Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

2007-07-15 03:13:18 · 22 answers · asked by darsani 1 in Friends

I am a stay at home mom of 4, two teens from my first marriage and twins (3 yrs) in my current marriage. My husband truck drives, is rarely home, so I could stay home with twins. His parents, live only an hour away, retired, financially fit, and only her active in church, no other activities or clubs. They constantly make un-needed home "repairs" to fill their time. They have seriously only been to our house, as I feel I should not have to travel with twins to them, like 8 times, this includes the 2 times they came to the NICU when they were born. We have been there the same amount of times, due to Thanksgiving/Christmas. Her oldest and seemingly only grandson, 20 with no job, is her shining star. Anyway, my mother in law informed me in a phone call that my twins should be potty trained, she trained her shining star at 18 months because his mom was too lazy. So was she indicating she thinks I'm lazy? She has no idea how hard I work all day! SAHMs work more than an outside job!

2007-07-15 03:12:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sheila 6 in Family

I'am just a normal guy. Actually I just get love with someone this is first time in my life so can anyone help me. I want to know actually what does girl realy need in their life. she once asked me how to prove if I realy love her. so I don't know how to prove to her. sa can anyone tell me what should I do to prove my love to her. as you can see this is my first time. it just start suddenly.

2007-07-15 03:07:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dance after the dinner speeches etc. help!!

2007-07-15 03:06:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-15 03:04:23 · 26 answers · asked by edugirl 1 in Singles & Dating

After having worked hard and planned your life the way you want it, did it turn out the way it was supposed to or better? Did it work?

2007-07-15 03:00:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am in school and my bf want me to live with him and get marry and just and i am19 and love this guy and my dad dont want me with him my dad keeps telling he is not for me

2007-07-15 02:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy and he asked me out like at beginning of school year when i first had a crush on him, i said no cuz i was too busy with school.ok later on the year he asks me out again then he dumps me 2 days later.sometime around the last week of school, he asks me out AGAIN. ok back then he had a crush in our class called amber. she's really popular, and hes unpopular like me. he said he still liked me but liked her better. few days later one of my bff tells me he likes this other girl but asked me out cuz he don't want her to know he still likes ariel, this other girl.cuz he asked both amber and ariel out and they both turned him down.so far i'm the only one who he asked out that said yes. so anyways should i dump him or should i just keep going out with him?plz help thx guys

2007-07-15 02:59:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents have been fighting since before i was born and they always do it in front of me. They've thought of getting a divorce more than 10 times and are in the midst of another "divorce". My dad blames me for all the fights and my mom expects me to stop them. The last time I did try and stop the fight, it became physical and I got beaten by my dad and he was arrested. I want them to get a divorce but i don't think they even know what they want. My mom always drags my dad's family into the fight and my dad yells at my mom and for every little thing. They've gotten therapy but nothing works. I just don't know why they don't freakin get a divorce. When I don't get involved they blame me and when I do they still blame me for their fights. Someone please just talk to me, I dont know what to do anymore.

2007-07-15 02:56:34 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i have been married 3 yrs now and its been an extremely rock road.I dated my husband for 2.5 yrs during college it was love at first sight whem we first met and case of polar opposites attracting.I am Catholic and he is Jewish but we also have very different mind sets.Our problems started after our son (unplanned)who is almost 3 yrs old now was born and i refused to convert to juadism.We fight non -stop on how our son should be raised he wants him brought up jewish and i want him brought up with both religions.This led to a seperation for a year and since my hubby moved back in a few week ago fighting has resumed on a new topic.While doing some research on my family history with my cousin for her school project discovered my great gran dad was a nazi.I am a Latina of mixed european extract so its not like i saw this comming?I understand he has family members who survived the war but
now my husband looks at me like i was the devil?

2007-07-15 02:55:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we've been best friends for ever...and shes changed and last night got so drunk she had sex with a boy she hardly knew. please help, how should i react? im so disapointed in her...

2007-07-15 02:54:08 · 21 answers · asked by sexynnhoos 1 in Friends

2007-07-15 02:45:21 · 19 answers · asked by samb2468 1 in Friends

One emotion everyone in the world is aware of... LOVE.

Whether its love for; friends, family or romance.... we all have the able to love someone.

but what about when love turns sour? ... you get dumped. your sister says she hates you.... your parents are disappointed... your friend back stabs you. Love hurts doesn't it? Everyone gets heartbroken at one point...

How can you or do you get over the pain of a broken heart? When you are in love... how do you stop yourself from loving the person?.... Basically... whats your scoop on love.. what do YOU have to say about yourself & love...

2007-07-15 02:42:07 · 11 answers · asked by TeRi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey there. So, i've been w/ someone for 7 months. We don't live together, but he's here alot. I have 2 kids, 9 & 10. They are great kids...but I am not a tough disaplinarian..I leave that to thier dad (he rules w/ an iron fist..I don't ..) So, this guy says he's in it for "Me" he fell in love with me...and he says the kids are his biggest 'issue'. What do you do when you are so in love with a man...but he doesn't have kids of his own, he's almost childishly jelous of my kids and says if he moves in (which is NOT the plan right now) that they will not come first in a home he pays for. (He told me to work PT for summer and he is paying for a home he does not live in because he thought it would be best for the kids if I am at home..I start FT the week school starts) The biggest issue he says is 'respect' and 'disapline' ....Where do I go with this? He was rulesd by an iron fist too...but when he is with them..he is soooo good with them, better then thier own dad...my kids worship him.

2007-07-15 02:38:33 · 15 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 18 years of age, and he is also. well we are mates, but there has always been something between us. earlier this year we hooked up at a party and spent the night together... after this everything was fine, nothing different just the odd flirtation. but about a month later we just stopped speaking all together and just acknowledged each other when sited. but recently, surprising actually,he text me real interested in how i was & wat i was up to. then we went out the next night with other mates also & he started sending me xoxo's. this continued. then he invited me over & we just talked/hung out, but he sat very close to me on the couch. He also stares at me and smiles. but when his mates are around his just different-doesn't sit as close or look at me much. my best mate thinks he likes me & wants a relationship, were im just not sure.

2007-07-15 02:37:47 · 14 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 02:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Aanchal Gupta 1 in Weddings

there is this guy on mypace that i know from seeing eachother out and about throughout the year, we have mutual friends. I saw him out one night and had a little too much to drink and acted silly,so I sent him a message the next day apologizing,he did not respond so i sent him another message the next day saying he was suppose to accept my apology,he responded with,'im pacing myself', what do you get from that?

2007-07-15 02:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

she is a mutual friends sister and another mutual friends ex, and you think she is super cute and run into her one night when she is still so upset about catching her ex(your mutual friend)cheating on her,you listened to her and understand, if she invites you over to stay with her,would you? and if you did and held her till she slept,would you always remember her?

2007-07-15 02:32:00 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like this is a stupid question, but I want to hear what you think...

Do you think that a man WOULD NOT be interested in a woman with a PhD? Or would this be viewed as a good thing?

2007-07-15 02:29:31 · 13 answers · asked by fyi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can he get into trouble with the military? The woman is now divorced.

2007-07-15 02:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by alana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you approach a girl you dont know and ask 4 her number?

2007-07-15 02:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm running in circles and I can't catch my breath.
I'm 40 y/o,mother of 2 girls(6&2) work 2-3 nights at work 12 hour shifts. My husband (a very good man) works 6 nights a week and church on Sun.mornings as a muscian/singer. I am overwhelmed with trying to keep up with all my responsibilites, and my work is extremely demmanding I'm on my feet all night. I am plannining our vaction, which will me fun for them and work for me. My MD put me on an anti-depressant a year ago which has taken the edge off, but I still feel like I'm heading for the "nut" house.
Is there any other moms that feel this way?

2007-07-15 02:07:55 · 6 answers · asked by m8kitup 2 in Family

Hi.
i was talking to a freind yesterday, who said that he diddnt think girls that are not pretty should date.;
I think thats really bad and shallow, but he says, most boys would prefer it that way..
Is this true, that most 15 - 20 yr old guys think girls that are not pretty shouldn't date???
Thank you to all helpful answers in advance
=)

2007-07-15 02:06:04 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught my husband talking and emailing to his ex girlfriend.I checked his cell phone bills and there were numerous calls made to her in the middle of the night,or at work etc. We have been married 5 yrs now,I always thought he is very loyal to me and I never had a single doubt that he would cheat on me.I confronted him and he said,that woman (his ex) would keep calling him and needed to talk to him as a freind.And he was just hiding from me because he did not know how I would react......What should I do,should I trust him again?...also F.Y.I we live in US and he has been making international calls to her and vice-versa. And also,I am 10 weeks pregnant (our first child) and his excuse was that he was anyway going to stop all communication with her as soon as he found out I was pregnant and the last few calls he made to her was to tell her to stop!!!!!!

2007-07-15 01:56:23 · 25 answers · asked by Desiladkiinusa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im buying a birthday gift for avery close friend of mine. what do you think is better Tiffany and Co. or Swarovski jewelry?i want it to be a very specal gift,we grew up together. She is turnig 20 if that helps. Please let me know what you think.

2007-07-15 01:55:23 · 3 answers · asked by Paola M 1 in Friends

I feel really bad. I'm 27 and there is a 16 year old teen who has a crush on me. He asks me out and tells me he is in love with me and how he thinks I'm sexy. He also tries to give me gifts which I tell him I can't accept. My best friend is also friends with the 16 yr old, and will invite him out when we eat lunch, the 16yr old will always try to buy lunch for me. He also tells me that he wants to lose his virginity to me, and about how he is lonely....

I DO NOT want to hurt his feelings because I know how it felt to be a lonely teen, I'm trying to find the best way to explain that he is just way too young, how can I do this nicely? what would be the nicest yet Firmest way to tell him he is making me uncomfortable and he is too young?

2007-07-15 01:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by Didi M 1 in Friends

Mum?
or maybe Dad?

2007-07-15 01:47:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel really bad. I'm 27 and there is a 16 year old teen who has a crush on me. He asks me out and tells me he is in love with me and how he thinks I'm sexy. He also tries to give me gifts which I tell him I can't accept. My best friend is also friends with the 16 yr old, and will invite him out when we eat lunch, the 16yr old will always try to buy lunch for me. He also tells me that he wants to lose his virginity to me, and about how he is lonely....

I DO NOT want to hurt his feelings because I know how it felt to be a lonely teen, I'm trying to find the best way to explain that he is just way too young, how can I do this nicely? what would be the nicest yet Firmest way to tell him he is making me uncomfortable and he is too young?

2007-07-15 01:43:09 · 27 answers · asked by Didi M 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think our matches are already fixed before our births and we would marry the person whom God has chosen for us

2007-07-15 01:42:40 · 37 answers · asked by Answer Freak 3 in Weddings

2007-07-15 01:32:09 · 12 answers · asked by mia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships