i am in school and my bf want me to live with him and get marry and just and i am19 and love this guy and my dad dont want me with him my dad keeps telling he is not for me
2007-07-15 02:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing to say is: Follow your heart. If you love him and want to move in, then do so.
2007-07-15 03:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to get engaged, that's great. Get some pre marriage counseling though, because you are still a little young. Dad would probably like to see you both be mature, and financially responsible first so that you will not have unnecessary pressures on your marriage (marriage requires a lot of work). Think it through... make a budget... see if it's logical at this time in your life and if you are ready to give up school to do this... you can't expect dad to pay for it if you are married.... Take your time and choose wisely...
2007-07-15 03:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dulos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you and your bf are still kinda young to get married. But maybe your Dad knows something you don't. SO why not just just be gf/bf for a while and see how it goes before moving in with him. Because I can tell you this one thing. Once you move in with him he will want you to wash dishes, cook, wash clothes clean the apartment and he won't help because he will tell you men don't do women's work. So think about it first before diving right in.
2007-07-15 03:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your dad. He has more experience and knowledge than you. Tell this guy that if he loves you he will marry you and not just live with you. Give yourself a few more years before you get so involved. You need an education.
2007-07-15 03:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school first, then go with the guy IF you love him. Then at least if something goes wrong, you still have a degree. Don't get married too soon though. And listen to your father's advice, he probably gives it for good reason.
2007-07-15 03:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
School's a pretty tough time to get married. Wait until you graduate to get married. If it was meant to be, you'll still be together. Also, trust your parent's decision at least a little bit, try to understand what he's saying about this guy and why.
2007-07-15 03:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by simpsonsfan35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are asking this question. you , yourself know it is not the right thing. Your father will lawasy have your best interest. if this guy is for you he'll be for you in the next five years or so. dotn mo;ve in with him oyou canhave feelings for someone and not move in. and remember sex is not love and it bonds people in a way that is not always love. be careful :)
2007-07-15 03:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TELL YOUR FATHER WANT YOU FELL ABOUT HIM MYBE HE IS NOT THE GUY FOR LOVE IS HARD TO BE IN REBMBER YOU OUR SEE HIM HE A GOOD WAY BUT SOME PEOPLE SEE DIFTEND SO BEFORE YOU LIVE WITH BE SURE HE DOSE HURT YOU OR DRINK THATS NO GOOD I HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT INSTERNDET
2007-07-15 03:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by diane e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if a guy is willing to let his gf drop out of school just to be with him, he ain't worth your time, girl.
and then get married??? definitely not.
you should stay focused. don't ruin your life by dropping out of school & getting married for some guy who clearly has no respect for you.
2007-07-15 03:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a title or finish your education first. you can't eat love, and there's no guarantee you two will always be together. marriage is a huge thing, think about it wisely. love is blind, but you shouldn't be blind too.
2007-07-15 03:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dolphin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋