Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

This girl that I like lives in my apt complex. I like her and i think she is very attractive. When i'm coming in from work we bump into one another as she leaves for work. We have said hey, whats up to one another. I have hold the door open for here a few times she has said aww thanks im very sweet. Last friday when i was coming in as she left she said that im very nice and charming and cool. we havent formally introduced ourselves to one another. i havent seen her with a guy in da complex but one time a long time ago. does that mean she is single? what should i do next? does she like me? thanks

2007-07-15 12:21:01 · 12 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

at what age did you get your first kiss?!!?

2007-07-15 12:20:23 · 17 answers · asked by Erica W. 1 in Singles & Dating

What did you marries do today that's not boring.

2007-07-15 12:17:20 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle's wife's cousin came from Switzerland to visit like a week ago and is staying at my uncle's house. I saw her a couple of times and said hi to her and she's really pretty. My family and I have taken this girl out to show her around where I live and I've talked to her quite a bit and know some things about her.

However, my uncle is moving soon to another state and if she ever comes to visit again, that would probably be a while from now and she would stay at my uncle's house, which will be far away from mine. I'm so infatuated with this girl and I might never see her again and I also can't stop thinking about her! I'm 18 and she's 20 btw

What should I do? Any advice? Please thanks

2007-07-15 12:13:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am smart and beautiful, but I have no friends. I may be due to my Borderline Disorder. What can I do? How do I make people want to be friends with me? How do I get guys to ask me out?

2007-07-15 12:09:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its really scary the thought of starting high school but to top it off i dont have friends from the 8th grade because i moved its not hard for me to make friends but i am nervous its going to be hard

2007-07-15 12:08:48 · 18 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Friends

I need to know some so that I can keep my children off of them.

2007-07-15 12:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by misslindsay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

K so My husband that has been in prison for like 2 in a half years, is getting out next month, and well I've been seeing this one guy for 4 months, and well I do have fealling for him, but he can't give me the things I want , money wise, and my Husband can, I do love my husband also but so many years have past that I'am not sure if we would make it:) well no one of the guys know this at all Ive been hidding it from both of them, but I'am thinking of beeing with both sence I live In EP and my husband is getting parole to Lub, and my boyfriend lives in ep also so do you think I should keep on seeing both of them??? I'am so freaken confused:(

2007-07-15 12:05:41 · 19 answers · asked by chula 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing that I've feared worst has happened. my girlfriend and I broke up about the condom situation because of her mom. I'm trying to the best of my ability to save our relationship because I love this girl too much. her mom doesn't want to talk to me. she said she'd let me have an opportunity to talk to her when she cools off. I honestly love my girlfriend so much and I don't want to lose her. another big problem is that I'm 18 and she's 17. I turned 18 in april and she turns 18 in november. not a big difference but I guess it's a difference. I DESPERATELY NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE. what should I do? what should I say to her mom?? for all you new people looking at this..search for me "RF21" and my "my girlfriend's mom found a condom wrapper in their couch" story. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP PLEASE

2007-07-15 12:01:36 · 5 answers · asked by rf21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I notice that my family members HONOR their friends & will defend their friends agains their own family. Is this odd? Like my brother wanted to fight me about his girlfriend. & he's not the only family member. My niece told me she doesn't give a crap about me & my cousin said I ain't nobody important, & my mom says I'm never gonna be anybody-I'll never amount to anything. But I see on MySpace how my family members have friends that they give shout-outs to & represent them like gods & goddesses, & they treat me like dirt because I was in foster care & absent out of their lives. Well, it's not my fault I was put in foster care. & also, they're to embarrassed to claim me as their family members-even my own twin sister.

& this really hurts me & makes me feel inferior & worthless. I'm not even in their priority list, but it's too good to be true when they kiss my butt only to con me out of my money.

2007-07-15 11:58:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

While you were dating your spouse did you ever break up for a significant amount of time and then get back together? What were the circumstances of why you broke up and how did you resolve them? Are you happily married now?

2007-07-15 11:58:43 · 21 answers · asked by Jennifer S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl that I like lives in my apt complex. I like her and i think she is very attractive. When i'm coming in from work we bump into one another as she leaves for work. We have said hey, whats up to one another. I have hold the door open for here a few times she has said aww thanks im very sweet. Last friday when i was coming in as she left she said that im very nice and charming and cool. we havent formally introduced ourselves to one another. i havent seen her with a guy in da complex but one time a long time ago. does that mean she is single? what should i do next? does she like me? thanks

2007-07-15 11:58:37 · 4 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me if im crazy...If you really like a girl and want to treat her so well you will seem so neady and that is not attractive, on the other hand if you really dont care, this is more attractive and girls dig it. So to me it seems that girls love being treated bad, then they complain. Im not sexist just a bit confused?

2007-07-15 11:53:30 · 24 answers · asked by T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 11:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 14 (almost 15) and have never had a boyfriend before and I have never been kissed either. I am just so inexperienced with boys. I am kinda shy and I live in a small town. All of my friends have not started dating yet either but they have had bf's. Sometimes I think that there is something seriously wrong with me because my little cousin who is 11 has had like 5 boyfriends already. What's wrong with me?? Is there anyone out there that didn't have a bf or gf until high school or college??

2007-07-15 11:39:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom came in this morning and said, "Elizabeth, your dad wants you to mow." Then she said to my brother "And you have to show her where to mow." Well my brother was like we are going to Orlando. And she was like still you have to help. So I was waiting for him to get ready and he was like get out there. So I walked outside and my dad was like where is your brother? And I was like he is coming. And my dad was like ok I will get the one tricky part started. So he did I got on being my 2nd time mowing! And I started out fine 5 minutes later my brother walked out and sat in the chair. I was doing good till I got in the middle. I forgot my pattern and I was taught them a month ago! So I did it my way. I missed spots but went back over them. When I finished the side yard my dad got mad because of how I did it. And then he was like to my brother you were supposed to show her where to go! And then he got mad at him (my bro) and so then my dad ended up mowing. My brother said it was my....

2007-07-15 11:35:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-15 11:35:37 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah K 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just come back from another horrible visit to my mother in law. What is it about mothers who only have son's treating their daughters in law like s**t. is it true that no girl is good enough for their little (32 year old) angels?

2007-07-15 11:33:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If not how would you cope with the depression?

2007-07-15 11:33:15 · 18 answers · asked by beyond paradise 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok What I don't get is why my brother's friend is so nice to me! Like today I went with my brother and his one friend to Orlando and my mom ended up going to so I was like well I will just tag along..and my brother was like great now my day is gonna be horrible. But we ended up having fun and his one friend didn't end up me being there. And we hit it off really good because he is like always over pretty much every weekend this summer. I mean still why is he so nice to me...I mean I am not annoying but when he left he was like see ya Elizabeth and usually his friends don't say bye to me...wtf?

2007-07-15 11:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm thinking about getting something and I can't decide between the following:

A regular leather belt folded in half, or these different kinds of paddles and straps from the londontanners website:

http://www.thelondontanners.com/boudoire.htm

Especially:
The Domestic Discipline Punishment Strap
The Corporal Punishment Ruler Paddle
and
The Rectangular Pocket Discipline Paddle ?
Anybody have any thoughts?
Thanks.

2007-07-15 11:30:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a beautiful and kind woman for a few months now. She works as a cocktail waitress at a nightclub and doesn't live in the same city I'm at. She's into Asian men and I seem to fit her type of guy. I'm clean-shaven, soft-spoken, well-groomed and sexy when I smile to her. When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and hug each other when saying goodbye or saying "Hi" and tells me "I miss you" when we meet.

Recently, she gave me her # because she made dinner plans for my B-Day. We spoke shortly a few weeks ago on my 1st call and said she's busy. When she called back, she left me a VM to call back. A week later, we saw each other and spoke briefly and she still decided to take me out for dinner on my B-Day.

After all we've been through, I'm not sure if she's serious about the dinner plans. She seems like a nice woman, but I don't know her very well yet.

The date still goes on as planned so what do I do before the date? I'm in doubt.

2007-07-15 11:30:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my friend wants to come and live with me? shes 17 and idk if she can get her social securty number or her birthcertifacte but thats not why i am asking can i go to Jail for this and if so how long??

2007-07-15 11:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by dragonrider 2 in Friends

How hard can it possibly be to find one?

Men are everywhere. What qualities are needed to be considered a nice guy? If you met a man with the ideal personality, but he was lacking in the looks department, would you pass him up?

Why do people make this stuff so complicated?

2007-07-15 11:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by posttk421 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey Im getting married and IM FAT. no time to loose that wait and I want a dress that is perfect but that i know wont rip down the isle help

2007-07-15 11:26:57 · 22 answers · asked by sheepish18uk 2 in Weddings

I found dirty texts on her fone to and from a guy she had saved on her fone as a female.She says texts were just 'flirting' and nothing more .Found emails from same guy - one showing torsos of white male on top of black girl and i know its her - she denied knowing of the emails until i grabbed her phone and found texts from same guy.she says she is sorry it wuz just a mistake and wants to come back.I strongly want to have nothing to do with her anymore - ps we own a house and some land together abroad unfortunately.her behaviour towards me changed past three months - no sex no intimacy silly arguments etc oh and i dont care if she reads this and knows its her im on about. I am hurt terribly and so much in pain and confusion.

How do i deal with this?

2007-07-15 11:26:34 · 37 answers · asked by dawgz 2 in Singles & Dating

So im 16 And I've Been Dating This Guy For About A Year Now & My Mom Put Me On Birth Control In April. Well We Have Sex Almost Everyday More Than Once. Sometimes We Don't But Most Of The Time Yes.We Do Stuff Everyday Even If Its Not Like Full On Intercourse.....Were Not Always In The Bedroom...We Got Out & Do Things Alot. But My Bestfriend Tells Me That Maybe Our Relationship Is Just Based On Sex.

I Talked To My Boyfriend & He Said No Way.
So Is It Just Based On Sex...Do We Have Sex Too Much?

2007-07-15 11:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

THIS BOY I KNEW BUT DIDNT KNOW WELL OFFERED TO WALK ME HOME... SO I LET HIM. WELL WHEN WE GOT ON MY BLOCK, HE SED SUMTHIN TO ME ION REMEMBER WHAT BUT THEN I SED "SHUT UP FOR I AHVE TA BEAT CHU UP ON THA STREET" N THEN HE PATTED MY BREAST PLAYFULLY N SED "BY WHAT THOSE" N I WAS LIKE "DONT TOUCH ME THERE" N A PLAYFULL WAY. SOO THEN HE WALKED UP TO ME N SLAPPED ME ON MY *** N SED "WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO" SOO I STARTED WALKING AWAY ALTHOUGH I WASN'T REALLY TRIPPIN OVER THAT... CUZ ITS NOT ANYTHING THAT HASN'T ALREADY HAPPENED TO ME WIT DIFFERENT GUYS. BUT ANYWAYS SOO THEN HE CAME BEHIND ME N PUT HIS ARE AROUND ME... THEN HE TOOK ME TO THIS LADY'S YARD N MADE US BOTH FALL SOO HE COULD FALL ON TOP OF ME... HE WRAPPED HIS ARMS AROUND ME N STARTED MOVING BACK AND FORTH... I SED " STOP WE CANT DO THIS THA LADY MIGHT COME OUTSIDE" BUT HE KEPT GOING... I SED ATLEAST 3 TIMES, THEN I SED "STOP IM SERIOUS", THEN HE STOPPED PICKED ME UP N TOOK ME BACK TO MY HOUSE!!!

2007-07-15 11:23:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but beacause im so young im wondering, should i become uncle Daniel or just plain Daniel to him?( yes its my nephew )

2007-07-15 11:22:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1. What is your age, gender, and # of years married?
2. What does marriage mean to you?
3. Why do we have the institution of marriage in our society?
4. What are the benefits of marriage?
5. What is the male's role in marriage?
6. What is the female's role in marriage?
7. Where did you get these ideas regarding the roles of marriage?
8. Did you and your partner discuss these "roles" prior to getting married?
9. What is the most likely thing(s) to cause problems in a marriage?
10. Would you say that you are generally a happier person due to marriage?

2007-07-15 11:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by audiophile 2 in Marriage & Divorce