There's this guy that works at a bowling alley I go to a lot. He also is a regular at my mothers store where I help out at. He never makes me pay for any of my games and is always telling my mother how sweet and cute I am. We've never had a serious conversation just the usual "Hey, how are you?" I have a bit of a crush on him but am really shy.
I know whenever he comes into the shop he always buys the same cigs. I was thinking about buying him a carton of them and giving them to him. Would you be weirded out? Free cigs are good, no? Is this a good idea or not? Is it stalkerish?
2007-07-16 10:07:31 · 16 answers · asked by Danielle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL...I probably should have put no anti-smoking replies.
2007-07-16 10:14:36 · update #1
And I'm 21...
2007-07-16 10:15:25 · update #2
Well, if you dont mind smoking, It would sure break the ice. Go for what you want!! Enjoy life and ask what your mother thinks of him.
2007-07-16 10:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by JW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think start smaller than a carton of cigs. though he probably wont get weirded out he will be like "huh, thats a little odd." i agree with some of the above comments, flirt a little. find out what hes like. He might not even be your type, but dont write it off either. make a move my guess is hes a shy guy and doesnt want to make the first move and be rejected.
Plus find out if he has a gf or something cause he might just be flirting like that cause anything more might land him in hot water.
2007-07-16 17:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Josh W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id lyk it! free cigs from a cute girl
Go 4 it
2007-07-16 17:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea!
No 'cigs' is gonna keep you in his favour...what happens if he's trying to quit?
If you like him then make small talk and find other things he likes..he might like pizza or plain ice-cream.
Who knows, he might even be a cook!
2007-07-16 17:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy him anything yet, just give away some free flirting in his direction and see how he responds. Make sure you don't start a relationship with a smoker, it will lead to health risks later on.
2007-07-16 17:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never want a gift of free cigarettes. "Here, I like you, so here's some cigarettes to kill you off.". Find out other things he likes, like a certain football or basketball team. Get something with their logo on it and give it him and just say, " I saw this and thought of you". Smile pretty and he's all yours.
2007-07-16 17:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Les 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..never buy anyone free cigarettes..if u like him, u want him to live long AND not smell like an ash tray...that said, u could always buy him something else...just don't encourage his bad habit...It does sound like he may possibly like u OR at least admire u...Good luck!!
2007-07-16 17:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy or you are under 18, you're not allowed to buy cigarettes-it's against the law. Why would you be interested in a pud-head. You want to kiss an ashtray?
2007-07-16 17:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if u like him alot i say talk to him and get to know him alittle bit better and then ask him out....i say he likes you...coz he always say nice things to ur mom and how cute ur...thats a sign rite dere....and yea sure i think its ok if u give him a free cigs....
2007-07-16 17:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not stalkerish. It could be a good way to break the ice.
2007-07-16 17:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by jimmer333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋