALL of your significant other's friends are annoying and you can't stand them, you might want to reconsider the relationship as a whole. Birds of a feather flock together, and if you're annoyed by his/her friends, the relationship probably isn't going to work too well.

Answer 2

You let it go. You also have to understand that you may have friends that your bf or gf finds annoying. As with any relationship, you have to learn compromise. Also, why is that person so annoying? Is there something specific that they do, or is everything they do annoying. If it's very specific, you may figure out how to avoid thinking about it and getting past it, or you might ask your bf or gf if it's possible for them to ask that person about it. In general, if a person is annoying 'all around', you're going to just have to deal. Or as I say, "Suck it up, cupcake!".

Answer 3

oh gosh yes! My guy has two friends in particular who are very annoying! They show up ALL the time and make gross jokes, ect. But I just laugh along and try not to get upset because they are really not that bad and he had them as friends long before I came along and I know I wouldnt want him to talk bad about my friends so I just give the same courtesy to him.

Answer 4

Holy Crap I have this problem in spades.
She had one friend (guy) that had a huge crush on her. He was so convinced me and her would break up and she'd he his. Joke was on him. Now he found someone else to obsess over that obsesses for him...perfect couple. She has another friend who's boyfriend is a complete introvert, anti-social to the core. I refuse to visit them because I WILL talk to the walls to make a point.
I'm honest about who I do and don't like, and I have my ways of dealing if I don't like someone, usually thru humor.

Answer 5

...of course!.....Who doesn't have that kinda stuff to deal with occasionally. Unless they're entirely unruly and annoyingly bothersome.....I'd get used to the idea that everyone has an annoying friend or relative somewheres in their own system. Unless someone is just simply inordinately rude or uncooperative or abusive or something....get used to it sweetie. Even YOU probably have a few annoying contacts in your systematic equation darling....wouldn't you agree? LOL!!!

Answer 6

well if you have an open and honest relationship and you love each other you should tell them your problem without going into to mush detail. but if you don't have that then you should think to yourself why you think their annoying and if that doesn't help then ask yourself do you really want to be with that person

Answer 7

No i am not sure how many friends he has. He is sweet but does not talk about his friends that much. He is always saying that he loves me and that he wants to go on dates

Answer 8

well my girlfriend has really annoying friends and i tell her that i do not like them and she goes and tells thm that they need 2 stay away while we r together and they respect that and if they do not them that is there prob.

Answer 9

yea, i jus cuss them out anytime they get annoying

Answer 10

tell him his friends are anoying, and you still want him to hang out with them, its just that you cant stand them