Specifically, I want to know, why there are many clashes in the couple's lives during the first few years. Dont they feel the necessity to try and understand the spouse during the first few months only.
2007-07-16 01:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by beauty of soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
most arranged marriages start with an agreement to meet and know each other before even agreeing to get married.
they may ask for a trial period or are engaged for sometime usually from weeks up to years to understand each other , see if they are compatible or not before going to the next level an official engagement then marriage.
it is preferred method where dating is not acceptable in society , and even if there are those who do date they usually get better spouses through arranged marriages and it works out much better in most cases than love marriages where they usually choose without thinking then stop loving the spouse.
as long as you choose wisely and work hard you probably will have a good marriage and stay in love whether you were in love before or after marriage as long as you don't take shortcuts which are not acceptable in society or by religion esp if ou're a girl since many guys want a good a mother for their children/wife and may interpret a girl's action to please the one she loves as a reason to dump her.
2007-07-16 01:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by sweet tooth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love any one, but whether love or arranged, try to marry a person who loves you. Once you start your marriage life, be in romance. If romance is there, you will start adjusting, understanding and try to improve according to your spouse and vice verse. The basic clashes are due to over dominating each other. If you are in romance as I mentioned earlier, you can easily control the situation and turn that situation of clash to a comedy or joke to talk later. Don't try to understand the spouse completely and start living. Different people behave differently in a given situation. So try to relax and approach the situation in a more soft minded but keeping the importance. Regards and Best of Luck...
2007-07-16 01:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by myavu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 11:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they realise they are stuck with this person, so they will try to make the most of the situation... If not to fall in love, at least to find some common ground so they can put up with each other for the rest of thier lives
2007-07-16 01:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lula Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually these marriages have commom goals and their backgrounds are the same so they have a better chance for a long marriage as We americans fall in love and get married and then fall out of love because we have nothing in common.
2007-07-16 01:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good idea to try to understand each other. Communication. Ive been married for 3 years and still trying to understand him.
2007-07-16 01:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont know each other and they are not spend time together. and ofterwords only they want know then want to adjust there character it will take time to understand.
2007-07-16 01:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by anju a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u love somebody u take some time to understand that person
same is in arrange marriage
time is needed in it .without giving time crushes
... occur........... & its true
time is very important to understand somebody
2007-07-16 01:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Priyanka M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
experience it then ask
but u got as soon as u married
2007-07-16 01:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends ur sacrifice.
2007-07-16 02:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by rosy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋