2007-07-16 08:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by jessie0420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean experiment sexually. I am bisexual and most men would love that right. but not him
2007-07-16 08:40:54 · update #1
You respect his wishes & let him know that you are open to it if he changes his mind. Maybe you can ask him what kind of experimentation he'd be open to and then start there. He might get more adventurous as time goes on.
Feel free to tell him how you feel if you think your love life is in a rut.
2007-07-16 08:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by StacieG 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are a number of ways to approach this!
1) Can you start slowly so that it doesn't seem like a big step for him? Just about any sexual experiment can be taken in tiny steps. If he sees how much you enjoy it (and if you make sure he enjoys every little step) you'll be well on your way.
2) Is there some aspect of your sex lives that he has always wanted and you have resisted? I see a great compromise in the making.
The best way to make either method work is to talk about it until you are both comfortable.
Best of Luck... and enjoy!
2007-07-16 19:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by MathProf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual activities, which I assume is what you are talking about, should be things that are agreeable to both. You might mention one thing, the one you think he might like to do, and ask that you do it just once. Or maybe there are somethings that take less participation and more observation on his part, and he might do those.
2007-07-16 15:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to even try to give you what you need, then you can't continue to stay with him.
But the question is, is this something you need or something you're unsure about? It sounds like you might be uncertain. And if it's something you need, have you said that to him? Or are you waiting for him to read your mind?
2007-07-16 15:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Glen Ulmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experiment with what?
Well then he fears he might lose you to a woman. And his friends and family will make a joke of him for the rest of his life.
2007-07-16 15:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info - do you mean like research, science experiment, drugs, what?
2007-07-16 15:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Curry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best marriages are with the one who doesnt want to share you with anybody...but your bisexual and he should have known that before saying "I do". tell him its important to you and make him aware hes not going to lose you to another woman..he should understand
2007-07-16 16:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mergler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's not heavy drugs then he should do what you want.. you are sitting on the most powerful weapon known to mankind use it to your advantage..
2007-07-16 15:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
experiment how...with others present..I would not want that either...so you need to forget it. If you are talking about positions, or toys, then ask nicely again.
2007-07-16 15:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta get some side action then till he opens up to the idea.
Either that or dump him.
You're BI....what's wrong with your guy? I'd jump at that opportunity.
2007-07-16 15:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋