I called my boyfriend saying that I didn't like the way he was treating me & if he wasn't willing to treat me better then it's over. The next morning my boyfriend texted me asking to hang out & go to the movies. i said ok. He just got his license about 2 weeks ago & wanted to drive me there. My parents said no. His response was "Im really mad about this. They don't trust me." I said "Well theres nothing I can do about this my parents just want to wait until youve had your license longer. I could just meet you there" then he said "whatever i dont like your parents anymore maybe some other time" i was like "if you feel that way then fine. my parents have been nothing but nice to you"
How long will it take before he talks to me again....or do you think me and him are over?
2007-07-16 06:46:23 · 19 answers · asked by Kaylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the young man has no respect for a young lady, who sounds like she respects her parents, or her parents..then yes by golly consider it over.....lose him. You can do better! There are decent guys out there!
You just have to be patient and learn to weed out the 'frogs'.
2007-07-16 06:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by sreshowtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This needs to be over, I'm guessing you're a teenager and so is he. Here is the cruncher, if he's not willing to respect your parent's wishes then he's not respecting YOU. Life is about give and take, compromise. Clearly he's not thinking enough of you to say okay I'll meet you at the mall. What difference does it make how you get there as long as you do. So if he was truly interested in you and not being selfish about getting his way, he'd agreed to have met you there. You deserve better, someone clearly more understanding and definately more respectful. And also, remember you need to respect yourself also and don't let anyone make you feel badly about yourself or your family.
2007-07-16 13:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by artfulpetals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered the question already. You say he needs to treat you better, but he is clearly being very rude to you. When will he talk to you again? The next time he is bored or lonely. But clearly, you can do better. Remember: if you hang out with a guy who isn't nice, it will keep you from meeting guys who are nice. I once dated a real jerk, for a lot longer than I should have. I finally broke up with him. 2 weeks later, one of the the coolest guys in my school asked me out--I was stunned. And he said, "I wanted to ask you out sooner, but you were always with David." Don't make my mistake!
2007-07-16 13:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by KathrynCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound pretty young. It's not the end of the world. Just focus on the things you want for yourself and he will come around. Sounds like a silly fight. Your parents are just looking out. He needs to accept that, and if not move on. Life is too short.
2007-07-16 13:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by sdgirljen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually still want to talk to him after he dissed your parents? he's disrespected not only you but your parents and this will continue, dont be stupid and allow someone to disrespect your family, men come and go and you dont deserve this treatment. this is a little boy youre dealing with and he needs to learn from someone that this isnt acceptable just b/c his parents may allow it. good luck but from the sounds of it i dont think you really care that he treats you w/ disrespect, you really need to get some back bone or youll get hurt ..........
2007-07-16 13:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, don't go grovelling after him. Be strong, he should respect your wishes and especially when they are over ruled by your parents. He should have respect for you and your family.. Give him a few days to come around, if not, move on! Your parents will be there forever, as for boy friends will come and go. Good luck!!
2007-07-16 13:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably angry because he's interpreting this the wrong way. He probably thinks your parents don't like or trust him, when really they are just looking out for you like every good parent should. Tell him that you hope he will change his outlook soon, and you look forward to talking to him when he changes his mind. If he continues to act like this, tell him you would like to end the relationship because you feel it is not working out for you anymore.
Best of luck!
XOXO,
Laurie
2007-07-16 13:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Laurie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to deal with this problem over and over? if he acts this way now he probably will always probably even worse...find a guy who treats you the way you want to be treated from the begining. You deserve better.
2007-07-16 13:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's over. You asked him to treat you better and clearly, he has refused.
If he really liked you and wanted to see you, he wouldn't care how you got to the movies. You could ride a donkey there, or a neon pink bike, or ride a skateboard with New Kids on the Block stickers all over it - he wouldn't care, as long as he got to see you.
2007-07-16 13:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, but it sounds to me like he does not have the respect for your parents that he should have. they are only looking out for your safety by wanting him to have his license a little longer. i dont blame them. sounds like he wants things to go his way, or no way. you seem like a responsible girl to me. let it be over, and find a boy that will have respect for you and your parents.
2007-07-16 14:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by della 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋