Virginity from 20 upwards...big deal in a relationship (ie. Does it influence your decision, does it make the person seem less mature, does it put extra strain on the courtship cos you cant get laid, will you go somewhere else to get what you want etc..)??
2007-07-16 03:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can use it as a test...if you date a guy, tell him up front about it, and if he runs away screaming, or finds another girl for that, then he's not the one for you.
If you find a guy who respects you and is willing to wait, give him a chance. Besides, once you find this nice guy, there are other ways of pleasing without intercourse, so go online or buy a book and do some research.
Use it to your advantage.
2007-07-16 04:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well someone being a 20 year old virgin isnt anything wrong and doesnt mean that ur less mature than other though society has forced ppl to think that way
2007-07-16 11:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Eduardo G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in my mid-30s and still a virgin. I hope that my future female mate has some experience to make up for a lack of mine.
2007-07-16 19:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting laid doesn't mean anything....in fact the earlier you get laid, like early teens, the more immature it is......
personality is what counts:
honesty
maturity
goas
respect
loyalty
What about those people who are single for life and virgin?
2007-07-16 10:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal, but I find it very attractive and a big plus. It shows me that you have values and a strong will. Kudos to you for defying a society that seems to encourage teenage and pre-teen sex.
2007-07-16 10:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I plan to remain a virgin until I'm married.
2007-07-16 10:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
kudos to you guys.
just means more for me.
2007-07-16 11:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jim Shorts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋