2007-07-15 13:48:14 · 19 answers · asked by aurora546 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, let's take a look at your choice of words.
A GIRL enjoys being with a bad guy, but a woman/lady wants to be with a good guy.
It's all about maturity. Some in the female species have it, and some don't. Seek out those who do, and don't lose any sleep over the others.
2007-07-15 13:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Miles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excellent question. As a nice guy, I have had this experience too. My guess for an answer, though, is that bad boys are trouble makers and trouble making is exciting, it's "fun". The nice guys are husband material. So what kind of guy the girl goes after says something about the girl and her approach to dating. Does she see dating as a way to "hook up" and "have fun" with different people at different times? Or does she see dating as a way to find a potential life partner? I don't know about you, but I look at dating as a way to find my future wife. (Thankfully, it looks like I've found her.) Good luck to you.
2007-07-15 20:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some reason it is sex appeal.
I guess most girls kinda think that if they are strong in public then they are strong every where else.
All I know is that the bad boys tend to have more problems then the nice guys.
Girls are weird and I have the Right to say that!
2007-07-15 20:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all girls do that. But honestly, I think often it's because the nice guys don't make a move, they don't go after what they want. The "bad" guys do.
personally, I go for the nice guys, but all of the nice guys I know aren't interested in me (a nice girl). They go after the blonde bimbos with no brains or personality. So, it's easy to go after a guy who shows interest after being jilted so many times.
the nice guys need to step it up and go after what they want!
2007-07-15 20:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thrill of having a bad boy just excites some women...I'm not really interested in them because they aint nothing but trouble
2007-07-15 20:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lilmomma23223 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't. There was one time I had a crush on a jerk, possibly because he was kinda wild and I was bored with my life, but once the crush wore off, he was ancient history. I married the nice guy.
2007-07-15 20:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ambivalence 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad guys are the alpha males. They treat them like dirt and the women throw themselves at them.
2007-07-15 20:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not aggressive enough. The bad boy gets what he wants because he at least tries. While a lot of times, you're sitting there 'respecting me' when I wish you'd be undressing me. So it's all a matter of attitude.
2007-07-15 20:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what can be dumb about us girls? We may choose the hotter bad boy, and totally look through the sweet caring MAN. I don't understand why we do it, but I stopped doing that it's so... wrong. I hope things work out.
2007-07-15 20:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
most guyz dat treat girls wit respect are mostly only friends n dats how they want to keep it...girls go 4 d bad boys because they see an adventure wit them...but if u show a girl respect n flirt wit her...believe me they will fall 4 u
2007-07-15 20:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by bgirl stacey!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋