My wife and I met in college dating for five years through undergrad and graduate school. We have been married for a little over a year now. My wife and I have a great relationship, we have a great sex life, we also use all the great toys, I do have one question though.
Like most men, I really love licking my wife's five letter pword, however she only lets me do it on rare occasions. However, when I do she really enjoys it, like most women do, when it is does correctly
This is my question, I respect my wife and her feelings very much, so what should I do?
2007-07-16 03:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She may have some issues with the fact that most people are brought up thinking "good girls" don't do that sort of thing. It is really hard to get those kinds of things out of our minds, whether we realize it or not.
Just keep trying and making her feel comfortable with it. Try some movies etc. It may help in the long run, but you need to be patient and not push or it will backfire.
2007-07-16 03:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bite me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just afraid she might smell down there, or either that you might be turn off by whatever smell or taste it might have. I have to admit cunnilings are great - but sometimes, women can get really conscious about it especially when it is their loved ones doing it. They dont want to put their loved ones off - and never get it again - perhaps.
Assure her that you truly enjoy licking her, and rid her off her insecurities. You may also want to prepare her for it when you feel like doing it so that she could probably wash it with some feminine wash so she doesnt worry too much about it.
The other thing that comes across my mind is - perhaps she isnt sure if you derive pleasure by just licking her and making her come - because she probably doesnt know how to reciprocate though. Ultimately, communication is key. Good luck
2007-07-16 10:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You have an open loving relationship it shouldnt be a problem to express this to her.
Let her know that youd like the opertunity to spend more her time and hopefully she'll be good for that. also you may get something little in return. Good luck,hope it goes well.
2007-07-16 10:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by maaniangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to tell her how much you enjoy it? Some women are self conscious about down there as far as smell goes. Try telling her how much you love it.
2007-07-16 10:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Buffet4life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do about what? You weren't clear on that at all, but I suggest if you are not content with anything that goes on in your marriage (in or out of the bedroom) then talk to your wife.
COMMUNICATE...that's a key element of any relationship and if you can't do that, then things are going down the toilet eventually anyway.
Good luck!
2007-07-16 10:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
tell her that you enjoy that part of sex and especially with her and let her tell you why sometimes she doesn't feel like it. Your relationship sounds solid so both of you should be able to talk candidly about anything.
2007-07-16 10:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Frank L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is embarassed by it...try to initiate with a shower, then she can feel fresh and confident..give her some booze too...
2007-07-16 10:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by suitablepenname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
notice what you are doing when she is enjoying and keep doing ,when she gets hers you are doing correctly, ask her what she likes and if there is anything she wants you to change, communication, also dont be affraid to experament. have fun good luck
2007-07-16 10:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by clovereyes2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep making her happy and dont worry women has there days but its nothing to do with you.
2007-07-16 10:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With such a great relationship, why are you discussing this with strangers instead of your wife?
2007-07-16 10:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋