the unthinkable has happened to me..?

Question

the thing that I've feared worst has happened. my girlfriend and I broke up about the condom situation because of her mom. I'm trying to the best of my ability to save our relationship because I love this girl too much. her mom doesn't want to talk to me. she said she'd let me have an opportunity to talk to her when she cools off. I honestly love my girlfriend so much and I don't want to lose her. another big problem is that I'm 18 and she's 17. I turned 18 in april and she turns 18 in november. not a big difference but I guess it's a difference. I DESPERATELY NEED YOUR HELP PLEASE. what should I do? what should I say to her mom?? for all you new people looking at this..search for me "RF21" and my "my girlfriend's mom found a condom wrapper in their couch" story. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP PLEASE

Answer 1

Well atleast you are willing to tell the truth to your gf's mom. Her mother does need to understand that her daughter also was involved-not just you. I would wait until she cools off and then try to talk to her and tell her your honest feelings for her daughter. good luck

Answer 2

Since you were forced to break up because of her mom, you have a chance of fixing things with your girlfriend. I'm not sure if there's an easy way to get past her mother though. I think you'll just have to wait for now and let mom cool down. There's a chance that you're going to have to endure a speech or a lecture from her no matter what happens. But you can't try to get out of it, she's the mother and has the right to be upset at this point. If she decides to not let you talk to your girlfriend, insist politely that while she has every right to be upset, she does not have the right to separate the two of you with no chance to say good bye. Then once you and your girlfriend are talking, the two of you can decide if you're going to see each other despite mom. But don't sneak around and hide it from her. Get your girlfriend to stand up to her mom, with your support, and tell her that she can't dictate whom she dates.

Good luck.

Answer 3

STOP HAVING SEX WITH A MONOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Her mom found evidence that you're having sex with her daughter. For one thing....NO parent wants to know that. Since you are 18 and she's 17, you're an adult and she's not. I know what you're saying....it's not that big a difference, but in the eyes of the law and society it IS. We have to draw the line *somewhere*, and unfortunately that's where it's at.

So...until your gf is 18 you can't have sex with her. Promise her mom/mom & dad that you won't have sex with her she MAY let you see her again, BUT.....you're a male and practically ALL males are hormone crazy and parents know that. So it's a crap shoot if you can get in their good graces again.

If you do find a way to get into the mom's good side again you had better keep your word, but this is the only thing I can think of at the moment.

Good luck to you.

Answer 4

She'll be 18 in 3 months. I know it seems like 3 years. Your age difference is only a matter of months, not a big deal. I think mom went off out of shock of finding a condom wrapper in her couch, where she sits to relax and watch t.v. and now she knows her daughter's had sex on it. Give her time to cool off and calm down and I'm sure things will work out.

Answer 5

Just tell the girls mom that at least u were having safe sex and tell her mom how u feel about her daughter, not that "i love her" tell her ur heart. But if it doesnt work just b glad u dont have a dad to talk to (jk) but she is almost so if she loves u as much as u love her she will wait 4 u. GOOD LUCK ♥♥