ok.... I was supposed to be getting married in like 3 months... been with this guy for 2 years... found him cheating with my best friends... we split up and now I found out Im pregnant.... what should I do .... Im real confused cuz I can have him back but don't think it would be good....
2007-07-16 06:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by BaBy GiRl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Taking him back is will not be a good idea coz you never know when again he's gonna cheat on you. Be strong and just keep on moving with it. You're surely gonna find someone who will be yours and will never cheat on you.
2007-07-16 06:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married at this time - but you are permanently tied to this person by the fact that you will have a child together and he needs to be a part of the child's life. If as you work through that change in your lives you find you are still attracted to him then you can work on rebuilding the trust that would be needed for a long term commitment.
2007-07-16 13:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. If you want your kid to know the truth, then don't bother with this man. But if you think you can forgive him and your best friends, then go for it!
You have to consider the child's future here, especially if you think it would be tough for them to live without a father.
Maybe you will meet the dream man and marry him before the child is born. If not, then I am sorry!
I have every faith in you that you will listen to everyone's advice and make the right decision!
Good luck, all the best xx
2007-07-16 13:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by TurnerLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...especially since it was with your best friend. I understand wanting to be with him for your child, but you need to think about yourself also. And you don't deserve this guy. You will never be able to trust him again, it will be hard for you two to have any mutual friends because the thought will always be in the back of your mind. I believe in second chances, but he cheated on you, months from your wedding with your best friend. It can't get much worse.
2007-07-16 13:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not be good, he cheated 3 months before you was going to get married.Cheating with your friend makes it worse.Being pregnant isn't a reason to take him back. Find somebody who will be good to you and your child.
2007-07-16 13:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on and wait a minute. I dont understand why women think that they should or have to settle for less because they are pregnant? He totally disrespected you and as for your best friend(s) screw them all. If you choose to have this baby please believe you dont need him with you for you guys to raise your child. What's so confusing about it? You laid down, had sex and got pregnant, that;s not confusing thats life as we all know it. Women always saying that they want there child to grow up with both parents in the household......BUT AT WHAT COST. If he slept with your best friends then who will he sleep with when you take him back? Your pregnant not dumb, so my advice to you is dont play yourself because if you do then it will be open season for everyone else to play you. Worry about you and your baby and if he wants tobe apart of the baby's life...fine and if he dont fine.
2007-07-16 14:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not take him back and go on with my life and be the best mother I possibly could to my child . You and your baby deserve so much better, don't sell yourself short. Telling yourself he will change is only going to set yourself up for future hurt.
2007-07-19 22:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him that you're pregant but not get back with him becuz if he cheated on you the first time then he must not really love and you never know that he might cheat again. and really, with your best friend.
2007-07-16 14:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~*blondes rock!!*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get back together. it will ruin the kids life.... he or she wil be heartbroken... i hope i was able to help.
good luck!
2007-07-16 13:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by *princess_peach* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋