ok..there was a boy i dated for like 7 months in 7th grade. about 4 months until school was out he got sent to some place that's like a detention center and we broke up. i hadn't gotten to see him or talk to him for 4 months. i've been trying my best to find a way to talk to him and i finally did today. he said he he would be lucky to get out before next summer. i couldn't even take 4 months without seeing him, how am i supposed to take almost a year?? i feel like it's my fault he got sent away. his dad didn't care about him and made up lies about me and said that i was the reason the boy kept running away from home. but i kno i wasn't the reason, the reason was because his dad kept beating him. when he was with me i didn't think i liked him as much but now that he's gone i realized that i do love him. i love him more than anything. i guess what i'm asking is how am i supposed to get over him knowing that everybody thinks it's my fault??
2007-07-15 10:05:51 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i kno he loves me...or i kno he did. his dad has told him to break up with me for months but he won't. he even said that his dad couldn't keep us apart.
2007-07-15 11:43:43 · update #1
He needs to tell someone about the abuse. By letting you take the blame for his dad's behavior, he's demonstrating that he doesn't love you. He's also just telling you he'll be away for another year rather than giving you an address to write him or a phone number to call him.
2007-07-15 10:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry, i wish i could help u out, but i know how you feel.
2007-07-16 10:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Goliath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋