Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

I am 22 years old and right out of college, and next week I will be getting married to my high school boyfriend next week. We've been together since we were about 15, and has been our goal to get married since we were 16. We also agreed that we would not have sex until we were married, not because of Religious belief, but just because we wanted it to be special.

SO, I am extremely excited to finally be married to him, and though he has already seen most of my body, I'm more worried about the actual intercourse, and how much it will hurt. I mean, the wedding night is supposed to be special! I just don't want to associate sex with pain, because I want it to be beautiful. How much does it hurt? What is the type of pain similar to?

Thanks!

2007-07-15 14:27:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My childs mother moved to another state (since returned) and was married.She has told me that my son was adopted by her husband,claiming to the courts that I had decesed.Could she have actually gotten away with this and how can I find out?

2007-07-15 14:26:48 · 13 answers · asked by joseph t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

horrible, you feel like someone kicked you in the stomach) if a pill was offered to you to take away all the pain and memories, but you would NEVER feel that kind of love again in your lifetime , would you take the pill ?

2007-07-15 14:25:45 · 19 answers · asked by m210max 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when you asked her to marry you how long before you told any one.. my bf asked me.. it has been a month when i ask him last wk why he has not told any one he say he has not had time..but he calls his parents everyday even though they live 10 min away and tells them about work.. and he has not mention it to his twin brother.. should red flags be flying.. because they are at the moment.. so i am thinking of telling him we need to stay gf and bf.. he did the same to his ex.. they never knew they were once engange.. and they had 2 kids together

2007-07-15 14:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a beautiful and kind woman for a few months now. She works as a cocktail waitress at a nightclub and doesn't live in the same city I'm at. She's into Asian men and I seem to fit her type. I'm clean-shaven, soft-spoken, well-groomed and sexy when I smile at her. When we see each other, we talk for a short period, sometimes buy her a drink, and hug each other when saying goodbye or saying "Hi" and tells me "I miss you" when we meet.

Recently, she gave me her # because she made dinner plans for my B-Day. We spoke shortly a few weeks ago on my 1st call and said she's busy. When she called back, she left a VM to call back. A week later, we saw each other and spoke and still decided to take me out on my B-Day.

After all we've been through, I'm not sure if she's serious about the dinner. We always talk briefly on the phone and she seems very polite, but I don't know her very well yet. The date still goes on as planned and I don't know what to before that.

I'm in doubt!

2007-07-15 14:23:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay wow, this is so embarrassing
but i was wondering if there was like an age limit to buy a vibrator at spencers or something..
I figure if they're like just out and open for everyone to see, there wouldn't be one.

but tell me pleasee?

2007-07-15 14:23:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm do you think it would be a good idea for me and my cousin to like write in a notebook and like give it to each other back and forth like every month or week or something!?!? ideas for like what to write!!! good or bad idea...i think it will ocnnect us more! lol. shes 10 and im 14. any ideas on like it? (should we write about or day or what!?!)

2007-07-15 14:21:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

jus curious.

2007-07-15 14:20:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 17 yr old asian teen who goes to the gym to tone / build muscle. For the last 2 weeks, i have seen a girl who is soooo pretty that i want to chat with her. Not for dating, but for just being friends & general chat. The problem is that she is way out of my league & i dont have confidence / don't know how to speak to her...

Can someone who's been in this simular position please give me much needed detailed advice. Guys- (what would you do if this occured to you ?) Ladies - (Would you ever mind a guy wanting to chat to you in a gym ? If so, what would you like them to say ? Would you mind if they weren't hot?)

2007-07-15 14:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey guys. wat do guys who arent very jocky like in girls. i like this guy who isnt very jocky and i'm a total tomboy and i aint turning into a girly girl

2007-07-15 14:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were going out for a while and someone told me he was cheating on me so I asked him if he was. (He told me no.) On the e4th of July, I broke up with him cuz he was acting funny. the same day we got back together. A couple of days later he broke up with me cuz he say it didn't feel right cheating on me. ( he was cheating on me). I just went to his little sister's birthday party today and he told me he was sorry and that he wants me back. What should I do I still love him,

2007-07-15 14:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by Lindsey Lu Lu 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a few questions... that seem to be a bit puzzling to me over these past few days...

1.How old were you when you had you had your first bf/gf?
2.Did you tell your parents/friends about him/her?
3. At what age do you think is suitable for someone to have a bf/gf? (opinion question)
Thank-you for answering in advance.

2007-07-15 14:14:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long were you in love before you married?

2007-07-15 14:13:55 · 13 answers · asked by ♫Magali♫ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What does this mean??

2007-07-15 14:12:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-15 14:12:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i look 12-14

2007-07-15 14:09:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 14:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel like if I stay at my moms house too long I hurt my dad's feelings...what do i do!!!!???

2007-07-15 14:04:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok what can i do with him on his weekends he takes me everyother weekend and i really messed up with him what is something special i can do with him ??

2007-07-15 14:00:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-15 13:55:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Gender, age, # of years married.
2. What does marriage mean to you?
3. Why do we have the institution of marriage in our society?
4. What are the benefits of marriage?
5. What is the male’s role(s) in marriage?
6. What is the female’s role in marriage?
7. Where did you get these ideas regarding the roles of marriage?
8. Did you and your partner discuss these roles prior to getting married?
9. What is the most likely thing(s) to cause problems in a marriage?
10. What are your views on who takes care of the children if you have any?
11. Why is this your view?

2007-07-15 13:55:00 · 9 answers · asked by islnd_inthe_sun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my stomack iz a lil big

2007-07-15 13:54:55 · 5 answers · asked by Erika B 1 in Family

2007-07-15 13:52:03 · 39 answers · asked by ragincajun87123 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to move on and do what is best for the kids who are 6, 11 and 13. We have opened up dialogue but still she is not ready to sit down and discuss important issues. The kids want changes in visitation, discussion of vacation times and that kind of stuff. Why go through the courts when two adults should be able to work this out among themselves?

2007-07-15 13:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-15 13:48:14 · 19 answers · asked by aurora546 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 already and my mom still treats me like a kid and it's really annoying. If I could afford it, I would move out but I can't right now. She gets mad if I go out with friends at night and expects me to be home at a "decent" time. Then she harasses me out of bed in the morning, tells me when to go to bed at night, doesn't let me leave the house until my bedroom is clean to her standards (my definition of clean is different from hers)...and the list goes on. She calls my name every 2 minutes...i'm not even kidding. Sadly enough, not to sound like a ***** but it's to the point where I find her annoying. It's really lame. I'm an adult! How do I get her to leave me alone and let me make my own decisions? Apparently, as much as I do isn't enough for her. She's always negative about everything. I'm not that bad of a person.

2007-07-15 13:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by Thing 5 in Family

My wife has abandoned me and our 3 little kids this weekend to be with a younger man out of town, and she is gonna leave me as of tomorrow and also leaving our kids and all. I work full time and have a place for my kids to go, but what do I need to do for help? Can I get assistance anywhere until she pays me cause she is also unemployed. Please tell me what I need to do, and be serious about it, cause this is 13 years here, and my 3 kids are ages 8 and under........

2007-07-15 13:45:58 · 8 answers · asked by heymrdj1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-15 13:45:41 · 8 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

why

2007-07-15 13:45:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my older sis get along sometimes!and like she always tells my mom everything i tell her and i get introble and all she does is laugh when i get introble and today i got introble because of her cause she told my mom that i have myspace and my hates that i have that!and when she found out she yelled at me and hit wtih a brush really hard on my arm!and it hurt and i was crying for hours!i hate my sis soo much for what she got me introble for!but yea!what should i do?

2007-07-15 13:45:08 · 27 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Singles & Dating