Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

okay is it wrong for your boy friend to look on the internet at girls in bikini thongs and porn?
it makes me feel as if im not good neough for him!
is it wrong or am i right!
i mean i only live with the guy!!

2007-07-15 15:07:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And it was covered with Nascar or other sport memorabilia, or posters of women in bikinis or nude.

My friend Juniors house is covered with the Nascar stuff (he's in his mid 20's) And my friend Dan who's almost 30 collects all the Star Wars stuff!!I keep telling them women don't like this stuff.

Also i have been to ladies houses that collect Frog or Cats stuff.

Is this weird? How would you handle it if you went to your new boyfriends/girlfriends house and saw this crap?

2007-07-15 15:04:40 · 25 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Singles & Dating

Well ok, I'm depressed, I think it might be clinically, but anyway it has a nasty side effect of being angry alot and easily, basically, i'm short tempered. By the way, I'm 13. So I have a girl friend and well I told her about it and stuff but I don't think she understands or something. Either way, she's had enough. And she's sick of me treating her that way. So we're still really good friends (It's like 2 days later) but I still really love her. I said sorry and promised to try and fix it if we got back together again but she does'nt believe I can. I have some remedies I found online. What Do I tell her I can't live without her. Also if you have any good anger management strategies please post them. Very Grateful for answers. Thank you so much.

2007-07-15 15:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by spunjb 3 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't Email, call, or ask me to hang out with him? Should i break up with him?

2007-07-15 15:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by hi whats up? 2 in Singles & Dating

I had my,who is now 21 years old,and his Father has not been intouch with ether of us since my son was 18months old,that was when he last seen me or my son,He moved away from the area,not a card for my sons birthdays or xmas card nothing at all,but his Mother and Father,have aways been incontact with my son,every birthday and xmas,there would be cards and presents of the grandparents,and has my son reached an age where he would go and visit them by his self,Id say the past 5years there as been weekly contact beween my son and the grandparents,which i aproved off,and he has just turned 21 in June,and he started getting pains in his chest,and loss of breath,he was at work and he took a really bad turn,his heart beat had shoot up to 240beats per min,after three days of medication to see if any would slow the heart down,none worked so they electric shooked him,yes regular beats now,thankgod,All of a sudden his Father been intouch wanting to dsee him I dont know what to do HELP PLEASE.

2007-07-15 15:02:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you had to do it all over again would you marry your current spouse? Not saying that you don't love them but has it all been worth it? Would you do it all again?

2007-07-15 15:02:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a hot guy right now at the park in my town what should??????

p.s. i like him

2007-07-15 15:01:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 15:00:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know my hubby cheated on me though maybe no sexual relationship with that women. He has since stop all contacts from her. However, I lost the trust that I used to have in him. I become paranoid easily. I can't forget what he did and keep imagine what he actually did with that women doing those few months. It really hurts me.

2007-07-15 14:58:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've been dating for almost three months now. he's a really sweet guy and we like each other alot. he won't kiss me. we hold hands and we've hugged (once). we've talked about kissing. and he says he wants to. but he knows i'm not a leader; i'm a follower. so why won't he make the first move? am i doing something wrong?

2007-07-15 14:56:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And what do you do at a reception. I'm going to a wedding on Saturday. And my dad told me that the wedding is about 1 hour long or less and the reception can go from hours on end. i was wondering what happens at receptions? Do you have any ideas?

2007-07-15 14:56:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my friend and i casually call our 2 guys friends Joe and Peter if they want to go out somewhere. they keep saying "maybe, il call u later n let u know" or just "i dunno yet il call u" and they rarely do!! they invite us out rarely and reccently we turned them down (saving our pride). today i called Peter and asked if he wants to go to a bar.. he said "im busy now but we might, im not sure wat im doing after, il call u.. he still didnt call so my friend texted him later and asked wat he was doing, he said hes out with his friends!! so i wrote him a mean text msg saying "u didnt even call to say u werent cuming! u have great manners" he texted back saying "dont be mad, its my birthday already (2:00 am is literallly a new day and it is his bday) so i can do whatever I want".. i replied saying "i dont care whether its ur bday or ur grandmas bday, people shud have manner and u clearly dont!"

the reason we keep calling them is coz we need company and wanna hangout cus they r fun! help!

2007-07-15 14:55:26 · 29 answers · asked by babycake 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy at work but i am not sure if he likes me.. should i give him my number or not? and if so.. how do i do it?

2007-07-15 14:53:32 · 17 answers · asked by Brittney H 1 in Singles & Dating

He wants to finger me and I said no. He is older than me by 7 years and he has already forced me to kiss him, his hand and mouth was all over my breasts without my permission but I let it happen. He says he loves me and can't resist me and I'm his girlfriend so he sort of thinks he owns me.

2007-07-15 14:52:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, this is the story: I drove 5 1/2 hours to go pick up my 15 year-old step-daughter, and we had a GREAT time (at least I thought). My husband had to leave for a couple of days (he owns his own business and had to fix some equipment located in a town close to my step-daughter's house) and was leaving her in my care. She told my husband that she didn't like me, didn't want anything to do with me, and didn't want to talk to me and even called her mom to talk her mom into coming to get her.

When she called her mother, she said, "I don't like her, and I don't like him." She did this is the presence of my 6 year-old son and eight year-old daughter--my son started crying because he thought she was talking about them. She caused a lot of problems with my husband and my husband's ex-wife...I have tried to stay neutral.

My husband and I have been married for 13 years.

What would you do in my situation??

2007-07-15 14:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by futureteacher0613 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this is the story: I drove 5 1/2 hours to go pick up my 15 year-old step-daughter, and we had a GREAT time (at least I thought). My husband had to leave for a couple of days (he owns his own business and had to fix some equipment located in a town close to my step-daughter's house) and was leaving her in my care. She told my husband that she didn't like me, didn't want anything to do with me, and didn't want to talk to me and even called her mom to talk her mom into coming to get her.

When she called her mother, she said, "I don't like her, and I don't like him." She did this is the presence of my 6 year-old son and eight year-old daughter--my son started crying because he thought she was talking about them. She caused a lot of problems with my husband and my husband's ex-wife...I have tried to stay neutral.

What would you do in my situation??

2007-07-15 14:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by futureteacher0613 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is Georgina's brother. I'm gay... and my dad is VERY, VERY homophobic. He has also just gotten of alcohol and I don't want to risk shocking him into drinking more. (Thats also why I haven't already told him). I tried to get my sister to tell him, but he just laughed at her... he needs me to tell him... how do I do it.

BTW I'm Catholic... (he's not) but my church believes strongly that gay marrige is ok b/c it's worse not to be true to yourself

2007-07-15 14:42:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

strong attraction and pit of the stomach want for..or someone u know would never hurt u and has been ur friend and would make a great parent and generally make u happy but not that butterflies in the stomach feeling.. I dont wanna hear both because im getting alittle older and want things in my life I dont think I can hold out for both...

2007-07-15 14:40:41 · 9 answers · asked by cece715 3 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i decided to cancel/postpone our august 4, 2007 wedding. we're still together and in the process of working on our relationship.
i was told the according to proper ettiquette, we should return our shower gifts. we in the process of writing our thank you cards for our guests but also want to add on the thank you card that since our wedding is no longer taking place(for the time being), we want to guest to know they have the option for us to return their gift.
we neeeeeed help on how should we word this!!!!
HELP!!

2007-07-15 14:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married on aug 25th. I started mailing out my invitations to my family members etc... and when i got halfway through my wedding planner forgot to tell me to include a stamp with the RSVP. So half of my invitations did not have a stamp on them. My Side of the family are complaining about me not putting a stsmp on my RSVP. First of all i did not know that i was supposed to include one but now i know. Should i worry about this at all????????? I mean they should not be mad or talk about me, about something that is so small.......

2007-07-15 14:35:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm a 14 years old.i've completely normal i have friends and i hang out with people a lot.i like a normal healthy life, but until it comes to relationships.i am always being asked out by boys and i turn them down even if i like them it's like i'm afriad to get close to them.it's not like i think i'm fat or ugly i mean i'm thin and i'm no beauty i'm just your average pretty girl (is what i'm told) i don't think i'm ugly because a lot of boys like me.i mean i've been with a boy and they go to kiss me and i pull away and i won't make out with anyone. what wrong with me?

2007-07-15 14:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve been with my GF for 4 ½ years now. We’re pretty serious but, not talking marriage. She has ADHD and I have dealt w/ it since we started dating. Recently she has lost her self-esteem to the point if I bring up the family talk she crys. She is very comfortable around my family and they want to get to know her but, she’s scared of my mom’s opinions about stuff. So she won’t try to learn to get along w/ her. Everybody else she’s fine with. It took her over a year to visit w/ my family for an 8 hour visit to see them at a camp ground. I love her a lot but, either her ADHD is getting worse or she doesn’t want to learn to get along with them. I’m very close of letting her go….I’ve tried for this long to see if she would gain confidence to see them but nothing. Any opinions?

2007-07-15 14:34:58 · 4 answers · asked by detech69 2 in Singles & Dating

when ur in high school all that goes on is drama. u break up with ur bf, u fail a test, u hate ur parents, and so on.

2007-07-15 14:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Friends

Me and my ex really had no reason on breaking up but he still looks at me in a not a friend way a more girlfriend way i want him back but i dont no how bc. i dont want to call and seem desperate but i called once and he didint anwser but he told me to call him anytime to talk about stuff.....i have no clue what to say or do please help me this hurts to much i miss him

2007-07-15 14:32:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

haven't we all said
why can't i just meet somebody that loves me for me??
or when will i meet my dream guy/girl??
have u ever asked these questions to urself?
do we all want love* or is that jus me!! lol

2007-07-15 14:31:53 · 23 answers · asked by peaceekisses 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy from your college came up to you and asked u out but u didnt know him, but u've seen him around and he looks good (not great) would u...

a) go out with him
b) think he is confident
c) player
d) loser & desperate

2007-07-15 14:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by puaballa 1 in Singles & Dating

you see it on T.V all the time.. on shows like " Friends and Sex and the City" but in reality is it bad or no?

2007-07-15 14:30:27 · 24 answers · asked by shanekwah 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my early 30's and with the same person for 12 years (I've been cheated on, ignored..the whole 9)...3 kids later I have no feelings for him...we've tried counseling and staying together for the kids...common sense says to part ways but he wants to keep trying and says I'm cold. I say you only get one shot at life and I don't want to be miserable at mine. Any thoughts from people who've been where I am? Thanks!

2007-07-15 14:29:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

assuming that they were both not wearing any shoes.

2007-07-15 14:29:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend who is 15 (guy) has 3 older brothers and 4 younger siblings, his father was sent to jail for abuse and there mother is in the hospital sick so due to the conditions his older brothers 20, 22, 23 are allowd to ground him. there really nice guys and there all very close , but hes been really getting into some bad stuff. do you think that he should be punished by them?

2007-07-15 14:29:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family