do you do it in front of other people? in front of your children?
2007-07-16 01:36:25 · 15 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not if we can help it. If it does occur in front of my daughter (his children are adults, second marriage for both of us). We make sure that we resolve it in front of her, too. I was raised in a household in which it appeared as though my parents never fought because they never let us see it. That isn't a very realistic picture, either. If your children see you fight, just explain to them later how you got it resolved. We do not fight in front of other people. Mostly because whatever we're discussing is none of their business.
2007-07-16 01:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by conductorbrat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's all be honest. We know you shouldn't fightin front of the kids ever, nor should your fight be other people's entertainment, but it happens. Even the best of intentions isn't always going to shut you up til the opportune time everytime. Try to to keep the argument between the two of you, but don't expect that every harsh word you speak is only being heard by the two of you so think before you speak and if something does blurt out do what you can to stifle the situatuion for the time being until the two of you can speak alone.
2007-07-16 08:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate arguing in front of other people and won't. When he does, he tries to make it look like I'm @ fault and to embarrass me. Told him I will walk away every time he does that. We have 5 children, all grown now, and arguments did happen around them which I hate, but made sure they saw we resolved our problem and made up. My mom would give my dad the 'silent treatment'; sometimes for days! Made me vow to never solve an argument like that. It didn't solve it; made it worse for all of us! Wonder how they stayed married for life! They would have been married 75 years. wow!
2007-07-16 08:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have children. If I happen to disagree with something my husband has said, it doesn't matter who is around. If we're with friends or family and he starts something either with me or simply spouts off an opinion I don't like (and there are many), I have no problem speaking my mind or telling him that he is wrong.
Of course, my husband and I don't have any of those dramatic arguments that turn into domestic violence cases or even yelling, we just don't agree on everything that may come up and why should we? How boring is that?
2007-07-16 08:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..
we don't have children yet..so..no fighting in front of them..but personally i would not want to..and fighting in front of other people..its no ones business but yours...and believe me..when couples fight...everyone becomes a busybody
2007-07-16 08:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some times - try not to but in the heat of the momet sometimes it just doesn't matter who's there! and it just happens.
2007-07-16 09:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather do it privately,just in case one of us looses our head for simple little argument.
2007-07-16 09:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u never do in front of other people...try to aviod in front of your children( its hard)
2007-07-16 09:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by back2future 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't...but sometimes it happens. my wife and i have gone back and later had to talk about things with our oldest (5yrs) just so he knows were not crazy and really do love each other. we more or less try not to do it though.
2007-07-16 08:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by bishop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i do it in a private like in a room where only two of us can there in the room.
2007-07-16 08:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by jregzr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋