Family & Relationships - 15 July 2007

I really like him and i want to be his. So i go to the Ukie Resort and he goes there ALL summer and i usually see most of the holidays. So, last night was the best night of my life, there was a festival and i went with my bff and i saw him there and later when the proformences were going on me and my bff wanted to "watch" it (yea right) and there was like a couple places open to stand over the veranda anyway i stood by him of course. Later i looked at him a couple of times and my heart was beated so freakin hard. He then sat behind me and i looked at him more then my friend said he was looking at me with a deep stare...<3! later he then stood by me again and i could see with the corner of my eye again he was staring at me again with the deep stare. Then later my bff wanted to leave so i left and i said bye but he didn't hear me (im shy and quite) I don't know what to do i really like this guy. Does he like me, How do i get him to ask me out we r both shy, i don't know wat to do? HELP

2007-07-15 10:25:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's mentally handicapped, but it's not severe. He thinks I'm supposed to find him one. What do I tell him? He's 25 I figured out long ago that he probably wouldn't have one, but I don't know what to tell him.

2007-07-15 10:25:31 · 5 answers · asked by nursesr4evr 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to move out of state but have questions about custody of 5 year old. I would like to accept a very promising job offer, however it is in Wisconsin, and I live in California. I have a five year old son who does have a relationship with his father, however, I am very worried that his father's alcoholism is going to have a negative affect in the future. We don't have any custody agreement in place, and my son has been in my care since he was born with and has had arranged visitiations with his father. His father doesn't have his own place, he lives with his mother, and smokes a lot of pot, and of course drinks a lot (he's had 3 DUIs), and has no license. If I tell him I'm moving, and he doens't like it, what can he do to keep me here, and can I use his drinking and other habits to fight for full physical and legal custody? I don't want to start a big fight, but can I go even if he doesn't approve of the move? Should I file for full custody after I leave or before?

2007-07-15 10:23:46 · 6 answers · asked by AnswerWhore 2 in Family

I ask because when I told my friends that I do it at least 5 times a week they look at me like if I am a freak!! I think that its nice to still have that pasion for each other after all this time.

2007-07-15 10:22:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have liked this girl for a long time now, and i saw her changing in school so i peeked, And i dont normally do this im a strong beliver in female rights, but anyway, she found out i liked her and that i was spying on her when she changed. So she invited me round to her when her parents wernt in and asked me ''So you like me then?'' and then i unwillingly admitted i did, and she was understanding, and heres the strange thing, she started taking off my clothes and her cloths and before i know it im naked and shes half naked..she starts to toy with me.. in a sexual way teasing me ect. she had me against the wall and out came her friends from her bedroom door, and they laugh, suddenly i feel a sharp pain in my groin and then i had relised she the girl i liked has kneed or kicked me there, i fell on the floor and then she continued to sqeeze and kick my male area, and her friend held me back and also attacked my area.. and after that they took pictures and i was left Imasculated.Help

2007-07-15 10:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hurt

2007-07-15 10:17:43 · 1 answers · asked by sharon c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my brother's best friend is one year older than me and we are pretty good friends. but then, one day he cam up to me and told me that "he knew i liked him". i did not know where in the world it came from but i was freaked out b/c i really don't like him. he told the whole school and most believed him. now, alot of my mom's friends and even my brother in law think that i like him and it makes me so mad because i really don't!!!!!!!! i hate his guts now(i know that's not very good to do but in this situation i can't avoid it)!!! what should i do?! and what should i say to him!?? please no stupid answers! i really need help on this!

2007-07-15 10:16:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a virgin and I'm worried about STDs. There's always a chance a girl could lie to me about how many partners she's had or if she's always had "safe" sex. Condoms aren't 100% effective. A lot of people who have STDs dont show any symptoms and dont even know they have it.

How can I ever trust someone to take that risk? How do you not worry about STDs nowadays?

2007-07-15 10:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by sspence966 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 10:15:37 · 17 answers · asked by twistedsisters 1 in Weddings

my best friend hasn't called me in a week cause she went to her dads and she usually calls me and now she hasn't ina week? how come?

2007-07-15 10:14:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I start tomorrow and I am really nervous . I am nervous that he will not tell the full truth or that he will just give up cause he will actually hear how I feel about things . I m also scared to tell how I really feel about things cause I am afraid that he will just leave . How do I deal with this one and also I hear alot by the time ppl make it to marrital counseling it is to late is this true ? Did it help your marriage and did yourmarriage change for the better ?

2007-07-15 10:12:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-15 10:11:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. He is warm and caring toward me. He was divorced shortly before we met. He never talks about his ex-wife, however, I have asked about her. We have talked about her twice. It appears they had an unhappy marriage that ended after four years. She cheated on him and liked to party a lot.
My concern is that I am very jealous about his ex with no reason. I have found pictures of them together in a closet, along with paperwork such as old tax returns and marriage license. I am very embarrassed about my snooping and would never admit it to anyone. I also found her on myspace and contacted her with an alias. When she responded I felt guilty and ended correspondence right away. One interesting thing that resulted from this was that I realized she was a nice person and that we had a lot of common. I should feel good about this. Still, my jealousy persists.

I would appreciate any advice as to how to deal with this. Thank you

2007-07-15 10:09:49 · 15 answers · asked by luckyone_95 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont get it, how i can be nice and polite to someone, and they can be so mean , and a so called "best friend". She will get mad at me over the littlest things, and i know that if it was someone else that did it she wouldnt get mad at them over it, so why me?

2007-07-15 10:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by LuckY GirL 4 in Friends

hi
my friend got married last year in India and he lives in UAE (Dubai). his wife left Dubai with her own wish. he is separated for 6months now, tell me how can he get divorce in Dubai without going to India. his wife was forcing him to live in India & he is happy in Dubai. after 5moths of separation she wants to come back.
pls let me know all the possibilities of geting divorce. pls send to my email ur reply.

2007-07-15 10:08:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom and fiance have gone round and round about what colors to use. I know for sure we are having pink and cream roses so what type of dress color would look the best? i thought about a mint green of some sort. Does that match? Our first choice was latte and mocha but we have decied that is too dark for a June wedding. Yellow is out also.

2007-07-15 10:07:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok..there was a boy i dated for like 7 months in 7th grade. about 4 months until school was out he got sent to some place that's like a detention center and we broke up. i hadn't gotten to see him or talk to him for 4 months. i've been trying my best to find a way to talk to him and i finally did today. he said he he would be lucky to get out before next summer. i couldn't even take 4 months without seeing him, how am i supposed to take almost a year?? i feel like it's my fault he got sent away. his dad didn't care about him and made up lies about me and said that i was the reason the boy kept running away from home. but i kno i wasn't the reason, the reason was because his dad kept beating him. when he was with me i didn't think i liked him as much but now that he's gone i realized that i do love him. i love him more than anything. i guess what i'm asking is how am i supposed to get over him knowing that everybody thinks it's my fault??

2007-07-15 10:05:51 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda B 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a serious question, ive always heard that

2007-07-15 10:04:31 · 23 answers · asked by Nate 2 in Singles & Dating

i heard that you become REALLY attatched to that person and i was wondering if anyone has ever gone through this or personally know someone who went through this, to what degree, and how it affects those involved.

2007-07-15 10:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to know.

2007-07-15 10:02:29 · 33 answers · asked by m0o0000 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, i love him but i dont get that light headed buzzy feeling when i see him, talk to him or around him. i would never think of dumping him even if its the last thing on my mind. im 15 heis 18 in august, he has promised me we wont do 'anything' till im 16 and ready. i love him for that. whats wrong.
please dont say he's too old for me because i dont reely care, i trust him.

2007-07-15 10:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by Wolfie 3 in Singles & Dating

i m in luv with him frm 2 years.but i feel that he may ignore me bcoz i m 2 young.i hav shifted 2 dubai just 1year before and dont hav much friends to share this .actually he is one of my far relative and i m scared of facing him and his family if ones he rejects me.apart frm this i m a memmber of a strict family and if my fatherr comes 2 know about this he may lose all the trust that he hav upon me .he is a very old minded man who dosent like girls doing anything that may effect our family prestige.so i kindly request all of u plz 2 help me .i will b very thankful 2 all of u whoever helps me.plz plz plz plz

2007-07-15 09:53:03 · 13 answers · asked by shaama 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I just want a part-time job to get by with while I'm attending college and I have been considering Target and Wal-Mart. The obvious choice is Target and I would love to work there but my boyfriend's ex-wife works at a Target (not the same one I'd be applying for). I should be able to work where I want, right? I shouldn't care what she thinks but I guess my immaturity is kicking in! Someone give me some reassurance or advice! Thank you

2007-07-15 09:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend, futute husband, does not want to have a wedding or get me a nice engagement ring. I have been dreaming about this my entire life and I never expected it to be this way. I understand weddings are lot of money which can be put to better use, like our families needs. I agreed to not really have a wedding even though its always been upsetting to me. I have been looking at wedding dresses my whole life and imagining what the day would be like. I figured since we were not having a wedding, some of that money could at least have been put to getting a nice ring but it doesnt seem like thats going to happen.
My boyfriend just says that for him, it will always be about his children and when it comes to getting something nice for me or our kids, they will always come first. I completly agree with that and respect that characteristic in him and I would always put my childrens needs before mine but that doesnt mean that I dont want to have nice things. Am i being selfish?

2007-07-15 09:49:31 · 28 answers · asked by capoeirista 3 in Weddings

I used to be friends with her, She lives 3 doors away from me and she says she will stop if i do what she says. What should i do?

2007-07-15 09:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by smokerdubbs 2 in Friends

I just found out the guy that i like alot, and have hooked up with once or twice is seeing this new girl....and calling her his "babe" It sucks cuz i really like him, and I know that there is something there with him as well....I just dont know what to do. This isnt the first time hes liked/dated another girl while we were talking....I feel like i have to move on, but i know if i do, the chances of us ever seeing each other again is slim to none. (we just graduated, and hes got a busy life, and now with this new girl......who knows when he will find time for me) I feel horrible cuz he can just throw me to the side......all my friends say its time to move on.....i cant make the decision though!! please help!!!!!!

2007-07-15 09:45:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother recently left his wife after she cheated on him twice and he tried to work it out. Since all three of his children's birth he has been the primary caretaker. He has stayed home with them 24/7 . Basically a stay at home dad . No jobs. No vacations. The real deal. His wife has no idea even how to fix their hair or take care of them because he has not done it for so long.
He intends to divorce her and move in with another woman he has met a little after they split. His new partner backs him 100% and is willing to take in the children. The children live with their mother in New York but are absolutely miserbale and talk to my brother about 4 hours a day. There ages range from 5 - 8 . My brother had to leave due to his soon to be ex wife's new found violent nature. She cut him with a broken beer bottle at one point.
My question is , Can he file custody from California with the kids in New York with their mother?

2007-07-15 09:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by Tusker9E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if ur gf or bf dies,
would u be true to them miss them with pride,
or would u move on,,, so u can be happy,,,,
wail ur love things about u even though he or she is death,,
would u move on or would u stay with him or her.
and miss them as they miss you.... r.i.p to all the missed ones.

2007-07-15 09:39:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its like I've given up or something or just so damn fed up with all the lies, the games and the disappointments of thinking that the relationship you are in is going to work. Sometimes I wonder if im doing something wrong and its not like I'm not attractive I am attractive and go on dates but i dont know just cant find anyone that is true to what they say. Its like when you first meet them everything is cool then people start to change and act funny anyone know how im feeling guys/girls.. YEa love sucks

2007-07-15 09:38:15 · 8 answers · asked by Cyntia 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-15 09:37:41 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating