I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, i love him but i dont get that light headed buzzy feeling when i see him, talk to him or around him. i would never think of dumping him even if its the last thing on my mind. im 15 heis 18 in august, he has promised me we wont do 'anything' till im 16 and ready. i love him for that. whats wrong.
please dont say he's too old for me because i dont reely care, i trust him.
2007-07-15 10:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by Wolfie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question. You don't feel that special feeling around him, you'd never think of dumping him (even though you thought it to write down) and you say "please don't say he's too old for me."
Honestly, sounds like you'd be better off without him. Find that one who makes you feel special. Other guys will wait for you and not pressure you. That's the only reason you say that you love him. You can have MORE in a relationship where you wont be pressured and you feel those special feelings.
2007-07-15 10:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by justanotherone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't about some "buzzy feeling" as you call it. That isn't love. You shouldn't ever trap yourself in a relationship with a thought pattern like the one you have. You have already stated that you will never dump him. What if he treats you badly, hurts you in some way, even cheats on you. Don't sit there and say, "That's not possible." because 6 months isn't a long time to really, really get to know someone. I can admit that. I have been with my guy for 6 months. Don't ever close your mind off like you've done to yourself. If something bad happens and you no longer want to be in the relationship, you can leave him. Think of your own well being sometimes. You both shouldn't be worried about some "age you are ready for sex". You may not be ready at 16. Don't put an age on it or you will feel obligated to have sex with him at that age. Love isn't about some feeling. It is something gushy feeling. It is something much, much deeper than that. Lust is some gushy feeling.
2007-07-16 06:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely shouldn't. What is an 18 year old doing with a girl of 15 in the first place? He should know your parents can have him arrested.
Besides that, being in love isn't always about that "buzzy" feeling you talk about.
2007-07-15 10:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont always get that light headed buzzy feeling. youve grown to him. if you can manage without seeing him or communicating with him for a week without dying to talk to him maybe you should dump him. cause tahts a sure sign that youre not attracted and/or love him
2007-07-15 10:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whats 3 years my boyfriend is 4 years older than me age dosent matter!! he sounds like he really respects you waiting 6 months to be with you and obviously the lenght till your 16 thats impressive for a guy he must really like you!!the just meeting butterflys in stomach dosent last forever when you meet first it was lust and now you have became friends you see so ur just so used of him been around it dosent mean that you like him ne less just means that you feel comfortable around him!!*
2007-07-15 10:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
correct hear stable as this became the appropriate suggestion my mom gave me whilst i became 15! (sure human beings do no longer substitute!) even however friendly you think of you're, in no way have confidence yet another lady who's able to being a love rival. many females individuals will stitch up their friends something rotten of their quest to bag a guy, even friendships of many years status. I had a pal from the age of 10 and we've been very close. In my 20s I met a guy that she desperate to return directly to (after she knew we've been an merchandise) he did no longer rejoice along with her interest and informed her that he became with me, and became no longer fascinated. She began to unfold rumours that i became a whore or in spite of and had in basic terms have been given him by spreading my legs and so on. i became incredibly disillusioned by this and tried to talk to her approximately it. She stopped speaking to me for 10 years and we've been in no way close lower back. She in basic terms renewed our "friendship" whilst she needed someplace to stay as her then better half became beating her up. I even have had countless comparable scrapes with so called women individuals pals and can in basic terms assume that my mom became (quite often) correct.
2016-10-03 21:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Light headed fuzzy feelings are called infatuation. Love is wanting him to be happy.
2007-07-15 10:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like him more than you love him.
Be careful you don't want him to go to jail due to his age versus your age. Even if you consent, your parents can sitll get him in trouble.
2007-07-15 10:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man.
You think every person gets that feeling every time they see their bf/gf?
Thank god your young there is nothing wrong.
2007-07-15 10:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by luckyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am usally able to answer that but wow talk to him about the way u feel about him
2007-07-15 10:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by money lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋