I used to be friends with her, She lives 3 doors away from me and she says she will stop if i do what she says. What should i do?
2007-07-15 09:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by smokerdubbs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also what she wants me to do is something i really don't want to do.
2007-07-15 09:53:27 · update #1
she was in my college then i exposed her by showing everyone her texts. After that it became much worse. I cant even go outside because she would be following or trying to be friends again
2007-07-15 09:56:38 · update #2
I will try reporting her again. Last time the police only talked to her and she stopped for a week and carried on. The police also dont take the situation serouisly
2007-07-15 10:27:30 · update #3
You never give in to her. That just fuels the fire. Also, make sure lots of people know what she is doing so that they can all help keep an eye on the situation. Stalking is a form of bullying as its designed to have a victim. This sort of behaviour only comes from a troubled mind. You mustn't deal with it all by yourself.
2007-07-15 09:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say "leave me alone or I am calling the police and filling a report". Then, when she doesn't, I would call the police. Make sure you have witnesses. After a few calls she will quit, or you will have enough to get a restraining order. If she violates that, it's jail for her. You don't have to be nice. Don't play her game.
2007-07-15 17:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by ToSunnyMexico 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean you could sit her down and tell her the severity of the situation, and let her know that you can call the cops on her if its really serious. or you could do what she says, but i guess that depends on what shes asking for you to do. but maybe if you just talk to her, nicely but not too overboard, and just let her down lightly. i hope it works out! =)
2007-07-15 16:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Risa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well It depends what she wants you to do. I would sectretly tape a conversation of you talking to her and asking her why she is stalking you then hand it in to police.
2007-07-15 16:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this happen to me except for a boy was stalking me well i threatened him told him i will telll his darkest secert do she any dark secerts or just tell her you don;t like her you need to tell her the truth cause she ain't gonna stop until you tell her something
2007-07-15 16:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by big booty lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.
2007-07-15 16:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants to be the friends you "used to" be or something. talk with her and be up front, even if it means being an asshole x.x
2007-07-15 16:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm speachless honestly
you know ....u just report her
but if it's not that bad...just do what she wants ..just if it's not something awefull or that may hurt your reputation or something .
if it's worse or that bad ...just report her ..i mean she wants you to do something you don't want to do.
so u need to REPORT her.
2007-07-15 17:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by HG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the police!
2007-07-15 16:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeekk!!! tell her you don't like her ..and don't wish to be friends...be strict..!!! face her!!! and tell her parents!!! oh and say ..you won't play her stupid game...she is not the boss of you!!
2007-07-15 17:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by no fear im here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋