i cant stay faithful, and this guy whom i'm with is amazing but yet ive not stayed faithful and he believes i have. =/ what should i do ...
2007-07-16 07:45:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay single until u can be faithful. doesn't mean u have to stay celibate...just tell dudes straight out u r not looking for anything serious. that way u don't have to worry about staying faithful
2007-07-16 07:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be kind and let him find someone who deserves his love. Stop getting into a real relationship with people if you can't be faithful to them. I am not being mean here ok? I am just saying if you always cheat on people just stay single so you can date whomever you want. Just make sure they know what your intentions are.
2007-07-16 14:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice is don't cheat. Stay faithful. If you get those urges to do so, think of him.
He will find out eventually too. Its better he finds out from you then when he finds out from someone else.
2007-07-16 14:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him so much than stop any romantic relationship with him. Your going to hurt him eventually. Dedicate yourself to him as a good friend. If you really want a relationship with him then be faithful.
2007-07-16 14:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by brotherjoel74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest with him, he will eventually find out and you want to make sure its from you. if you think hes worth it i'm sure you'll be able to change and be faithful even if it takes some work. but you should communicate with him and let him know that its hard for you to commit. ive never been in your position but ive been on the receiving end and none of them have been honest with me, so i suggest honesty...good luck!
2007-07-16 14:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is stopping you from staying faithful? go get some therapy, i know that helps some people. it isnt about the guy you are with, its about you.... and no relationship will ever work until you get it resolved.
so whats stopping you?
2007-07-16 14:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stay faithful, then break up with him and go sleep with as many guys as you want.
If you can stay faithful, then stay with him but don't tell him you cheated.
2007-07-16 14:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by original_pet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, then either work it out or break up. If you can't stop yourself cheating, then just stay single and save us all the trouble. One night stands sound more like your kind of thing.
2007-07-16 14:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dan Theman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u nasty whore. If you really care about this guy then you would feel guilty and tell him the truth. In fact you wouldn't have done it at all. If it were me, which it never would be, I wouldn't be able to be with him anymore knowing that I did that to a perfectly good guy.
2007-07-16 14:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by kjcs_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look grl the best part in a relationship is trust just tell him youve done a mistake and it hurt you to be so unfaithful to him. and if he puts on a big fuss then hes expecting someone perfect and that impossibleto find and when he realizes that youll already be taken and trust me hell regret it
2007-07-16 14:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by mander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋